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writes:Hi. Ok so there is this girl who liked me and we were great friends. But now over the last few weeks she has been avoiding me and not want to talk at all, and has been very upset with me, as it seems. Coming from the male standpoint I have done nothing wrong or that I am aware of. She just made this dramatic change over a weekend and it has been going on for weeks now. Do you have any suggestions on what is going on? or what I can do? This is killing me. please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk, today was a better because we kinda talked jokingly but she still seems like shes avoiding me. Im not sure what else to do because I have tryed to tell her everything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): Probably she is shy and doesnt want to make a complete fool of herself when she is around you.Tell her how you feel about everything..
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have tryed to talk to her and find out if I did anything wrong or just talking about the situation and she doesn't want to talk to me. she ignores me when Iam around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk well, she knew I liked her. And I was more than willing to be more than friends, and she knew that. Next thing I know, BAM, I lost all of her trust. She doesnt even want to be seen with me or be in the same room. And no I havnt been with another girl or anything for her to even suspect that. I am very confused and sad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk well, she knew I liked her. And I was more than willing to be more than friends, and she knew that. Next thing I know, BAM, I lost all of her trust. She doesnt even want to be seen with me or be in the same room. And no I havnt been with another girl or anything for her to even suspect that. I am very confused and sad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): You should ask her if you did anything.She has feelings for you but maybe she is scared because she knows that you may never have feelings for her so she is trying to get over you.What i think you should do is talk to her.Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007): Im sure she does want more that friendship and maybe she's feeling like she has made a fool of herself. She probably thinks that you dont like her back. Do you like her as more than a friend? What if she doesnt want to waste her time being your friend? But anyways, you probably did do something you're not aware of. Maybe she saw you with another girl, or a friend told her something of that nature.
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reader, Keria  +, writes (25 April 2007):
Hey sweetie, how are we supposed to know? Why don't you just ask her? But if she brushes you off, you know you need to forget about her.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (25 April 2007):
 She liked you, did you like her back? My guess is that she thought that by being your friend she could bring you round to falling in love with her and she's upset it hasn't happened but that's just my instinct considering I don't know either of you. Just ask her if it's making you this sad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2007): maybe she was wanting more than just friendship and you was to blind to notice
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