What should I do? My husband never offers me oral.
Q. Hi, my husband and i have been together for 2 years. I give him oral sex every night sometimes even twice a night. He never gives me oral. He will tell me that he will do it one night and then finds an exscuse like i'm to tired, or he tried and i ...
A. 17 February 2008: You can try communicating to him and if it does not bear fruit and you feel that you need orals, then set your boundaries for sex if him. No orals , no sex. ... (read in full...)
How to know whether a guy loves you when he does not express his feelings or feels shy?...
Q. how to know whether a guy loves you when he does not express or feels shy? what are the signs to know about it?...
A. 17 February 2008: You can Google that questions and you get a very detailed answer from those online sites.
Or you can get your answer on this site;-
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/How_do_you_know_that_the_person_you_love_loves_you_too... (read in full...)
I finally feel prepared for sex but how to communicate this to him?
Q. I've just got my first ever guy,and i've not mentioned i'm a virgin and i don't think i'm ever going to,anyway he said he would wait until i was happy to do it. well i'm ready now, but don't know where to start or what to do i know this sounds ...
A. 17 February 2008: First , you need a place, then a romantic dinner to create the mood, you dance cheek to cheek and heart to heart with him and let your hormones take over.... (read in full...)
I sex talk with a guy online and it's really spiced up things with my hubby! Is this considered cheating?
Q. I have the instant messenger thing and I have all my friends on there. I’ve made some new ones and there’s this one guy that w/in the past month or so we have been talking on a regular schedule. Im married and he’s married and we both talk about how ...
A. 17 February 2008: There are always two sides to a coin. If you stand on this side , you will say it is right . If you stand on the other side , people will say it is wrong.
Just like the gay issue. Some say it is wrong while others say it is alright.
The kn... (read in full...)
Our relationship is going stale, he's perfect in every other way, now his friend is flirting with me, what should I do?
Q. I've been in a relationship for nearly 3 years now. My boyfriend and I recently got back together after a 5 month long break. The problem is, I don't know if I'm really in love with him. He is dependable, sweet, and loves me. He treats me so well. ...
A. 17 February 2008: Thanks for your trouble in updating us. I hope you will find this new friend a better specimen..LOL!
Be happy and enjoy life!... (read in full...)
Any ideas how I can forget about this or at least feel ok??
Q. I slept with a colleague from work a night but didn't properly had sex as I explained him I'd rather know him better for such and he said it was ok so we did sort of getting off a bit and so on. He told me to phone him to have sex if I felt lik...
A. 17 February 2008: He probably had a loose tongue and shared what happened and they knew there was something on between you two.
If you feel you need to clear up something, it would be best that you talk with him about it. This would clear up any misunder... (read in full...)
My partner has more issues and concerns over my parent's money, than I do?
Q. Hi there. I've noticed there are some good aunts and uncles on this site who can throw light onto baffling behaviour! So I've come to you with a question if I may? My partner constantly criticises my parents (to me) on a daily basis for not ...
A. 17 February 2008: Your partner just wanted to show off his get rich skills or his money planning abilities .
If he was that smart , he would have been very rich by now.
The problem is ,he could only tell you when events have played out. Anybody could have done ... (read in full...)
Choice between abortion or keeping it
Q. If anyone here has ever had the choice to make between keeping a baby, making a person you love very much happy or aborting a baby and having a future, please help me! I'm 17 and a college student. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 10 mo...
A. 17 February 2008: Tell your dad, he will stand by you .He loves you very much and he will solve all your problems for you .
You are young and you made a mistake. Don't blame yourself or be harsh.
Don't be afraid to tell him . The earlier the better so that h... (read in full...)
How to feel truly happy again with or without a relationship
Q. I want to improve my life! Life is by no means bad. I'm in college on an excellent course which is going very well. I've applied to universities and plan to go there later in the year. I have established a group of friends to hang around with when...
A. 17 February 2008: You are the captain of your ship. Do you know where you want to go ?
You maybe the captain but pirates have hijacked your ship.
You need to take control back of your ship(your life). Turn it around and go to your destination (Your aspiration... (read in full...)
My ex and I love eachother
Q. I am still in love with my exboyfriend, and he is still in love with me. He has told me he is and I have told him that I am. But he is presently with someone else though. We live awhile away from eachother so it was amazing how our love helped us ...
A. 17 February 2008: You are on the roller coaster ride and there is no brakes!!!!!!
When it comes to a halt , quickly take him to the church!!
Good Luck !... (read in full...)
Husband doesn't want me to go to church.
Q. My husband doesnt want me to go to church, i want to so bad to fellowship, music and to just enjoy the presents of the Lord, i do free enjoy the presents of the Lord home. Why ? he says that they want to know where he is and that they will start ...
A. 17 February 2008: You should obey God and not your husband.Your husband is wrong to forbid you from going to church.
You can over ride him because he failed as a husband to lead in your family. He should take you to church but he has back slided.
God is tellin... (read in full...)
What do you think an average 13 year old girl should weigh?
Q. What do you think an average 13 year old girl should weigh? Ps. I'm 13...
A. 17 February 2008: You can go here to calculate your ideal weight;-
http://www.halls.md/ideal-weight/body.htm... (read in full...)
I'm anxious I'll be left on the shelf, what can I do?
Q. Hi all, My mind have been in quite a whirl nowadays. I know it's kinda like V-day blues, I can't help but feel that I am fast getting left on the shelves. My friends are getting attached easily, and although I have had 2 relationships before, it left...
A. 17 February 2008: Graduate first and then get a job. Stop worrying. Go out and enjoy your single life , go sow your wild oats. You need to go through this phase first before you settle down or you will regret it.
Forget your marriage plans. You only put unnecess... (read in full...)
Our baby's about to be born, but should we be together?
Q. Urgent help needed – The clock is ticking for me… Please could someone take the time to help me? I am 22 year old female and have been in a relationship with a 20 year old male for the past 18 months. We have spent so much time together and were like...
A. 17 February 2008: You need all the support you can . Being a single parent can be very hard .
Give him another chance and think positive and not negative.
Live in the present and don't worry about the future.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex the baby is really his?
Q. Last year i was meant to have an abortion after me and my boyfriend split up, but i never. I never told my ex i was pregnant either. I gave birth to a healthy baby boy called Levi on 24th January. I have seen my ex 1 or 2 times since we split u...
A. 17 February 2008: It is your responsibility to inform him and whether he can accept it or not is his problem. You have discharged your responsibilities and move on.
You will not feel guilty over it. It will not come back to haunt you in later life .... (read in full...)
Should I give it another try or move on?
Q. I have been on and off with this guy I'm in love with for 5 years. We decided to go our own ways and he got with a girl but left her for me then got back with her. Now they have broken up due to their own problems and he is saying he wants me even ...
A. 17 February 2008: Will you be 39th time lucky?
I think if it won't work in the past , it will not work in the present.
Better to move on.... (read in full...)
The more I try to dislike him, the more I love him...
Q. I used to work with this guy he's very cute, sweet, and will do anything for anyone. I liked him a lot (more than friends) and a lot of people I know, told me that he liked me too. But he talked (or dated) my younger cousin for about a week. It ...
A. 17 February 2008: I think this is a Universal law .
If you dislike a person , you will find that you will love him more, especially if it is the opposite sex.
I have seen many cases coming true.
When you dislike some one, you set certain forces in action... (read in full...)
What can I do?
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend, I feel that he is going too fast for me I am constantly stressed out. I want a relationship with him but my mum and dad won't let me, they don't want me to see him but I do, I want to be there for him. He has a ...
A. 17 February 2008: Tell your b/f to slow down or build more speed bumps to slow him down.
You cannot change your parents opinion for now. You can only give them more time to get to know him.
Take each day and live for each day.
Sorry for your nana. Give her ... (read in full...)
I really want out of the relationship, but he's pretty attached and I'm concerned about hurting him.
Q. I'm 19 and have been dating my 20-year-old boyfriend for almost a year. We've had some minor fights over the commitment my job requires of me, but that's about it. In December of last year I found myself with a (requited) attraction to a ...
A. 17 February 2008:
Tell him the truth.
Tell him that you have discovered that you and him are not compatible and you want out.
It won't be pleasant but it has to be done.... (read in full...)
He's going way too fast here!!!
Q. He said to me thinking I was a bit drunk that he can see himself falling in love me with me after only meeting a few times! Should I get out now or get to know him better?...
A. 17 February 2008: Do you like him or not?
This will decide if you want to stay or run........ (read in full...)
I want to rekindle a relationship...
Q. Hi, I am 28 year old female. I need a little advice about my situation. My ex boyfriend and best friend had a semi mutual break up on New years day, he instigated it. We both agreed that we were still in love but thought we both needed to work on ...
A. 17 February 2008: If you love him , you should not fear rejection. Talk more, see more of each other and do things together.Then things will fall into place.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Does he love me?
Q. I feel that there is no flame with my fiancé and I and I want to know if he really love me. What can I do? ...
A. 17 February 2008: If there is no flame or fire, then you need to check if there is enough fuel or enough firewood. Pour gasoline on it and then light a fire and it will burnt brightly.
You can Google your question. 'How do I know he loves me?
There is a ve... (read in full...)
Do I tell the affair partner's fiancee about his affair with my ex?
Q. My ex-fiancee cheated on me with one of her male friends for several months. We broke up because she continued to keep in touch with him behind my back even when we were "fixing" the relationship. So this question is more a moral dilemma... The ...
A. 17 February 2008: Are you a rumor monger?
When you are not even sure , how can you tell her?
You could be wrong and you would be committing a very serious sin.
Even if you are sure, you should not take revenge on her.The other woman would find out eventually ... (read in full...)
He works part time and when he has time off he says he needs alone time. All he does is play video games!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for six years we rarely see each other, he works part time and when he has time off he says he needs alone time. All he does is play video games! I don't know what to do. We talk for hours every day on the ...
A. 17 February 2008: Your b/f has two loves, you and his addictive games.It might as well be his second g/f.
He is addicted and you will find that whatever you say to him will just fall on deaf ears.
You may reason with him gently at first but if nothing works, y... (read in full...)
Do I just go with my boyfriend and leave my dad a note?
Q. Hi Yesterday, my mom and I got into a fight she was totally wasted and when she gets drinking she's a fighter. I was sleeping for about 15 mins then out of the blue she tries to strangle me in my sleep. I told my boyfriend about this and he told ...
A. 17 February 2008: I think you ought to tell your dad about it first instead of running away and leaving him a note. It could present more problems .
Lock the door when you want to sleep.... (read in full...)
'Fat chance' of us getting engaged...should this upset me??
Q. My boyfriend made a comment to his father over the phone and I'm not sure if I have the right to be upset about it or not. He doesn't see his dad much and was chatting to him on the phone earlier today. During the conversation my boyfriend happened...
A. 17 February 2008: Take it as a joke. Your b/f told you , it means it does not bother him about his dad's stand.
Maybe , it is good in a way because it made him ponder about this issue.
Sometimes , they may say something without thinking and don't mean it.
... (read in full...)
Any ideas how I can forget about this or at least feel ok??
Q. I slept with a colleague from work a night but didn't properly had sex as I explained him I'd rather know him better for such and he said it was ok so we did sort of getting off a bit and so on. He told me to phone him to have sex if I felt lik...
A. 17 February 2008: He may have felt rejected by your actions. Something happened in your relationship and it caused a blip.... (read in full...)
I'm fed up with my friend who drifts away then comes running back.
Q. I've been friends with this girl for several years now. We're in our sophmore year. And for the last couple of years things have been rocky. When things are going good in her life she drifts away from me and stop talks to me and basically isn't my ...
A. 17 February 2008: Do you want to be a door mat for her? When her boots get muck, she will find you and walk all over you and then leave until the next time.
Learn to say 'NO!'... (read in full...)
Why don't some guys express how they feel to a woman sometimes?
Q. Why don't some guys express how they feel to a woman sometimes?...
A. 17 February 2008: When God made Adam the first prototype, He found that he only had one drive , not enough gig and ram.
God decided that he need a helper and a companion in Eve. God gave Eve a multi drive , increase her gig and ram to compensate for the lack in ... (read in full...)
I'm positive shes 'the one' and I don't to what to do!
Q. Right, I'll get straight to the point, I've known this girl for a number of years and as time's gone on we've got closer and closer, I like her, she likes me, I know this because we've told eachother, one problem, she has a fella, we both have ...
A. 17 February 2008: If you don't want to jeopardize her relationship with that man , then you should have withdrawn.
Your actions do not match your words.
You have to decide which course of action to take.
If you want her, go all out for it.
If you want t... (read in full...)
Unsure...
Q. Dear Cupid I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years, I love him dearly. He stays in my house every night except for every other weekend when he stays in his own house while his two step children from a previous relationship visit. He has t...
A. 17 February 2008: His step children will grow up and leave some day .When it will be I don't know and whether you have the patience to wait for him or not?
Right now , you have that much of him except the weekends.You may want to have every part of him to yourself... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to commit. I know she is the one I love and want to spend the rest of my life with.
Q. Well where to start, I have 8 colleagues in my office every one is married I am the single one. Every day I'm been told by them how lucky I am been single and to tell the truth, when I hear some of the crap in there lives it really lets me think ...
A. 17 February 2008: People may gripe about their life's but they still remain married.
Do not listen to them , You need to experience what it is like and not listen from other's experience.... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if the guy touches himself and then me?
Q. I have a problem, I meet this guy a while ago, I don't really know him that well but last night I saw him and things got a little frisky. So my question is can you get pregnant if the guy touches himself and then me? All I know is that he did the ...
A. 17 February 2008: If any sperm gets deposited inside you , there is a chance of getting pregnant. The chances of getting pregnant by that way is very slim but if you are unlucky , it sometimes do happens.... (read in full...)
My best friend has changed since we got back together.
Q. Me and my best friend fell out after people made up lies about what she apparently said about me. We didn't talk for about 4 months and now we are back to normal - almost. Things aren't the same she is only 15 but goes clubbing which she never ...
A. 17 February 2008: Sometimes it is better to let friends go than to cling on.
People grow up and change and they can grow divergent to you and you will find that you have different taste and interests.
It is time to move on and let them go. Holding on can only cau... (read in full...)
Why don't some guys express how they feel to a woman sometimes?
Q. Why don't some guys express how they feel to a woman sometimes?...
A. 17 February 2008: Because they are guys and have difficulty with the emotional expressions and the way they were brought up.
Furthermore , they only use one side of the brain unlike women who use both sides of her brain.... (read in full...)
Dying Inside...
Q. I am so in love with this man. He has done everything that I have asked of him. But yesterday I found out that he (my fiance) slept with my godsister who frequents my house. They both say it happened a long time ago and it never happened again. My ...
A. 16 February 2008: You have answered your own question.
"I don't see my life without this man."
Your love for him will be steadfast and you shall be loyal to him at whatever cost.
Because of one silly incident or moment of madness, you are willing to jump ship... (read in full...)
My husband loves his job more than his family and it's making me depressed. What are my options?
Q. I feel really depressed in my marriage. I think my husband likes his job more than anything. He does not care about me ,or his children. He is a robot. How can I convince him,or stay with him like that? He is getting totally burned out, I don't ...
A. 16 February 2008: If your husband is a workaholic,you may sit down and talk to him but I don't think it will be very effective.
It may work in certain cases where he is not very into his work.
Many men make the mistake of thinking that once they are married , th... (read in full...)
My husband loves his job more than his family and it's making me depressed. What are my options?
Q. I feel really depressed in my marriage. I think my husband likes his job more than anything. He does not care about me ,or his children. He is a robot. How can I convince him,or stay with him like that? He is getting totally burned out, I don't ...
A. 16 February 2008: Your husband is a workaholic. It is an obsessive and compulsive behavior, he needs help.
The only way to talk to him is to leave and he will wake up from this malady. For he will only understand what is the purpose of life?
You can read ... (read in full...)
He said he loved me but now he won't talk???
Q. here it is.. i am in love with a guy and he said he loved me and i believe him. but now i can't seem to get him to talk to me now. i'm not sure if he is scared of the feelings or if he was just telling me that he loved me just to tell me that.. and ...
A. 16 February 2008: Ask him what is the problem? Anything happened recently which you are not aware off that caused his meltdown?... (read in full...)
Why is he like that ?!?
Q. Hello Guys, I've posted and answered on this site recently and I've seen some really good answers so I'm back asking a question. I've wondered about this for long while now and I think I met an answer on this site. I've been with my boyfrien...
A. 16 February 2008: When he says your ex left you , we can infer that you are not a good woman,devil woman , unfit , whatever derogatory terms to describe you.
If you say you dump your ex, then the man is a bad guy , unfit and good for nothing SOB. LOL!
That is... (read in full...)
He got upset by all the guys on my friends list..how can I convince him I did nothing wrong??
Q. I've had facebook and Myspace for about 2 years now. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year. Just last night he looked at my facebook and got really upset because I had guys on my friends list. I don't even talk to 90% of the people I'm ...
A. 16 February 2008: You cannot make him understand . He has already formed his opinions . No wind or storm will overturn his opinions.
The best thing you can do is to delete all those male friends from those sites and end of the matter.
If you won't do it,it w... (read in full...)
I'm fed up with my friend who drifts away then comes running back.
Q. I've been friends with this girl for several years now. We're in our sophmore year. And for the last couple of years things have been rocky. When things are going good in her life she drifts away from me and stop talks to me and basically isn't my ...
A. 14 February 2008: You have a good disposition but you need to be aware that your friend is only using you when she has problems.
You need to harden your heart towards her .She is taking advantage of your good nature.
Such friends we can do without.... (read in full...)
Our relationship is going stale, he's perfect in every other way, now his friend is flirting with me, what should I do?
Q. I've been in a relationship for nearly 3 years now. My boyfriend and I recently got back together after a 5 month long break. The problem is, I don't know if I'm really in love with him. He is dependable, sweet, and loves me. He treats me so well. ...
A. 5 February 2008: There are two types of guys, the dependable provider which is boring and the Casanova who is all fun and exciting.
It is not easy or impossible to find a man who is a good provider as well as a Casanova .
As long as you know where is the bou... (read in full...)
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