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writes:Are Good Looks Everything?Hi There, I was just wondering do you think that good looks are everything because i personally dont.. but many of my friends say that 'oooo hes ugly' when its there personality that attracts me to a boy and not just their looks.. Reply to this Question
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reader, lupa-k +, writes (26 April 2007):
A band called the Crocketts once wrote a line in a song with the lyrics:
Its the survival of the prettiest
But every flower withers and dies
And everyone is equal in time
Yes, there are ages when people can be quite shallow, and focus primarily on looks. But good looks aren't everything - think about it, would you rather be in a relationship with someone good looking who treated you like dirt or someone less attractive that treats you like a princess.
Of course attraction does come into relationships, but the human species is a wonderful thing in that what is found by people to be attractive varies so much. Some people like certain types, others don't. My advice would be to just go for what suits you, there is no need to follow the herd
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reader, XXpussycatXX +, writes (26 April 2007):
hya hun
na personally i think that personality is the main part in a guy looks dont matter a bit even though they do help personality is the main thing
put it like this what would you prefer
a guy who is the most gorgeous thing you have ever seen that dont know how to crack a joke and have a laugh
or a guy with a great personality who has either got some looks or none at all
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i know what id go for ???????????
think bout it what makes more sense
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2007): No most definetley not - looks don't last for ever and no no matter how much plastic surgery ppl have it won't make a difference!!
Of course good looks help but its how the person treats and respects you at the end of the day is the important thing!!
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reader, Pork Hock  +, writes (26 April 2007):
Definitely not, looks aren't everything. Who that person is, how they treat you, what they are to you is way more attractive than being the hottest looking guy...remember that this person probably knows he isn't Brad Pitt, he isn't the pretty boy, so he has nothing to prove with what he wears, how he looks etc...he I am sure is probably more focused on who he is, he I am sure has done more soul-searching and has more identity and self-respect that the guys who pose. Anyone can wear designer gear, have flash sunglasses but if they are boring or spend too much time focusing on themselves and their image, they are dull. Stop listening to people, if this guy is interesting, and you like being with him, you will very soon, find him way more attractive that the so-called hot guys. You are on the right path, be true to yourself. You said it you personally don't agree with what the crowd are saying.
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