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writes: im now staying with my bf for 1 year, he always tell me that he love me. he sometimes show it to me, but there is a time i dont understand whats going on inside of me when he speaks about his ex-wife.i already understand his past i know that there is no problem between his ex-wife cos she is already married to other guy,but inside of me i feel it' i feel that my bf still inlove to his ex-wife. he cant even say the word ex-wife, he still saying shes still his wife.its hurting my feelings to feel that hes still longing for his ex-wife,i feel insecure, jealous and very sad that sometimes makes me cry.but i try not to show it to him' but i dont know for how long i can stand it.i did try to speak to him already about it' and he say sorry to me and he will not do it again, but he cant help it' still he is showing it to me that he still inlove with his ex-wife.and its really, really hurting me.any advise can help my feeling which is down at this time.tnx.
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Hi there,
I know how u must feel but I think part of him is always going to be in love with her. I dont think it necessary implies that he doesnt have feelings for you. what he feels for her is different more like a devotion.They couldnt stay together that's why they had a divorce and he agreed to it and she has moved on with her life and he is trying to move on with his, hopefully with u. I would have love to know how long the marriage lasted and how long has being the divorce but nothwithstanding feelings are still but not the type i think u should worry about and alot of unresolved issues. I have a friend that is divorce and it is that easy for some people.
My advise is that u should try to be there for him. Forget about his ex-wife issue and concentrate on making him and you as well very happy. Enjoy your relationship and build on the closeness.
Goodluck dear.kelly/
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