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writes: There's this bloke I really fancy. Seems to know everything about music, and everything else, but talks to me as if I've a brain in my head, he's sweet and the least sexist bloke I've ever met. I've dropped alsorts of hints and I'm sure he fancies me the amount of attention he gives me. But he just doesn't seem to get it, but looked miserable the other day when he saw me with a male friend. My girlie flatmates friends think I'm mad they like him as well but he's 30 and a single dad, with two little girls about 10 and 11, I'm 22. His kids seem nice to...they're a bit gothic.any ideas,SophiePS. Could he be gay or just too nice, shy or just gave up on the relationship front...bringing two kids up alone, and will you lot tell me he's too old for me to?PPs. I'm shy but not timid, I'm not blond and I have a degree, so don't patronise me.
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reader, finchy  +, writes (7 September 2006):
 hi, its spelt blonde btw.
I think he likes you and you have made it clear you like him too. So go for it!. Tell him how you feel.
If it goes well, try to talk to his kids and then he will see you aren't bothered about him having kids.
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reader, Ms. Tanya +, writes (7 September 2006):
 8 Years? Naw, he isn't to old for you. A couple I know, Shes 40 and hes 65, and they are some of the happiest people I know, raised 2 kids as well. then is he Gay? Well if he's got 2 kids I'd say most likely not... but he could be! You really can't tell by looking, and I don't know the magic question people have for asking someone if they's gay or not.
Now, he probably has some mixed feelings for you, some things that may be running through his head are "Would it be good for my kids if I got a girlfriend?" "Does she really think of me that way?" "I like her but how much, enough to say something?" "Who was that male friend she was with the other night?!" "Would she want to get into a relationship with me, she'd have to kids on her hands and does she think I'm to old for her?" So he is probably shy and very unsure. So if you really really fancy him I suggest you tell him, especially since most males would rather drop hot wax on there willies then tell a girl they have feeling for them. (Most guys, at least) So, try asking him around to maybe meet some of your mates or ask him to drop by for coffee sometime. You wanna be more direct, he may get the message then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2006): Maybe you need to stop being so suttle and ask him if he'd like to go out on a date or something. He might be holding back because he thinks he's too old for you (however eight years between two adults is nothing). If that is the case let him know you don't see any age issues.
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