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female
age
36-40,
*nonymous woman
writes:I used to work with this guy he's very cute, sweet, and will do anything for anyone. I liked him a lot (more than friends) and a lot of people I know, told me that he liked me too. But he talked (or dated) my younger cousin for about a week. It never went anywhere. A lot of people (friends and loved ones) are telling me the reason it never went anywhere is because he and I belong together. But recently we had fallen out and we haven't talked in a few days but I don't know if we're friends or what. My horoscope on all websites are telling me "SOMEONE SOMEWHERE REALLY LIKES ME, BUT THEIR WAY TOO SHY TO LET ME KNOW. BUT THEY MAY HAVE CONFIDED IN A MUTUAL FRIEND SO BE READY FOR SOME SURPRISING NEWS". I don't know what to think or to believe. But the more I try to dislike him, the more I love him. Please someone give me some advice please.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 February 2008):
 I think this is a Universal law .
If you dislike a person , you will find that you will love him more, especially if it is the opposite sex.
I have seen many cases coming true.
When you dislike some one, you set certain forces in action and it boomerangs back.
You will be thinking of him always until it turns to love.
You will have to turn off your dislike for him..LOL!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): So if nothing happened between him and your cousin in the week they were together what's the problem?Don't make a mountain out of a molehill.Plus, don't believe those horoscopes.....lol
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reader, boosh  +, writes (16 February 2008):
hey darlin, dont worry i was kinda in the same situation as this but the other way around, i was told by loads of people that she thought the same about me so i can tell you from the male perspective if ya like!i allways liked her but didnt dare to tell her and people had allways said that she likes me too, the 1 thing i was worried about tho, is i didnt want it to effect our friendship by telling her this.although i wasnt seeing her cousin or anything, my problem was she had a fella and i dint want to jepordise their relationship, but i somehow had to tell her how i felt, as time went on it was clear we had strong feelings for eachother, the best way for me dealing with it when i realised that i wanted to be with her was honesty, and when i bucked up the courage and finally told her, the feelings we had for eachother were confirmedif your sure he likes you and you obviously like him, just be honest, it worked for me and i wouldnt tell you to do it if i thought it could make things arkward for you both.hope things work out alrite for you, and if you need any more help or advise dont hesitate to ask!Good Luck!
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