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How can I make me boyfriend appreciate me?

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Question - (11 September 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 September 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Heya I just want advice on how I can get my boyfriend running after me like that hes lucky to have me and that he can't treat me like sh*t and think i will still love him. What things can i do? thanks

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A female reader, claire_x100 +, writes (18 September 2006):

claire_x100 agony auntI know exactly how you feel im going through it myself. If it really gets to you tell him what hes doing, if not take the advice from people before ignore him let him get in touch with you get him to run to you. Good Luck.

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A female reader, Green_Eyes +, writes (12 September 2006):

Green_Eyes agony auntGat is spot on here! Speaking from past experience, treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen. I know it's difficult when you reeeeally want to demand their attention all the time...but cool off and you'll soon see he'll start doing the chasing! All the Best hun. Xx

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A male reader, Dazzerg United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2006):

Dazzerg agony auntThe temptation here is to start playing games for example setting jealousy traps or treating him in a tit-for-tat way. This, with very very rare exception, the wrong way to do things because it leads to a spiral of degenerating behaviour and the end of the relationship.

The correct route is to confront him about what he is doing to make you feel this way and then explore ways that you can improve the relationship and make it so you are not feeling this way. Hope that helps.

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A male reader, gat +, writes (12 September 2006):

gat agony aunt --Being a boy--

.Take this to heart.

If you want him to want you.

Then you gotta not want him.

Be independent. The single attitude. Like you don't need him and hes just a damn sidedish for yuh. If he still treats yuh like #### then ditch him because he doesnt want you.

Be your own girl--your own self--Needing noone.

He'll want you more if you dont want his ego...

...mmm hope that helps.

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A male reader, Ponungalungb United States +, writes (12 September 2006):

Ponungalungb agony auntIgnore him. . . or better yet, treat him like sh*t. If that doesn't get him to come around, thank your lucky stars. You don't need someone to treat you like sh*t. Find someone that treats you with respect and lose this loser.

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