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female
age
30-35,
*Missing_Him*
writes:I am still in love with my exboyfriend, and he is still in love with me. He has told me he is and I have told him that I am. But he is presently with someone else though. We live awhile away from eachother so it was amazing how our love helped us keep a relationship of 7 months when his parents hate me and mine him (atleast it is to me) I really do not believe this girl is right for him. She has done some pretty bad stuff and he is...well...perfect in my eyes. And no, its not just the jealous ex girlfriend rage feeling its...a strong belief that she is gonna hurt him bad. He cares for her, yes, but he cares for me more...the only problem is that I live so far away...and she does not. He says 'he could not handle being with me, but not being able to touch me, or kiss me, or be with me.' I really want to be with him and i believe he really wants to be with me. But he also wants to see what else is out there. he is presently my best friend and we have been talking ALOT more. he hasnt been able to contact his girlfriend in 4 days either which also worries me about there relationship. I want him happy, but I believe I can make him happier than she can!! What do I do?? And no, i just cant stop contact with him!! Its not gonna happen lol, he is my very best friend!!
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reader, MIss_congeniality  +, writes (18 February 2008):
 HI, wel this is a very difficult question i basically think taht the only reason why he is with this girl is because he cannot be with you bevause of the distance thing, if you both live so far away then sometimes it makes a relationship difficult to work out.However most long distant relationships work out better than close ones, sometimes being aprt from someone hurts you that much, that when u see them again you totally wanna be with them all the time. However if you both love eachother make it work, write him a letter and tell him exactly how you feel, your saying that he already knows has he has told you like you have him, however sometimes guys need a kick up the arse to make their brains function properly, write him a letter about how much he means to you, organise somewhere you can both get to and work it out, this girl he is with obvviously is just there for his convienence has she is close to him,so im sure he would be willing to meet you.If this guy likes you has much has you do him the distance thing will soon turn into fairy dust and wont matter anymore, arrangments can be sorted out, you just both need to sit and talk how!Hope this has helped a little, if you need to chat more feel free to message me, take care hun and best wishes
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 February 2008):
 You are on the roller coaster ride and there is no brakes!!!!!!
When it comes to a halt , quickly take him to the church!!
Good Luck !
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