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My bf is just starting Uni Im scared that he will change and I will lose him!!

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Question - (11 September 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 September 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

My lovely boyfriend is just starting university, I'm really excited for him but can't help the feeling that I will lose him. We have been together for two years and are very much in love. I trust him with my life but all of my friends relationships break down after a year or two. I know he will be busy and we will not be able to spend as much time together and people change at university. Someone please help me as this is really upsetting, I don't want to lose the love of my life as he is my bestfriend!

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (11 September 2006):

Ponungalungb agony auntPeople change and grow apart, that's just the way things go sometimes. But you're envisioning this happening without any logic involved. The best thing you can do is support him and make his transition to college a good thing. If you put undue stress on him about your fears of him growing away from you, he probably will become more distant and resent you for it. Let him grow and do some growing of your own. Who knows, you might just grow closer together in the long run.

Good luck.

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