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writes:My fiancé told me that some girl told him that he might have gotten her pregnant. It does not seem like him at all--- cheating and not using protection. According to his tone of voice on the phone, I think he was kidding, but I was crying when I said bye and he did not say anything. He said we need to find a day and talk about it in person. I think he may be testing me. What do i do? Why would he be kidding with this none-sense?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): Thank you all. I think it is true. I just spoke to him and he did not tell me the relieving answer i wanted to hear. He was wondering why i sounded down-- as if nothing ever happened to make me angry. When i said that I want to know the truth so that my family can stop the wedding prep. He sounded shocked. Its like i am dating a stone--- seriously--- who is he and where is the man I fell in love with?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): one of two things and neither one is good. 1) its true and hes not who or what you thought he was. or 2) hes cruel and mean and hes not who or what you thought he was. either way its time to rethink this whole relationship. there is no way i would spend my life with him unless there was some really good explanation that im overlooking. but to tell you over the phone....and leave you crying is to me cruel and immature. kick him to the curb and dont say..."but i love him". of course you do but you will be hurt over and over if you stay. good luck and im very very sorry this happened to you. all of your hopes and dreams are shattered...hugs..mal
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (5 April 2010):
He's not kidding, and this is not a test. He's cheated, and has been busted. You'd be better moving on.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 You need to ascertain first if this is really what happened. Is this a cruel joke or is it the truth?
You will have to find a day and talk over it with him .
He could be framed by some vicious girl.
Check out the facts first . Don't make any assumptions,pass judgments or jump to conclusions before knowing the facts of the case.
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reader, Violet009  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 I think first of all you need to find out if he is telling you the truth. Why would he be testing you, and if so why this way? Talk to him about it first, find out if what he said was true and if it wasn't why would he say that to you in the first place?
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