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writes: Hey guys, well i posted 1 before this and i just wanted some other opinions on what ppl in this situation have done. I'm on a break with my g/f of 2 1/2 years, but my ex who i have loved for 4 years wants me. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): I think you should probably be honest with the girl you are with now, but keep in mind that there is a reason that you are with her and there is a reason as to why you broke up with the other one. 2 and a half years is a long time to be with someone and your probably really going to hurt her by keeping secrets from her. If she has stuck with you this long she is obviously a good person and doesnt deserve that. My answer to you is to take a looooong hard look at what you want and I mean like what you REALLY want. May not be who you want right now, but whos right for you.
Ps- nice name bro
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reader, hulk27 +, writes (6 September 2006):
hulk27 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe wanted a break to see if we were right for each other. And my ex regreted breaking up with me, we were young when we first went out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2006): Why did it end in the first place? Why did your current relationship end and is it for similar reasons?
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reader, joeymac +, writes (6 September 2006):
Don't ruin what u hav with ur girlfriend because of temptation u might be really disappointed. the grass isn't always greener on the other side. do u love ur current girlfriend? is it worth ending it for someone u obviously had problems with before - there must be a reason why u finished with ur ex? think how ur girlfriend would feel if she knew, if ur having doubts about her then just finish it, if u loved her u wouldn't be considering someone else to put in her place. don't waste her time, she could be out there finding someone worth spending her time on who cares about her - how would u feel seeing her with someone else?
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