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writes: I just wondering if somebody can tell me, why for heavens sake, that the very, very old 60 year old man still always wants to look at naked woman pictures and watch sex videos when he has a young woman beside him!He always say he loves her so much! and thats me.... is there a reason for me to get jealous about it? or i just let it go? it sound funny but yes i do love him since he is a gentleman and lovebable man. Thank you so much i will appreciate if you give a little time for me.....
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reader, gat +, writes (12 September 2006):
 First of all, you have to understand that pornagraphic material is an addictive drug if not worse. It's nearly impossible for someone to quit without help even if he wants to. You shouldn't be jealous or feel as if your not good enough or dont meet up to the standards of the women he watches ( paid pornstars ) Thats what they do...Its horrible..to see...but it is extremely common, especially for older men. The best thing to do--if you and him are married or feel very comfortable with one another...would just be to talk to him about it, tell him what you think and offer him...maybe...some leverage for it. Maybe you and him arn't sexually active enough or perhaps he just craves unrealistic..situations... ( porn ) Don't try to replace--porn. It's an addiction- do some research on it- Pros and cons of porn...maybe that'll help a bit...i'll shutup now...
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reader, Ainslie +, writes (12 September 2006):
 I think we can chalk up the reason to him simply being a human. Humans are sexual creatures. Men are more open about sexuality. Men of all ages look at porn, it's nothing to be jealous about.
I'm sure if he had to choose, he'd pick his real woman over porn anyday. Though that's not a suggestion that you make him choose.
As long as porn doesn't become an unhealthy, life altering obsession, I think it's fine. If it truly bothers you, talk to him about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2006): YUK...ditch the dirty old man..porn is filth and he's a sleazebag
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