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writes: Hi,I am typically a very positive person but I am tired of helping others:-) Not that I dislike it, but sometimes I also feel that someone should be helping me out. Do I stop helping friends and listening to them. There have been times when I feel I should share with someone and that does not happens at that instant, what is the best way out? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2006): start talking to them about your problems and ask them what they think , but if they do not help then stop giving them help and advice it would be rude but will show them what its like not to have someone to talk to .
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reader, xAngeliquex  +, writes (6 September 2006):
 Well the obvious way would be to, as soon as you feel like you want to share something, you do it as easily as someone would with you. Don't feel afraid or hesitant just because you've developed that role of agony uncle or whatever, in your group of friends.
The easiest way would be just to ask someone if you could have a few words and tell them like that. It is so easy to ask a few close friends for advice, and if they do it to you then surely they should expect it back.
They'd most likely be happy to help you out with your problems so give it a try, true friends wouldn't say no to helping a "brother" out :-) x
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