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writes:I am struggling to move on after being dumped by my ex 2 and a half years ago. He left me when I told him I was pregnant, 3 months later he was back with his ex. I felt used and worthless. We had been together for 2 years. He refused to have anything to do with my son until 3 months ago. His attitude has changed, and has set up a date to come and see his child. The problem is I still have strong feelings for him regardless of him wronging me. I dont want to be with anybody else. But I know the best thing to do is to move on. I dont think he feels the same way for me as he is still with his former ex. How can I help myself!!! I really want to move on but at the same time my heart still aches for my ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx to the two people who responded to my question I was going through a hard time, you helped me to be stronger. The baby's came to see his child and at xmas he sent money for his pesents.I still have feelings for him but have chosen to take your advice not to get involved with him again. Its not easy, am taking it one step at a time.Its definitely for the better.I think he is not interested as well as he hasnt made any move on me. Thanx, will keep you posted and will try to do whats right.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 My word, he really has a hold over you. Don't be surprised if his relationship with his new beau breaks up, that he comes back to you hat in hand. The thing that worries me about you is you would probably have him back.
Remember what this man did to you:
He left you while you were pregnant.
He has made you feel worthless.
and yet you state his "attitude has changed". In what way? Is it that he has suddenly become slightly human as he wants to see his child?
I'm worried for you as you appear to be open to men who love to control and abuse their partners. You have got to try and break the attraction you find in this type of man. He is a selfish arsehole who treated you like a worthless piece of meat. You should treat him accordingly.
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reader, Yogichickk  +, writes (17 October 2007):
 don't even go that road. You can still love him, you just don't have to be with him. And don't see him.
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