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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Although we aren't "dating", my friend and I are definitely exclusive. We trust each other and care about each other. We never established a label on the relationship, so calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend all of a sudden is a bit strange to get used to. How would you deal with an unlabeled relationship like this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 Whether it is a labeled or unlabeled relationship or not , it is just only a name sake. The important thing is, you are happy and he is happy and you trust each other.
One day you will redefine those parameters when the time comes.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 If it is unlabeled, then I have to question what trust you are referring to.
If you are trusting him to be monogamous to you, or faithful, I would highly doubt that...you can not be faithful nor monogamously exclusive to a relationship that refuses definition. The point of defining a relationship is to define its parameters and boundaries. That means defining it's exclusivity.
-Frank Kermit, Author
Making Monogamy Work
http://www.franktalks.com
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female
reader, boo22  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 Just call him your lover instead , it sounds more exciting than boyfriend x
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