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writes: I'm 24 years old and seeing a 19 year old I feel really weird but he acts very mature and i do like him am i wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, Class... +, writes (22 September 2006):
Is his name Adam by any chance? If you could let me know I's appriciate it, I reckon he's my boyfriend.
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reader, camille  +, writes (13 September 2006):
 Someone mentioned Justin & Cameron and their age gap is the same as me and my fella, 9 years, I'm older and we've been together for almost 5 years. It's great but I have to say that it's other people's comments that are their problem, not ours. I'm sorry but I HATE the term toyboy. I find it totally derogatory as that is exactly the kind of disparaging remark that belittles an age gap relationship. I find it offensive that people can only give merit in terms of "well done you did well there". It's as valid a relationship as any other and no wonder people worry about what people think when that's all they can come up with. Sorry but as you can see, it really gets up my nose!
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reader, princessnikki +, writes (12 September 2006):
 All i am going to say is, think of it the other way around. Would it be weird if it was an older man. No way. You should be quite proud of yourself, got yourself a little toyboy. My guess is all of your mates are dead jealous. Just enjoy it, may give you a chance to act like a 19 yr old again. Good luck xxx
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reader, Toohonesty +, writes (11 September 2006):
6 years is nolt in the grand scheme of things however, if its effecting your relationship which i cant see why then i would consider thinking about discussing the future ask yourself this, is there a future cause no offence at your age you probably thinking about a long term relationship. Remember theres only two in a relationship no more so its your choice. Lastly stop listening to the world and listen to your heart
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): I have just become the girlfriend of a 22 year old guy and I am 30. We get on really well and he says I am far more fun than his ex girlfriend who is 6 years younger than me. So it is like everyone says age is just a number and it is what is on the inside that counts. My guy has very strong morals for one so young and yet I know guys in their mid thirties who still act like they are teenagers. As long as you make each other happy, where's the problem?
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reader, bonym +, writes (11 September 2006):
 My sister is 26 next year her boyfriend is 21, I see no problem. If you are happy, if he is happy, if he is decent, caring, kind, loving blah blah blah what is the problem, there need not be one. Take care. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): You are definitley not wrong hun! There are 4 years between me and my boyfriend. I'm 18 and he's 22 and we are extremely happy together!! Don't be worried, age is just a number! If your happy together that's all that matters:)
Take care
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reader, talking sense +, writes (11 September 2006):
No your not wrong age is just a number. Take a look around at the world today. Why should age be a big concern if your happy? There are alot worse qualitys a guy could have and age doesnt even facter. As long as your both happy go for it!!!!!!! He might turn out to be your soul mate, and if he does you would kick yourself for letting him go past just because he happens to be 19 today. What if he was 25 would you have wanted to date him then. Its whats in the heart that matters.
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reader, camille +, writes (11 September 2006):
Is it you who feels weird or are you getting comments from other people? If so, ignore them, it's your life and if you're happy, that's all that matters. He's not a child and neither are you so it's perfectly fine to fall for someone younger.
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reader, sugapuff  +, writes (11 September 2006):
 age is just a number my boyfriend is 33 im 21 ive never connected aswel with people my own age all my friends are in their late 20s early 30s but none of them have settled down yet some are wilder then me!
im old beyond my years and it sounds like dis guy is to dont even worry about!
if any1 says anything their just jealous u have a nice young hunk!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (11 September 2006):
 If you like him and your happy whats the problem.. its only 5 years difference and in 5 years from now it wont even matter.. My partner is nearly 5 years older than me, so work it back and its the same difference, doesnt matter how old either of you are, if you want it to work and are having fun go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): I really don't see that there is anything wrong with what you are doing. If it was the guy that was 24 and the girl that was 19 no one would think anything of it. I think you need to just try and forget about the age difference and get on with enjoying your relationship. If you still feel as though you are doing something wrong then maybe you need to think about wether you do really like him or not.
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