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writes: This is a question to all women in general as to whether you would reject your guy for the pain you feel while having sex with him? Or in milder case, would you blame or criticize him? Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (25 April 2007):
 If my boyfriend accidentally hurt me while in the bedroom, I wouldn't "blame" him. Mistakes happen! However, if my boyfriend caused me pain and when I vocalized my pain he didn't STOP, then I'd be angry. Rejection is a heavy would, but depending on the situation... perhaps.
If my boyfriend wasn't being considerate of me, he gets critisized. For instance, I hear about girls who have guys go for anal sex without asking or being nice about it. Just shoving their "little friends" in! OUCH. If a guy did that to me, I'd be very angry with him.
Sex is between two people. If a girl accidentally bit you while giving you oral sex, would you blame her? Or reject her? I should hope not.
Once again, accidents happen and for those, one should not be blamed. Or at least, should be forgiven.
xxIndia
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (25 April 2007):
 If the guy had done something that I percieve as painful and it was entirely his fault, yes then I would blame him. If it was because of rough sex (which I enjoyed during the act) which I got a bit tender from, then I wouldn't blame the guy.
And I would only dump him if he kept doing something to me in bed that I found painful and refused to correct his behavior.
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reader, Midge  +, writes (25 April 2007):
 I would never reject him. There can be so many reasons for having pain while you have sex, and the bulk of them are totally normal.
This is just one website which discusses this fact. Read some of it. http://familydoctor.org/669.xml
There are compromises that will assist to ease the pain and make her more comfortable.
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