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writes: My boyfriend and I live together and we have sex pretty much every night. It's always the same: we get into bed at night, watch TV or lay there for a while, begin kissing and slowly move to sex.I want to try something different and random and spontaneous. I want to pull his pants down in the middle of the kitchen and give him oral. I want to grab him and shove him up against a wall and just go at it.But I'm nervous to. What if I try this and he rejects it? How do i know he wants it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): I personally would love for my girl to do something like that. It would make me feel very wanted.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (16 October 2007):
He is a man if you do that i cant see him saying no,just do it go for it, it will add that little bit extra spice and im sure he will love it
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (16 October 2007):
I think that you should go for it! I have an idea.....get a sexy lady cop outfit and you can "arrest" him and have your way with him. I think that your guy won't object to that!! Also, be creative!
Good Luck
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reader, ozen +, writes (16 October 2007):
that's fine just go ahead since that is what u want and he will also like and some men like surprises especially in such a way. and when doing that u must dress in a very attractive and sexy way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): I'd say go for it, but if you take him by surprise like that it might be a good idea to ensure he's not been too long out of the shower. He might think his todger could be distasteful and either make excuses or back off from you, especially if he's not been circumcised.
Sorry to be a bit graphic, but there you go.
Phil
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): You have to go for it, I really cant see him objecting.
Have fun!
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (16 October 2007):
I agree with Tommy. Just do it.
If you are still hesitant, simply say: "Honey, I'm gonna pull your pants down and give you a mind blowing blowjob, do you have any problems with that"
There is not a guy on this planet who will not react positively to that comment ( if he shys away from that get the hell out of there!!! )
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (16 October 2007):
Don't ask, just do it. Most guys would be pleased. Unless you know he has strict morals against anything but the missionary position. If he rejects it take him into the bedroom.
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