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I told my bf we should go out on dates rather than just go out! Did it sound stupid? I'm afraid of the routine...

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Question - (16 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been with my boyfriend since I was 16 and I am now 20, and he is my first serious boyfriend. I love him loads but sometimes I just feel like we do the same things, and I was joking and saying I have never been on a date because we starting going out in school and I said we should go out on dates rather than just go out. but he thinks the idea sounds stupid, I just dont want to let the relationship get all routine and make us fall out?

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (17 October 2007):

Collaroy agony auntYou got the right idea. To make him interested why dont you suggest something a bit naughty. i.e. somewhere where its only you two and you can wear something that turns him on.

Variety is the spice of life, if you bf doesnt click on in another 5 years he might find his girlfriend has become REALLY bored.

Good luck. ( I remember being a young lad in my early 20's we are a stubborn bunch, so be insistent!!! )

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (17 October 2007):

Nothing wrong with asking for something new. Why don't you ask him out and plan the date?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007):

I think this is a fantastic idea that more couples should follow - well done I think your brilliant!

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