My boyfriend wants me to masterbate in front of him.
Q. Just a quick question. Before having sex once, my boyfriend was fingering me and he slowly guided my hand down and basically told me to sort of rub myself. I've never done that in front of anyone before so I was kinda uncomfortable and didn't. He ...
A. 17 October 2007: Holy cow!, yep, he's hinting alright mate.
If you are into it, dont worry what ever you do he will be incredibly turned on by it. Guys who are comfortable with their partners expressing their sexuality love seeing them pleasure themselv... (read in full...)
I found out my husband has been watching gay porn!
Q. I just found out that my husband of 13 years has been watching gay porn on our computer when I go to bed earlier than he does. I'm completely floored and haven't talked to him about it yet. We do have sex but not as much as I would like. I don't ...
A. 17 October 2007: I've never met a straight guy who watches gay porn I'm afraid. I think the tag bi-sexual is too easily attached to gay men who are married. i.e. "well, he has two kids and a lovely wife he can't be gay - he must be bi-sexual".
To me its a cop out,... (read in full...)
I told my bf we should go out on dates rather than just go out! Did it sound stupid? I'm afraid of the routine...
Q. I have been with my boyfriend since I was 16 and I am now 20, and he is my first serious boyfriend. I love him loads but sometimes I just feel like we do the same things, and I was joking and saying I have never been on a date because we starting ...
A. 17 October 2007: You got the right idea. To make him interested why dont you suggest something a bit naughty. i.e. somewhere where its only you two and you can wear something that turns him on.
Variety is the spice of life, if you bf doesnt click on in another 5 ye... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to be upset about my boyfriend saying that I get attention from men because they think I am a hooker??? He said it was a joke...
Q. Hi, I took my boyfriend to Las Vegas for his birthday.On our second night we were all dressed up and waiting for a bus to go to a show when some guys in a car started screaming to get my attention. I just looked back and asked them if they wer...
A. 17 October 2007: I think the major issue here is not the fact he called you a hooker but his reaction afterwards.
We men say some pretty stupid things sometimes, and if its a one off you should be able to put it in that list of really stupid insensitive things whic... (read in full...)
I don't regret having sex with him, but I'm confused
Q. A month ago i broke up with my long term boyfriend. There wasn't a real reason but i believe it was down to his jealously, as i had just started a job where all the people i work with except 1, are male. The break up wasn't ugly, even though i...
A. 17 October 2007: It all depends whether you enjoy the sex for sex's sake I guess.
In other words, does it make you feel bad about yourself?
After couples split up ( amicably) I think quite often they use each other as f*$k buddies until something else comes al... (read in full...)
Still not over my boy's daddy
Q. I am struggling to move on after being dumped by my ex 2 and a half years ago. He left me when I told him I was pregnant, 3 months later he was back with his ex. I felt used and worthless. We had been together for 2 years. He refused to have ...
A. 17 October 2007: My word, he really has a hold over you. Don't be surprised if his relationship with his new beau breaks up, that he comes back to you hat in hand. The thing that worries me about you is you would probably have him back.
Remember what this man did ... (read in full...)
Cat's away and mice wanna play
Q. I Need help ! Me and my boyfriend are currently on a break, which was my idea. My reason being was that we were getting in to too many arguments so I wanted some time to myself. But I met this guy the other night, and I really like him, and he feels ...
A. 17 October 2007: matey, go out with your new bf and have a ball !!
Just do one thing to show you are a nice person. Call your ex bf and tell him you two wont get back together and you hope he meets someone nice - and wish him luck , but you want to move on with your... (read in full...)
How can I find if he went with a prostitute?
Q. I think my bf of 4 years has cheated on me with a prostitute.I asked him, he denied know but I im having a problem believing him so. How can I go about finding out?...
A. 17 October 2007: Hi,
you have to tell us why you think he cheated with a prostitute first before anyone can offer advice on how to get him to own up.... (read in full...)
How to make sex last longer.
Q. I want my sexual experience to last longer. Unfortunately, I last for only about 5 minutes. I could handle oral sex okay for quite a long time but when I am inside my girlfrind, I cum within minutes. Please help me by advising me what to do. Can i ...
A. 16 October 2007: do you use condoms? if so , try the thickest as they are the most likely to take away the sensitiviy.
Also, masturbate before hand ... that should hold things off as well.... (read in full...)
I'm worried the strippers may have been better looking than me.
Q. My girlfriend (of 4 yrs) went to a club where there were male strippers for ladies night. she asked me about 10 times before she went if it was okay, and because she was celebrating a special occasion with a girlfriend of hers that was moving away, ...
A. 16 October 2007: Dude, dont take this the wrong way, but you are heading head first into losing what sounds like a lovely girl. And it would be ALL your fault.
You have trust issues, even though your girlfriend was upfront with you from the start and sought y... (read in full...)
How do I know if he'd accept my new moves?
Q. My boyfriend and I live together and we have sex pretty much every night. It's always the same: we get into bed at night, watch TV or lay there for a while, begin kissing and slowly move to sex. I want to try something different and random and s...
A. 16 October 2007: I agree with Tommy. Just do it.
If you are still hesitant, simply say: "Honey, I'm gonna pull your pants down and give you a mind blowing blowjob, do you have any problems with that"
There is not a guy on this planet who will not react positive... (read in full...)
Still living with my ex.
Q. Hi I moved in with my boyfriend about 2 and a half months ago, i was changing jobs and he is going through a divorce. We had argued a little (mainly down to me, he was soo patient), but generally things were good. i found it hard at first to shar...
A. 16 October 2007: Hi,
you sound very confused , and I can see why.
You are 22-25: seriously what are you doing getting involved in this type of situation? You should be out meeting new people and enjoying life at your age.
It sounds like you simply are not m... (read in full...)
I want to break off from our relationship, but he has suicidal tendencies. What do I do?
Q. I Have been living with my fiance for a little over a year now. Over the past few months I have been considering moving back home and breaking it off with him (I moved to TX for him from VA.) He had become very possesive and demeaning of my hopes ...
A. 16 October 2007: There is no easy way. He will continue with the "I'll kill myself" routine. You know this is destructive for both of you yet you are still with him.
I would get a friend or family member( preferably a male ) to help you pack your stuff and stan... (read in full...)
How do I convince my wife to have sex with another man??
Q. Please offer suggestions as to how to convince my late-50s wife to have sex with another man for our mutual pleasure. Although she has not always been faithful to me (she had an affair many years ago early in our marriage), she simply refuses to do ...
A. 16 October 2007: Kenny, it worries me when anybody mentions that they dont want to see answers that differ from the answers they feel are the right ones.
You say your wife likes to talk about the past love to turn you on. I can understand this, it turns me on as... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't seem to be attracted to me.
Q. I have had several chats just recently with my boyfriend about how I feel like he isn't that bothered about me, and just likes being in a relationship with anyone rather specifically me. He says he loves me, and got very emotional when I was ...
A. 16 October 2007: Hi,
there is not a lot of information to go on here. Is he conservative in his ideas and he expects you to cook,clean and fuss over him?
Or is he just lazy, wants to stay in and watch the telly and generally lie around doing bugger all.
Or is ... (read in full...)
I know it is right that I left, but my heart is saying something else!
Q. I broke up with my fiance a week ago and have tried very hard to not answer his calls. But just a few minutes ago he called and my caller id said "unknown" so stupidly I answered and it was him. He said that that was the only way he thought i would ...
A. 16 October 2007: Change your number instantly. Don't you see how controlling his behaviour is? You are one of the rare examples of a girl realising how destructive a controlling man can be in a relationship. Yet its tempting isnt it to go back? That's what he ... (read in full...)
I have to make a decision between these two countries, both achievable financially. It will affect my future, so how do I decide?
Q. Hi - not sure if anyone can help with a decision of the heart or head as I need to make a decision on whether to move to Seattle, WA (USA) or Melbourne, Australia. There are plus and minus aspects to both but I just cannot decide and have spent ...
A. 16 October 2007: If you like rain - go for Seattle .... (read in full...)
Is he still interested or just trying to tell me he's not? He hasn't gotten back to me to set the details yet.
Q. I asked out a guy in my office under the offer of dinner for his bday. He responded to he email instantly that he'd love to but that he wouldn't let me do the taking, that his upbringing and sense of chivlary required that he do the taking. This ...
A. 16 October 2007: errmmm..what day IS his birthday?
there is no way to answer this question without this information.... (read in full...)
Is she cheating? My friends saw her at the bar in another boy's company...
Q. My gf and I have been together for 3 and a half years.....we have lived together before and we even have a dog together. Right now we are both trying to finish up school...and are really busy with it. But something happened with me and her and I ...
A. 16 October 2007: I'm afraid she is not making it too subtle that she thinks the relationship is over. If all what you say is true this is appalling behaviour , your only option is to end the relationship and try and find someone who wants to spend time with you , ... (read in full...)
Want to feel worth of proper relationship
Q. right my dilema is... basically i got to know this guy right and he seemed to proper like me until today i found out that he dont like me 'in that way' and he was just horny. to be honest i think i'm coping well even though i was upset a bit earl...
A. 16 October 2007: You are meeting the wrong type of men here.
I am a man and while I'll admit to one night stands in my bachelor past, If I asked a girl out I would never assume that sex was on the menu for the night. I would hope that she wants to get to know me a... (read in full...)
He's changed but not in a good way. What should I do?
Q. My bf just sent me a text asking if i was still talking to him as he blew me off on the phone about an hour before to play drinking games with his flat mates and last week i told him how i felt about this( it hurts me n makes me feel unwanted, all i ...
A. 16 October 2007: He's at university playing drinking games hanging out with friends etc ...basically he's having a ball.
You are at home texting him and worrying and getting annoyed. This is not a good situation for a healthy relationship. I'm sorry but you both... (read in full...)
He seems to get alog better with his female friend than with me.
Q. my bf has gone to uni and is living in accommodation. we have been going out for 2 years and a half so it's a bit of a struggle. the thing is there's a girl in his halls that really fancies him! he said he gets along with her really well (this wa...
A. 16 October 2007: Hi,
I'm sorry to say, but I fear the worse for your relationship.
When you are at university there are so many wierd and wonderful things that pop up it is natural to embrace the new lifestyle that presents itself.
Now, I'm not condoning yo... (read in full...)
How do I let the guy I kissed last week know that I want him?
Q. I kissed a guy last weekend that ive known for about two years, after he made all the moves. i was pleasantly surprised at this because ive always known him to be shy and timid when it comes to girls. however, the communication between us during the ...
A. 16 October 2007: Oh boy, c'mon you two still haven't hooked up?
for heavens sake, just call him and yeah, ask him if he wants to meet when you get back.
But first see if he wants a drink before he goes, why dont you buy him a little present , no more than 5-10 qui... (read in full...)
Is my teacher flirting with me?
Q. Hello this may seem like a pointless question but i am just wanting to know what little treasure means? coz my teacher always calls me his little treasure and today he walked in the class when i was alone and said hello Becky hows my little treasure...
A. 12 October 2007: Sorry to say, but as an ex high school teacher I can say this is totally inappropriate. Apart from an obvious sign of favouritism it is making you question his intentions.
He might think it entirely innocent , but what the other posters dont real... (read in full...)
How to tell my boyfriend I'm in love with his best friend.
Q. SO THERE ARE THESE TWO GUYS. WHOM ARE BEST FRIENDS. AND IM DATING ONE OF THEM BUT I REALLY WANT THE OTHER. THEY ARE BOTH SOOO SWEET BUT I THINK IM IN LOVE WITH THE ONE IM NOT DATING. I HAVE NO CLUE WAT TO DO OR HOW TO TELL MY BF IM IN LOVE WITH HIS ...
A. 11 October 2007: Oh boy, you've got yourself in a right quandary here.
There is one thing that is an absolute guarantee. If you go off with the best friend, you will ruin their friendship.
But I feel what is more likely to happen is that you tell the best friend ,... (read in full...)
I've gotten myself into a situation, he has a girlfriend.
Q. Help! I have got myself into a complicated situation and need some advice! I have just recently started university where I have made lots of good friends and lets just say I have got to know one of them a lot better than the others! The only problem ...
A. 11 October 2007: If he was such a swell guy, he wouldnt be stringing you along like this.
He's not a married man with half a dozen kids in tow, he is a young bloke at university with few responsibilities. If he hasnt got the courage to break off with his "wit... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have female friends?
Q. Is it ok for married man to have female friends? No sex just talking on the phone and text messaging? ...
A. 11 October 2007: In a way it is a silly question as why cant an individual have a friend regardless of their sex.
But in reality it just doesnt seem to work out like that.
I dont know any married man who has a bunch of female friends that's entirely innocent... (read in full...)
How do I find out if I am really bi-sexual?
Q. I am happily married, but I am attracted to the same sex. I love looking at women, and I find myself fantisizing about doing things to/with them. I talked to my husband, and he thinks it is cool,(as long as he gets to watch/join in, but I don't ...
A. 11 October 2007: fair enough mate, if you're both into it go for it and Good luck!
... (read in full...)
Does my teacher hate me?
Q. I need to get on my teacher's good side fast, I can't afford any bad marks this school year. Anyways, I have this very confusing teacher. First off, he makes fun of me a lot, like when he tells the class he doesn't think of us as "retards".. then he ...
A. 11 October 2007: As an ex high school teacher I would advise the following.
This sounds relatively harmless, he has a wicked sense of humour that is perhaps a bit adult for you young years. Heavy use of sarcasm and irony is often not picked up by teens.
The onl... (read in full...)
How do I find out if I am really bi-sexual?
Q. I am happily married, but I am attracted to the same sex. I love looking at women, and I find myself fantisizing about doing things to/with them. I talked to my husband, and he thinks it is cool,(as long as he gets to watch/join in, but I don't ...
A. 11 October 2007: I'm a bit worried as it sounds as though you are looking for a date. "How do I act if we start dating"? Huh? arent you married?
I dont think your husband has dating in mind when he consented to you having a "relationship" with another girl. He mean... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay or just not interested in me???
Q. Is my boyfriend gay or just uninterested in me!! I live with my boyfriend of 2 years and i know quite a lot about his past he has been with a guy before and gave him a blow job he had split from his ex who he moved to england with and said he was ...
A. 11 October 2007: Well you could almost put down his previous experience to youth experimentation etc. The drummer in my band years ago admitted to giving a guy a blowjob just for the hell of it. He wasnt gay. He just wanted to try it out. Yuck. But hey, different ... (read in full...)
I don't understand American women.
Q. I recently broke up with my girlfriend of almost one year. Let me explain why, she was married but seperated when we met and on valentines day her husband (seperated) broke into her home and beat her up. She moved in with me and pressed charges only ...
A. 11 October 2007: Wow, I almost felt sorry for you . I certainly feel sorry for the women involved , she is a classic example of a person who cant rid herself of abuse.
But you sir are a genuine racist and I have no sympathy for people like you.... (read in full...)
Do I tell him how I feel?
Q. Last year, when I entered college as a freshman, I met this guy and we hit it off right away. He was from my hometown, but he had a girlfriend (2 years younger) who was still at home. We hung out almost every night, with no sexual contact or even ...
A. 11 October 2007: Whatever it is you decide the situation will evolve off its own accord. When you are at university things change so rapidly and your own priorities change as well. So I would just go with the flow, enjoy his company but realise that at university he ... (read in full...)
Can't two people ever just fall in love, stay in love and not have to constantly "WORK" on the relationship?
Q. Has anyone ever been in a relationship where true love has lasted for longer than 5-7 years. I think I've just given up hope that true love can last for an eternity. I think for most women that "newness" feeling can last forever (if we are with ...
A. 11 October 2007: My wife and I just celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary. And I have to admit if looking at it closely neither of us put a lot of effort into making the relationship work , it just does and we are as hot for each other now as when we first met.
S... (read in full...)
I like to go out with my friend, but it seems the only place we can go is where I end up getting drunk and making out with total strangers. There must be more to life than this! Can you help?
Q. Hi. I have been going out to this place on friday nights where I go with my best mate. Its ok, but it means that I drink alot n makeout wit people that do drugs n stuff like that. I also hav to lie to my parents about where im goin. Theyd neva let ...
A. 11 October 2007: At your age you are in danger of being raped. Someone at some stage in the club will realise that there is a very young vulnerable girl hanging around and will take advantage of that.
We all know what its like being a teenager and how hard it is w... (read in full...)
I have a girlfriend... But I like somebody else, who is already taken! What do I do?
Q. I have a girlfriend but i like this other girl but she has a boyfriend. I don't even know if i love my girlfriend anymore, but i love it when im around this other person. I;ve knowen this girl for 5 years but i've only started to feel this way the ...
A. 11 October 2007: If you have any respect for your current girlfriend you will break up with her now.
Its obvious you can gone as far as you can with this current girl because you are starting to look around for alternatives. It just so happens you have latched on t... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't make herself up at all! Is there any way I can address this?
Q. I have a question about something that is bothering me regarding my GF. She refuses to get a tan of any kind. OK that's fine. She doesn't want skin cancer. I can appreciate that. I am 44 and she is 40. Today she met me for lunch but she did not ...
A. 11 October 2007: I'm sorry, but this concern sounds very superficial. My wife wears very little makeup and I find if a girl wears a lot of makeup its the ultimate turn off. But that comes down to personal preference and I guess its different strokes for different ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me. Now he wants me back. What should I do?
Q. i caught my boyfriend cheating on me and i broke up with him now he wants me back,what should i do? ...
A. 11 October 2007: Can you provide more details? It really is hard to offer advice when we know nothing behind what's happened.
On the surface most people would not get back together as the trust has been betrayed. However, a lot of couples do manage to get over thes... (read in full...)
I feel our relationship is hitting a dead end.
Q. I stated seeing a man seven weeks ago and I like him very much. He is a wonderful person, but there is one big problem. He can't stop buying old radios, stereos, toys, video games, player pianos, record albums, etc. His basement, garage and house ...
A. 10 October 2007: Hoarders seem to be uniquely male dont they?
Don't know why this is, but you hear about these problems all the time in various chat shows etc.
the only suggestion I would add is not to move in with him unless his house,garage is devoid of all thes... (read in full...)
What if he really is just too busy?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me out of the blue a few weeks ago and my mind is reeling. We are both teachers, and he signed on to do a lot of extra activities this year (and got suckered into a few more). He got in way over his head without ...
A. 10 October 2007: I'm sorry to say but he sounds like a real bastard.
I used to be a high school teacher, but the busiest time was during my teacher training. I would get up at 5am , do lesson plans for 2 hours then go to school, teach all day , come home, do essay... (read in full...)
How do I get him back and get him to see.
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for 4 years and we had a big fight. He is not ready for marriage because we fight a lot. the cause is my insecurity and frustration as he ia taking all his time to decide. I love him a lot and don't wanna ...
A. 10 October 2007: Is the cause really your insecurity and frustration . What I mean is, do all the arguments you have revolve around you pestering him to get married?
I ask this as the reason you gave sounds a bit to me like HE is saying that you are insecure.
Anywa... (read in full...)
How do I let the guy I kissed last week know that I want him?
Q. I kissed a guy last weekend that ive known for about two years, after he made all the moves. i was pleasantly surprised at this because ive always known him to be shy and timid when it comes to girls. however, the communication between us during the ...
A. 8 October 2007: If you have his number, give him a call and arrange to meet up somewhere. Make it the daytime so its less threatening, you could go for a coffee, or something else. If you know something he's interested in you could suggest that ( books,music ... (read in full...)
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