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writes: I love my boyfriend of almost 6 yrs dearly, however I think I belong with his bestfriend. We both liked eachother since we 1st met 6 yrs ago, but we just shared our feeling for eachother a year ago. It is frustrating becuz we have to keep it on the DL. We have both tried to move on, but we can't because our feelings for eachother are so strong. Help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2006): I am in the same situation and I think the key to talking to people about this is to make sure they understand that this doesn't mean you love your current boyfriend any less. Lots of people will say "well if you love your boyfriend then this is just a crush on his friend" or "why did u continue a relationship with someone if you love someone else?" All these responses are assuming that one only truly loves one other person at a time. This is ridiculous, and you need to talk to people who understand this.
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reader, CC620 +, writes (13 September 2006):
Stay away from his best friend. It happened to me, and let me tell you MY best friend dated my X. They crossed a line you DO NOT cross. It will haunt you I'm telling ya.
-Chris
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