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writes: I have had a crush for 8 years and now we are together and living with one another and we both love each other and dont want to leave one another, but we are arguing too much and fighting too much! We are both way to stressed and we need help. What can we do? He wants to split for a while to stay away from me and what not but I cant live with that ..Anyone Have any suggestions?
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reader, DannySanto +, writes (6 September 2006):
 The fact that you guys are having loads of arguements is probably because your having arguments about the little things. When your argueing about them they seem so huge that they blow up into something unnecessary. Dont worry everyone has them though. Next time you can see an arguement escalating, be the better person and say that the argument is stupid and you shouldnt fight...then smile at him and give him a big kiss for like 10 seconds. he's sure to be smiling after that too. thats only a short term answer though.
For the long term, you should both try going on dates again. I've always found that when i'm stressed, my girlfriend will take me on a date, and i'll totally start relaxing. thats the problem with people who start living together, they forget that there actaully is a fun side to a relationship. But dont do the obvious, like the cinema or a resturant, why not try something fun like a fun fair, arcade, ride your bikes to a park and have a picnic, etc something that will at least you both feel like teenagers again.
Good Luck!
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