I always try to be confident when he's mean, why is he such a jerk?
Q. hi me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 9 months. we have both said we love each other...my friends think we should break up.. my problem is he confuses me by saying stuff like my boobs are to small he can be a jerk and mean . i a...
A. 7 September 2008: Honey, the answer is simple. Get rid of him. He's not treating you with the respect you deserve. saying that you're boobs are small? you gotta be kidding me. Tell him to get lost. He's only going to make you lose your confidence.Find someone who ... (read in full...)
How could I let her know of my interest in sex with her without putting her on the spot?
Q. I am 18. My relationship with my girlfriend ended with her leaving and I we have remained friends which is cool. From dating my ex- girlfriend I have gotten to know her mom well. She is a very nice woman and very attractive. The other night I gave ...
A. 24 August 2008: Just curious, but don't you think it would be awkward since it is your ex-girlfriends mom?... (read in full...)
What do I say to my 10 year-old son after he saw us having sex?
Q. I was having sex with my neighbour and my 10 year old son walked in and saw us. It kind of spoiled the mood just as we were getting into it. I have taught my son to always knock and wait for someone to answer before entering a room.I am a single ...
A. 24 August 2008: I agree with the above answer. You don't have anything to apologise for, instead talk to your son about why he didn't knock.Of course you have to do it in such a way that your not "angry" with him. You can explain that you "like" your neighbor ... (read in full...)
How do I get to spend time with her away from the conference?
Q. I have a sexual fantasy that I would like to live out. Perhaps you can tell me how. As part of my job I go to many conferences in different cities. These conferences last for a few days to a week. At these conference I often see a beautiful woma...
A. 24 August 2008: well if i was the girl i definately won't let you near me or my knickers, that's of course if your intentions are purely sexual. Are they?... (read in full...)
I'm getting brown spots on my forehead. What could they be?
Q. I would appreciate it if any specialists or dermatologists can help with this one. I am really desperate. Please help. I am an attractive young girl aged 31, and up until 3 years ago I had perfect, flawless skin. Now, over the last year I developed ...
A. 24 August 2008: Hello Irish. Thanks for answering but let me give more info. No, I don't tan,(I have done it only a few times in the past but not enought to cause damage, in fact, I wear sunblock 365 days of the year since the marks started. I eat healthy, don't ... (read in full...)
Seems like anything I say or do irritates him. I love him but this is so painful.
Q. My boyfriend of close to 7 years and I are having problems. We tend to argue over silly things and no matter how many times he tells me not to, I continue to do so. It has gotten worse since I moved away for work...we have been doing the Long ...
A. 24 August 2008: Hi there. You need to find out if there's un underlying problem. One of the reasons why people tend to "blow up" is because of a deep seated issue or just another issue, whether it be someone at work, or his parents or a friend anything that might ... (read in full...)
Been together for 3 years now: do I stay and wait for him to be ready or find someone who can commit?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years. we really love and care about eachother. i asked him a year ago if he wanted to move in together. he said he wasnt ready. now a year later i asked him if he wanted to and he said he still wasnt ...
A. 24 August 2008: You definately have to move on babe. 3 years is enough time to know how you feel about someone and the importance of the role they play in your life. If he is 50/50 now, then you need to save the yourself the heartache and get out of this asap. And ... (read in full...)
My friend thinks it's OK to cheat unless you're ready to get married. Is this acceptable?
Q. I have a work partner that love to talk about sex, and relationships,. One day we were talking about relationships and she said that if you are with a guy that you like and enjoy being around, you still should go out with other guys until you meet ...
A. 24 August 2008: I agree with you and Emivia. This friend of yours is trying to rationalise her "unacceptable" behaviour. I certainly wouldn't accept that if I was engaged or ever just dating her. It's defiantely not OK to sleep around even if the person is just ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get my live-in girlfriend to break up?
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for two years and we just got a place together. its only been 2 weeks and its been misery. but i try and leave her and she wont leave ive tried to break it off 4 times but there is no end? why?...
A. 24 August 2008: hi.can you give more details please.for example, were you happy with her during the 2 years? If the answer is yes, you have to accept that living together is never easy, no matter how long you love the person or how well you think you know them. If ... (read in full...)
Are we too young to have a baby even though I'd drop out of school to support her?
Q. Hey i am 15 and my gf is 14. The other day my girlfriend said she wanted a baby. I was shocked at this but also happy because it means she loves me enough to wants kids. We spoke about this some more ans she is serious. She also says that a ch...
A. 20 August 2008: Yeah, I have to agree with everyone else. Honey, this girlfriend of yours may be sweet and all that, but that is the little girl in her talking. This should be discouraged immediately and you're absolutely right to think you're too young. you both ... (read in full...)
I am jealous of my long-distance BF and fight with him over the phone, how can I change?
Q. Hey people i need your help.am jealous of my boyfriend.we are in a long distance relationship.every weekend he goes out clubbin and i dont like the idea.i just feel jealous since myself i dont go out.so on sundays i just feel i despise him and when ...
A. 19 August 2008: Do you have trust issues with this guy? Why do you feel insecure?... (read in full...)
The man I love won't leave his fiancee like he said he would, does he really love me?
Q. Hi everybody please dont judge me too soon as i already feel very guilty. I was previously in a relationship and split up since then I have met up with a friend of ours. We are instantly attracted to each other and couldnt help ourselves from having ...
A. 19 August 2008: hey babe. Oh yes what a tough situation this is.Right now the only thing you can do is to temporarily forget him. Give him an ultimatum. Of course it's hard for both of you, but you're adults and knew what you were getting into. Stop seeing him, and ... (read in full...)
I'm older than the girl I met, is that bad?
Q. I am a 29 year old male from the UK. Two months ago, I met this lovely 21 year old young lady. I have fallen head over heels for her; we are very much in love. But, the age gap bothers me. Does it really matter that my girlfriend is many years yo...
A. 19 August 2008: Are you kidding?? I'm 30 and my husband is 58 and we get along like a house on fire! Known him for 5 years, been married for 4, so don't let the age gap get in the way of a good thing!... (read in full...)
I get self concious about my height. How can I loosen up and approach the guy I like?
Q. I'm sixteen and I feel like I don't fit in a lot. I'm 5'11 and most of the boys are shorter than me. I hate going to dances. I went to my semi and wore shoes that made me 6'2. I'm freakishly tall. I like this boy and I think he likes me. I feel too ...
A. 19 August 2008: hey girl! You need to love yourself more, if a guy "problem" with you being tall, well boo hoo, it's his loss. You should walk tall with your head held high! Be proud of who you are!... (read in full...)
I like a guy online, but he says it is illegal to date me
Q. recently i met a guy online and developed proper big feelings for him that were like masssssive. when he came online it wwas like my heart exploded insid me and i would go all funny when he emailed me, thing is hes a lot older than me and a load mo...
A. 19 August 2008: It is illegal because you're underage and he could get busted. Also remember there's lots of psychos out there, people on the net pretending to be what they're not or he could be some married guy who's bored or something, so if you do end up meeting ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, but he fools around with me. I know he won't leave her. What can I do?
Q. two years ago i had started my first job when i had met dave. as soon as i had seen him i was infatuated by him. within a couple of days knowing him i had made up my mind that i liked him, even though i knew he had been dating someone for a year and ...
A. 19 August 2008: No darling, no. Get away from him, you're playing with fire here. It's not going to happen you and him. People tend to want what they can't have, sometimes, so just get over the infatuation and move. You're young, you don't need this,good luck!... (read in full...)
Should I try and stay friends with my abusive ex?
Q. Hello, I recently have left my boyfriend of 2 years. It has been 1 month. I ignored him for about 3 weeks because the last day i saw him, he hit me. this is not the first time it had happened. he has been hitting me on and off for about 18months. he ...
A. 19 August 2008: Hey Doll, I absolutely agree with everyone else here. You must be strong, and not even consider going near this animal again. Obviously you still have feelings for him but he doesn't deserve it, at all.You better off healing aftert this and meeting ... (read in full...)
I found porn on my dads computer - help!
Q. i found pornography on my dads computer a couple of days ago. i have always been sensitive and an only child and led a very sheltered life. i know hardly anything about sexual things or anything like that and find porn quite revolting myself. I ...
A. 10 August 2008: How refreshing! A young innocent flower that doesn't know about sex.Honey, don't worry about your Dad, he's a guy, all guys look at porn!ALL OF THEM!And yes, it's very noraml. Of course it's natural to be a bit disgusted when you see your parents do ... (read in full...)
Is it true that larger girls are better in bed that skinny girls?
Q. A friend of mine (male) told me tonight that larger ladies are really good in bed, i've always been big and it's kinda made me feel good, haha.. His girlfriend is a larger girl although she is absolutly beautiful, he says they have the best sex life...
A. 9 August 2008: Absolutely not true, maybe for your friend because of his experience, but that's just him. Size aint got nothing to do with it.... (read in full...)
He is a very good husband and I feel that I should be happy but I'm not. What do I do? Stay or go?
Q. I have been with my husband for 4 years and have been married 2. He is a very good husband and I feel that I should be happy but I'm not. I used to be excited when he got home from work or if he called me but I'm not anymore. I feel like I shou...
A. 9 August 2008: Well, it is kind of worrying that you've thought of leaving, but maybe you should change your thought process a bit. Unfortunately the others are right, the butterflies and all the other fuzzy stuff, does go away after a while but it's normally ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid that this girl is going to ruin my life, and there doesn't seem anything I can do to stop it! Please help.
Q. Hey all! Me and my girlfriend were going out for three months when i found out she was cheating on me. We talked it over and decided to stay together. We continued going out for another three months and then she dumped me for a different guy (not ...
A. 9 August 2008: Trust me, you are thinking on the right track. Get that restraining order as it is the only thing at this point that will stop her. She IS ruining your life, your happiness! She is a manipulitive little B#$%%^, and she needs to be taught a lesson. ... (read in full...)
He want's me to have sex with others as he watches:
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been dating the same guy for 3 years. Over all it's been fantastic and unlike many of girlfriends I feel sexually I have it made! He's a great lover in "size", caring and making sure that I stay sexually satisfied. I'm so into him...
A. 7 August 2008: Hey. If you don't mind me asking, how far did you get with this issue? I feel for you. It was be terrible since you obviously love him but you don't agree on this. ... (read in full...)
Is anal sex always painful?
Q. My husband and I have a great sex life, however in the 4 years that I've known we've only had anal intercourse, successfully, twice. I consider myself sexually adventurous, but I am absolutely terrified about this for 2 reasons. M husband is VERY ...
A. 7 August 2008: Hey. To all those who offered advice. Thanks. Fortunately I have a wonderful,understanding husband and the anal sex was as much my idea as his. I discussed my concers about getting injured and of course he is very understanding, besides there are ... (read in full...)
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