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writes:Im a teen and a boy who i really love ,my ex boyfriend he has said he still liked me and we kissed and i gave him head but he went out with another girl after it :( and while he was going out with her i did it again. And again when he wasn't with her and i asked him that day if he fancied me and he said yes and in about a days time i asked him and he said he didn't fancy me and he said he said he said it to shut me up which made me REALLY upset after doing something that special to someone i love really upset me when he told me he didnt fancy me. I know your advice would be to give up but u dont understand how much i love him i dont want to give up i want us to be together but .. Reply to this Question
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (6 September 2006):
 Sorry, love but you are as bad as one another - he is using you and you are making it easy for him to do so.
If he is coming to you for sexual gratification whilst going out with another girl, what does thid=s tell you about him, and how do you feel about yourself after he has gone back to her - also how do you think she would feel if she knew what her bf had been up to with you?
Sex can't keep you with someone, and he is your EX, so move on before you lose all your integrity, and with it your self-esteem. Sorry if I sound harsh, but you really have to give up on this one and get on with your life. Put this one down as a learning curve, move on, and be happy. You will find someone else to treat you with respect. Take care.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (6 September 2006):
 You know yourself you should give up. He told you he fancied you to shut you up, that is downright pathetic. This guy is clearly using you and will continue to do so for as long as you allow him too.
Gather some pride, tell him to f*** off and walk away.
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