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writes:my partner and I have lived together for 6 years, we had both my 2 and his 2 children living with us which put a strain on our relationship and led ti arguements. he left me abruptly 4 months ago, although we have continued seeing each other as friends. he says he still loves me but wants to sell our house and buy 2 seperate homes and live in his own house and still see me. We are both in ou 50"s. I still love him but want to have a partner to share my life with...any advice plse?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Can you trust his words?
If you can't live under the same roof, there must be something not right about this relationship.
If he still loves you , why did he leave you ?
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reader, Honest Answer  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Are we talking adult children or under 18? If we are talking adult, the kids need to move out so that you two can get on with your lives. If they are under 18, his idea makes sense until they reach majority.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 As long as you are sure your relationship is sound and based on mutual love and committment, it may work. If the main or only source of friction between you were the pressures and demands of an extended family, your relationship may end up being better than before- more exciting and romantic. Sharing a life with someone does not literally mean sharing time 24-7 or sharing physical space.
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