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writes:Dear Agony aunts,today was my 6th month anniversary with a guy i have been seeing. We had been best friends for years and had feelings for each other for just as long but only got together a while ago. I love him but i've been going through alot of hard stuff at home and school and i have been letting my emotions get the better of me. I hung up on him while on the phone, and he told me(called back) we shouldnt talk anymore for awhile. That was 4 hours ago and i can't stop crying. I have never been one to cry over a guy and i have a bad feeling my stupid emotions ruined the only thing in my life i am truly happy about. Should i wait for him to try to talk to me? not do anything? make the first move? i would love some help....i'm going insane...and i am going to look like poo in school tomorrow with bags under my eyes. please help? thank you for your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe spoke in school today, i opened up to him about everything and at first he was a tad stand offish, but he ended up hugging me and saying he loves me.
everything is going to be okay with us, today wasn't a good day, but that made it better.
oh and dannysanto, you were right, he thought it was his fault i was upset, and he came up to me first.
so thanks again for the advice
and my eyes were swollen this morning so i used icecubes to hide that.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (6 September 2006):
 Put some cucumber slices on your eyes then talk to him tomorrow and apologize for hanging up on him. See if you can make him realize that you just were being overly emotional. Smile sweetly and he'll forgive you. Good luck.
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reader, DannySanto +, writes (6 September 2006):
 Many girls dont know this because they think the opposite of guys, but if he wants space to think, give it to him...he's not goign to break up with you, in fact hes probably thinking about what he's done wrong, and is doing the same thing that your doing. The best thing for both of you is to get sleep. Once you both sleep on it you'll feel so much better about the situation. and assuming that he goes to the same school as you you should try and speak to him privately then. tell him whats been up with you and tell him that he is the best thing that happened to you, and that you actually cried for him and thats never happened before. Its not bad to open up once in a while.
Chances are he'll forgive you and your relationship will be better than ever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2006): well lord, if you guys love each other, a stupid fight shouldn't cause you two to break up. granted, hanging up on someone is extremely rude and disrespectful, but surely it's not something he can't get past. anyway, if i were you, i'd call him and say just what you said on here. that you're going through things at home and school that are causing you to let your emotions get the best of you. and to tell him you're genuinely sorry. surely he'll understand.
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