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writes: Help!! I have fallen in love with my male friend and im literally driving myself demented, I can't sleep properly, eat or focus on anything at the moment apart from my friend, im constantly watching my mobile phone and if he doesnt get in touch straight away im really down. I have told my friend that I am falling in love with him but he has not reacted in anyway, he is still exactly the same towards me, still calls and texts me everday, wants to see me, is affectionate towards me (well hugs me lots). Part of me wishes that he had freaked out when I told him but he never so im still none the wiser how he actually feels. I know that he is not ready for a relationship with me or anybody at the moment, but I really can't curb these feelings and im scared that one day im going to explode and he will run and I will lose him for good. Everytime im with him I just want him to hold or kiss me, but because it never happens I end up very upset and very frustrated. Has anybody else experienced this and have any advice on how to deal with it. Thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): Hi, I can totally relate to your situation, I completly fell for a male friend of mine, who was scared of getting involved with someone again after being very hurt. I told him how I felt and he told me although he liked me very much he just couldn't do it..I continued to be friends with him and eventually accepted his decision as hard as that was I knew that I was just scaring him and getting nowhere..and that if something was meant to happen it would one day and if not at least we would be very good friends. You do need to sit down and talk to him and get an answer as your emotionally torturing yourself.
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