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writes:So I met this guy about a year and a half ago on a TV Show forum. I first started talking to him when he gave me guy advice. And we've talked ever since then, and we've grown really close, we've done video chat, IMVU, MySpace, all sorts of stuff to stay in contact. And I've developed feelings for him, and I'm almost positive he's developed feelings for me, he has told me "I care a lot about you" and he's flirted a little, just playful banter.The only problem is that he's older, and he lives in a different state. We've arranged to meet once I turn 18, because I'm visiting his city anyway the summer before college, and I can stay with him a few nights (He's really a harmless guy- my parents have OK'ed him, and me staying over with him.) I decided that while I'm there, I want to have sex with him, I'm just not sure how to go about it. I don't really know if I'm just being an idiot, but I've really connected with him, and like I said, I have feelings for him. Should I try to sleep with him? And when I'm over at his house, do you think he's going to try to sleep with me? I'm just trying to figure all this out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2010): RUNNNNNNNNNNNNN. it's a predator...
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reader, j-ay-d(e)  +, writes (5 April 2010):
Look i've met the boy from the internet. Only once before. I met him in a myspace chat room. I thought i would never meet him as i lived in Australia and he lived in the US. In the time we had been talking he had jointed the Navy, was based in Japan. I talked to him for about 2 years before his group in the Navy was due to come from Japan to Australia for a visit.
He was everything i'd ever dreamt about. I started to talk to him at 16, he was 21. I know that might seem wrong to alot of you but could really care less. When i met him he was 23 i was 18. The moment i saw him i was conviced it was love. He wrote me a song, sang it to me that day. Told me he loved me.
I spent 3 hours with him before we had sex, i couldn't keep my hands off him. I lost my viginity to him. If you have feelings for someone your going to through yourself at them, he clearing has feelings for you as he is letting you stay with him. If the chemisty is still there once you've actually met in person, it will happen.
By the way. I'm 21 now, i married the Navy boy a year after meeting him. We've been married 2 years now. We both live in the states. And are about to buy our first house together. Plan to start our family together in the next few years.
If you want to have sex with this boy it will happen. You've got a vigina he will try to have sex with you. No matter how sweet the guy is he will try to because thats what we are meant to do. Maybe if you don't want it just to be a week/weekend of sex, ask him how he feels. To make sure you know he likes you that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): you are too young for that. find a doll to play with
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 If you are going to stay over at his house, chances of having sex is very high.
You don't know what you are dealing with. Love and emotions are powerful forces .
Your raging hormones are like the Tsunami waves which will sweep you both to the place you have never been before.
If you go there, be forewarned..Make sure you practice safe sex.
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reader, ChristineAvril  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Will he want to have sex with you?
Er, what do you think? Young girl, just turned 18 and a virgin, willing to stay over alone for a few days.....
Unless the Earth has suddenly become flat, he WILL!
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