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I've been hurt so I push away every guy who shows an interest. Why am I doing this?

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Question - (6 September 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

dear cupid or assoiates of this so called icon of love,

ill make this short and quick to the point, unemotional if possible, im 16. i push every guy thats ever liked me away, why? (trust me its not compassion. also ive been hurt in the past by a guy. and i feel now as if unable to love/like again. will i ever get over this emotional baggage and how? also there is this guy whos caught my interest (which doesnt happen often, trust me), well this boy seems interested or so hes told my friends, but he will not make the next move, why is this? he doesnt even know me, yet he is unwilling to try?

love a hopeful girl looking for answers in all the wrong places

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006):

i feel the same way as u, ive been going out with this lad now 4 a month nd i feel like im pushing him away already! the thing u gotta do now with this new lad is play a bit of hard 2 get nd in his face dnt seem that ur intreseted alot in him bt make sure u do show a bit. i feel exactly the same as u. good luck n e way xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2006):

so will i, make this to the point.

if you have been hurt then you have trust issues, or issues with developing trust. the only way to get over it is to take a chance. eventually over time you will learn, and you will look back in time and laugh.

as for this boy, he is probably feeling the same way you do, if what your friends speak is truth. why don't you make the next move? that is the chance, that is the risk.

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