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writes: Hi, well I have a wierd kind of question. i have just come out of a 3 yr realationship with a very nice girl. We still meet ocasionaly and it becomes sexual. I am 26 years old and concerned about my "manliness".I shave around my mouth and have the occasional hair around my chin, this bothers me because I have no sideboards or stuble there. I have quite a good muscular build but (embarrasing) my penis measures 4.75inches when fully erect, Is it that I am still developing? My ex girlfriend (during a break in our relationship) cracked a joke that a guy she "encountered" was very well endowed, this has caused me to question myself to end, it's a horrible feeling but not one that would have ever crossed my mind before. She finds sex very difficult, she has had a breast enlargment and is always worried about her weight, even though she is a size 8!! 95% of the time she wil orgasm during sex, she just takes ages to get in the mood!! I am her first sexual partner but I have had several other myself.If anyone can offer any words, it would be appreciated.Cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell this is interesting.. The girl who I was with for three years was a blonde, size 8,blue eyes, she was a 32b but went to a 32d with her boob job. Since being around 2 imparticular people at uni shae has questioned her weight no end, she used to go swiming 4 mornings a week and the gym 5 nights, no matter how mant times I told her just how sexy she was (and she really was) she would always come back with the same issue. She is known for being very stressy about simple things in life, dont get me wrong, she has everything going for her, she worries alot and would never accept that her figure was just perfect.
Her smaller breasts did not bother me at all, on the caotrary i found them sexy! She had a boob job and sure, they are more useful now in sex but she still worries about them being to big, rippling etc..
It seemed no matter which way I turned I was faced with negativity about her body, would trhis be why she had a low sex drive?
I worried about her lots as she should not have been concerned about her body the way she was, - I believe it was phsycological..
I guess what my question is has anyone experienced this, is it normal? I know women do worry but this was beyond a joke, - to the point I would start to question myself.
Anyways, thanks for any words of wisdom here.....
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reader, Green_Eyes +, writes (12 September 2006):
 Size reeeeaally doesn't matter - it really is as the age-old phrase goes: 'it's what you do with it that counts!' It's much more difficult for us women to cum through penetrative sex than foreplay, and it's pretty good that she manages it 95% of the time, which is a great reflection on you. Perhaps her being on top's simply her fave poistion - the one that turns her on the most.
You sound to have a great sex life - don't create problems that don't exist.
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 The cum on top thing maybe has to do with control more than the sex. Just the feeling of being in control is arouses some women to no end and this could make her orgasm more times than none.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThnaks for the advice, its a bit oalying your soul bare to people you dont even know!
SO whats the score with a girl only being able to cum when she is on top?
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reader, b3x  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 My boyfriend has no side burns and hardly has to shave, he loves this about himself! He's in his 30's now so I'm sure he's done all his growing, but I wouldn't let this bother you, I'm sure some ladies like stubble but personally I like a guy who is clean shaven! Ask any bloke that has to shave everyday what a pain the the butt it is! My Dad personally hates having to do it! Trust me some people have alot of facial hair and some just don't but I wouldn't worry about it, I would expect it now if anything as I doubt you'll change. I don't see the problem though with a Gilette smooooth shave which I can slide my hands on!
There is nothing wrong with your penis size either! I know lads who are 'large' in that department but never seem to satisfy girls 95% of the time! So somewhere your doing something right! If anything its her with the problem, worrying about her weight when she's a size 8, I'm a size 8 and I would love to happy a pair of love handles! In fact I would love to have hips!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi. Thnaks for the advice peeps! One thing I forgot to mention is she always is on top when she cums, I have amde3 otther girls coem in the past by being on top. Can anyone lend any advice on the whole "manliness" part of the question too? Ta very much....
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reader, Ainslie +, writes (12 September 2006):
 If she's orgasmed 95% of the time, good job! It's very hard to get a woman to do that.
I think it has not much to do with length, but what you can do with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): Penis size really depends on the person receiving it. If your co is... If your penis is a foot long, it might be awesome for Woman A, but then comes along Woman B and she might run away by the sight of it. So far, from personal experience, all my past girlfriends like my penis size - to them, it was just right. Of course, if you don't know how to use your penis, then well, it wouldn't matter any way - unless of course, our gf know how to work it by sitting on top... Or moving herself while behind... Or whatever other position... [wink]
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (12 September 2006):
 hey, dont worry about your penis size, if you make her orgasm 95% of the time whats the problem? think of this saying, 'its not the size its what you do with it that counts', be proud of what you have and what you can do with it, making her orgasm 95% of the time sounds good to me :)
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