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writes:Hey everybody. Thanks to all your amazing help I got together with the guy I kept going on about, who i liked for way too long! We started off really well. We had a happy month and a half but then everything started to go downhill. The summer holidays came up and as we live quite a distance away, and I didn't see him every day at school, by the third week we still had not seen each other. I had been on holiday twice, he hadn't been anywhere. When I got back from my second holiday, I was slightly angry at the fact that the third time I tried to organise plans to see him, he canceled. I took this out on him and we had a big argument. He didn't speak to me for a week, during which, my best friend's boyfriend, who was my boyfriends best friend, explained to my friend that my boyfriend wanted to dump ME. Her being true, she told me, and i was cut up. Then, eventually, he came on messenger later and said we need to talk. My heart crumbled and I knew what was coming, even though he started the conversation with "I dont mean breaking up", we both knew it was going to end up that way. We ended on what we called a joint decision, (him telling me, which I found slightly true, through no fault of my own, that we were closer as best friends) even though I cannot let him go. My major problem now is, I'm back at school, and cannot concentrate on studies for thinking about him. Every time I see him I want to rush up to him, but instead I ignore him. This is killing me. I want him back, but know i have to get over him for my own good. What should I do?Thanks, x.x.x
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (8 September 2006):
 Listen honey I know its difficult but you have to move on, don't ever let a guy get in the way of your studies. If its meant to be with you and this guy then things will work out in the end, I am going through the exact same thing as you right now only its work that I cannot concentrate on and still in the early stages of my career I really cannot let things distract me...so trust me I know how difficult it is...feeling sick from hurt and upset, its not easy.
You have got to think about trying to make yourself happy, enjoy your life. You are young and need to live your life to the full...if its meant to be then you two will end up back together eventually...whether it been a few weeks or a few years down the line.
U can't wait around for someone who may never come back, get on with your life...prove to yourself that you don't need him and you can have a fantastic time without him...apart from probably making him jealous, you will feel a lot better and will in time feel a lot better...
NO MAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS AND THE ONE WHO IS WON'T MAKE YOU CRY!
best of luck x
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