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*andy9876
writes:I let my self get used, played, hurt by this man. This man picks women that have sworn off men for years and gets them to fall for him. He has a way to make you want to believe him. When you show any distrust he'll tell you its because of the way you been treated by men. Long story short: He has sex with many woman at one time. Tells each one he loves her. Each woman doesn't know about the other. I can't stand knowing other woman are being hurt. I hate to admit that i check his my space to see who is his victim is. I think this makes me a stalker, but should woman should protect other woman.? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 Save your breath . Would other women believe what you tell them ?
There is karma. He will reap what he sows.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 Be mindful of the law, as some of the things you are doing could be considered defamation and stalking. Is he really a prick, or are you just a woman scorned or both? Even if you are totally right, continuing to attack him after the end of your relationship is not going to be as healing as you might be hoping.
I would like to suggest something to you.
Write down EVERYTHING you have learned about this in your life. Everything from what red flags you missed, to learning to heed your instincts, to how to handle the break up, etc...write down EVERYTHING, and write in general terms, not specific about him.
Instead of :
"when Jack said X, what he planned to do was Y"
write down:
"when a man says X, what he might be suggesting is Y"
and then go on to writing what you have learned from this for the next relationship you enter.
When you put together a hundred pages, self publish it as a book (print on demand works best and costs you nothing).
If you really want to protect women and give back, this is the most productive way I have found that works for me.
I got stood up at my prom, lost my ex-fiance to my best friend, and was further screwed over by another woman after that...I learned from all of that, and wrote a book about what I learned and now sell that book to help men who are going through what I went through. This was my calling, maybe it can be your calling too.
-Frank Kermit, author
From Loser to Seducer
http://www.franktalks.com
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 February 2010):
Do nothing. They, like you, must realize their own mistake. If you try anything, he'll only make you look bad. You must move on from him and focus on your own life. You're obviously a lovely lady, so go and find yourself. You can't help those who don't want to be helped. They must make their own mistake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): There is a web-site for just this exact thing, I think you should register him on there, with a picture so there is no mistaking him : womansavers.com
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