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he called me nasty names but claims he loves me!!?

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Question - (11 September 2006) 9 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

What does it mean when your boyfriend of a year gets angry and starts calling you names when you are arguing and he makes you cry, by calling you a "slut", "hoe", "dirty" and that hes had better than you, even though he is in love with you???

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006):

This guy likely knows something about your past that doesnt sit well with him. Whether he has found this out without you knowing or is haboring it from a conversation you two have had about ex bf's or something, there is definately an issue that he has which is manifesting itself in this name calling.

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A male reader, Lostandalone United States +, writes (11 September 2006):

Lostandalone agony auntNot love at all. There is something bigger going on in his head than you. I don't suggest you continue with this man but if you do find out what it is thats going on in his head before it destroys your self-esteem. Sometimes love hurts but it doesn't chip away at your self-esteem. Good Luck.

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A female reader, keepitreal +, writes (11 September 2006):

He dosent love you. He likes being in control. If he loved you he wouldent want to hurt you.

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (11 September 2006):

bonym agony auntWhat sort of a loser is your boyfriend, he has absolutely zero respect of you, not even a gram of respect. My dear you know full well you dont desrve to be treated like a fool, so dont be. xxx

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (11 September 2006):

eyeswideopen agony auntIt means you have wasted a year of your life. Life is precious, don't waste anymore. Good luck!

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (11 September 2006):

Wendyg agony auntI dont think love even comes into this... Sounds as though hes a controlling A$$. If someone loves you and they row with you yes they throw words into the ring, but not ones like that!! I think hes having an affiar and is blaming you, trying to get you to dump his sorry arse, people normally change like that when there is something else going on and they feel guilty but rather than face up to it they use the abuse chalice... kick his arse to the kerb, no one deserves to be treated/spoken to like especially by those they love!

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A female reader, joeymac +, writes (11 September 2006):

it means ur boyfriend is an insecure waste of space who thrives on abusing u allow him to go back to whoever was better than u if thats the case he shouldn't hesitate

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (11 September 2006):

David Lewis agony auntHad better than you has he?

Dump the insensitive shit

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (11 September 2006):

Ponungalungb agony auntIt means he's an immature little child. . . and that he's too immature to know what love is let alone to be "in love with you". That's all it means.

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