A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:been with my partner for more than a year now, he is nice to me, gives me everything, has respect for me and i guess im lucky to have him as he is with me. he loves me very much, im his first serious relationship, his first love. he is my first serious relationship aswell. lately i feel like he is trying to control me, i have been applying for jobs online and he has been saying some are not suitable because i will get chatted up by rich men, its only barwork and waitressing, he doesn't want me to work in a office because he says thats when people are likely to have affairs, he dont say these things in a nasty way but he is still serious...he always stays at mine (i dont mind) but sometimes hes around 24/7 and its hard to breathe, thats why i want a job, i love him lots but he needs to understand that i need a life too and it would be nice to just have some me time. do you have some advice because its really getting to me.
View related questions:
affair Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, advice angel +, writes (5 April 2010):
 i think what YOU should do,is tell him if you trust me ( wich he should be able too) you will let me get a job as a bartender,waitress etc. coz you know i would never cheat!
and if he still thinks you would maybe you should tell him sometimes you need your own little space,some 'me' time like you said,you's dont want to get in eachothers pockets all the time,and cause troubles for an awesome relationship that could blossom into something beautiful.
A
female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 You need to communicate with him that you need some personal space. I am sure he will understand and give you some time to yourself. Talk to him about it. Be direct because he may not understand your request.
...............................
|
