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writes:i have recently got with a boy and i dont know if i'm over my ex.. i scared i'm on the rebound and will just hurt my boyfriend if i stay with him is it normal to still have feelings for your ex?
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reader, Keria +, writes (26 April 2007):
Yes, it's perfectly normal.
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reader, maree  +, writes (26 April 2007):
Call me a pessimistic but I don't think there is one set person out there for any of us. I guess we just have to find who we are most compatible with and who we know we could be ourselves with. I think its definately normal to have feelings for your ex because obviously once there was something that attracted you to him but you need to put yourself into a frame of mind where you can see that your new boyfriend can offer you more. Maybe write down what you love about both of them and what you don't like. Especially focus on the reasons behind your breakup with the ex. Then keep reminding yourself when ever you have feelings for him, why he was no good for you. Eventually you will forget about him and move onto to better things. Hope this helps!
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (26 April 2007):
 Yes, it is normal to have feeling for your ex for a while. Especially if he was your first boyfriend. But eventually you move on.
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reader, rk06 +, writes (26 April 2007):
 Usually, its a good idea to stay out of a relationship for a while after you break up. I would say yes, it is possible to still have feelings. Just try not to hurt the innocent. :) good luck
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