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writes:Hi, I am 28 year old female. I need a little advice about my situation. My ex boyfriend and best friend had a semi mutual break up on New years day, he instigated it. We both agreed that we were still in love but thought we both needed to work on ourselves a bit.Weeks went by with us talking everyday and seeing each other frequently. We discussed getting back together but felt like we needed more time to work on our selves. Eventually, after I had a melt down we decided not to hang out for a while. We have talked minimaly over the last three weeks. I have been doing alot of soul searching and reading and have realized that I let alot of my issues with myself ruin our relationship. I really want a second chance at this relationship. We no longer live together, he has an interview for a great job, I have a clearer head. I am afraid though, I am afraid of rejection. How can I go about trying to rekindle this relationship? Any advice would be appreciated.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): sorry may i ask what part of the states you are from? its just for my peace of mind and my own situation
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 February 2008):
 If you love him , you should not fear rejection. Talk more, see more of each other and do things together.Then things will fall into place.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): Communication is the key.....but do not feel rejected if he does not feel the same way as you do. Many men....like myself, don't give females second chances!It's not meant to be a bad thing....it's just that, if our talking , tears, and fears can't keep us from falling apartthen we won't allow ourselves to go back later on.Good luck to you and I hope things work out for you.
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