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male
age
30-35,
*ly BCT
writes:I'm in love with a beautiful girl who I've been friends with for 4 years. I love her so much I would die for her. Something caught my eye about her when we first met. I thought I liked her pretty well for about the first 3 1/2 years but then we started talking more and getting more personal with each other and I fell in love with her. I can't think about anything else but her. She is my everything. I'm pretty young but I think I might have found "The One." A couple of weeks ago I told her I loved her. She said she didn't like me like that and she just wanted to be friends. I was happy she was still my friend cause our friendship means a lot to me but I was devestated because she didn't "like me like that." Please help me. How can I get her to like me like that? I know I can't make her love me. I love her so much. I know I'd make her happy if she would be with me. What can I do for her to be mine?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): I think maybe you should not push it. Pretend like you didn't say anything about love for a little while, and then confront her. tell her how you feel about her. if she doesn't like you back, she is not the "One". You probably deserve way better girls than her
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Love is like a plant. You plant your seed of love in her heart . If the soil is good earth , it will grow.
When the seed germinates, you water it ,talk to it, let the sunshine into her life, add some fertilizers and take good care of it .
After your care and love, the plant will bloom and you can enjoy the beauty of that plant.
What if the seed does not grow?
You will have to replant another seed after a period of time or you can decide if the soil is just too rocky and you have to choose another piece of soil to plant your seed of love.
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