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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Its Eating Me Up Inside..I dont no how to get over this boy who i practically love.. I find it sooo hard.. A little while ago i didnt see him for about 6 weeks because i was grounded.. but then i come out again and i fell for him.. the moment i set my eyes on him.. its clear he dont like me.. well thats what i think anyways.. i find it impossible to say bad things about him and to stop thinking about him.. even impossible to hate him.. because when he does do something i dont like.. the same time he will do a little something, and i feel like im in that trap again..Its getting me down alot because i no nothing will happen between us.. but i have this doubt in my head that something might.. thats what is keeping me attracted to this boy i think.. i need to get over him.. i have tried to move on but every boy i meet dont compare in my eyes to this boy.. can anyone giva any advice..I need help!!!
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reader, lupa-k +, writes (26 April 2007):
How do you know for definite that he doesn't like you? A lot of the little things that you say he does might be every sign that he does, deep down feel the same way about you. Either way, asking him out might be the answer to the other problem of having him in your head all the time, because if you found out it never was going to happen it might be just what you need to move on.
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reader, NJmomabear  +, writes (26 April 2007):
 Eyeyeyeyeye! You really have to break him down in your mind and get to the core of what he's really all about.
You have to start making clear decisions for yourself about what is and isn't acceptable in a relationship. So when a guy does 'that thing' you don't like, while your entranced by his boyish charms you can snap out of it and realize he's not worth it. Honey, most men...aren't, at any age. Saving yourself means not what you can get ourself out of, but deciding and learning what to avoid all together is where it's at. Accepting love into your life shouldn't mean you have to give up your self respect to keep it, and if it does, you don't need it.
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