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writes: one of my best friends, who's in a relationship, just admitted to me that she's in love with me. i asked her if she was sure about how she felt, and she said she was absolutely positive. but the catch is, she said she wants to see where her current relationship goes, and that she's in love with him too, and doesn't want anything with us to happen...right now. she said she just felt as though she needed to tell me just to get it off her chest because it was killing her. but then, she admitted that she wouldn't be able to resist if i made an attempt towards her to kiss her. so i'm so confused. i'm absolutely crazy about this girl, and have been since day one, and would love to be with her. so i don't know what to do now. i know she's not just trying to play games, as i could tell for a while now that she's liked me. i just didn't know this much. but my question is: it possible to be in love with two people at the same time? and if so, what do i do about this? do i remain respecful and not try anything, or do i go for it? because i love her, too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2006): No you can not be "in love" with two people at the same time.
If I were you, I'd tell this girl I don't think we can continue our friendship because of our obvious feelings for each other.
You'll soon see if she really does love you.
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reader, CRS698 +, writes (6 September 2006):
 Hi there, It looks like your friend has made up her mind. If she wont leave her current boyfriend, theres nothing you can do but to move on and find someone else. If you DID make an attempt towards her it would probably create all kinds of pain for all 3 of you.
So I'd say remain respectful and not try anything.
I hope it works out for you.
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