Sex is painful, not pleasurable! Any advise?
Q. I have been sexually active for 8 months now, and sex still hurts. I use lubrication in which helps but I still find that sex is painful more than enjoyable and even at times where sex doesn't hurt, I'm expecting it to hurt and therefore cannot r...
A. 8 September 2008: I might be wrong, but it could be because you are tense and not relaxed whenever you start having intercourse, it happens in your subconscious, bacause you've had bad experiences before, now you just get nervous and tense whenever your about to have ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?
Q. Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...
A. 6 September 2008: reading your comment, i'm sorry to say but she doesn't love you, and you should report her to the police before she gets her hands on some other young kid.... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?
Q. Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...
A. 6 September 2008: You should stay away from her and never see her again, as she is definately mentaly ill. It's not healthy and not right what she's doing, legaly she'd be in a lot of trouble.... (read in full...)
I'm a shadow of the woman I used to be in my marriage. Has his emotional cruelty turned me into this?
Q. Would love to hear any advice. I am completely overwhelmed with my situation and don't know where to begin to sort it out. For at least the last 10 years of my 15 years of married life I have been unhappy. I have always found my husband to be ...
A. 6 September 2008: Hi there, I'm very sorry for what i'm about to say to you but it's the truths, the situation your in is only your fault and no one elses, first of all you should never of let your hasband treat you bad and without respect for 10 years. People like ... (read in full...)
Please help me - I've been raped and it's destroying my life!
Q. i feel so dirty! i always wanted to save my virignity for marrage, and even if i didnt wait until marrage i wanted to wait until i had settled down with the right guy and i knew i was fully comfortable! well, even though i am in quite a good ...
A. 5 September 2008: Sweetheart, I'm so sorry that it happened to you. but you are very strong and it's good that you've let yourself to open up here, it should make you feel better (for what its worth), because it's a very hard thing to keep all in. I beleive in Karma, ... (read in full...)
Do men who don't watch porn exist or should I give up and stay single?...
Q. when I commit to a special man I hope to be his only and for him to get his sexual arousal from my body alone...is this too much to ask.....I cant imagine ever needing to look at another mans body for arousal once commited....and I cant imagine ever ...
A. 5 September 2008: All men watch porn and masturbate wheather they admit to it or not. the good thing here is that when they do watch porn and masturbate they think and fantasise of their girlfriend. so maybe it doesnt feel nice for us girls but watching porn is ... (read in full...)
Am I a normal teenager?
Q. I am a 19 year old boy. I am starting my 2nd year of university, and I know what this means to a lot of people "parties, sex, alcohol etc." But this doesn't concern me. When people are out going crazy Im at home studying. I recently asked a girl ...
A. 5 September 2008: Please stop worrying!!!! I wish there was more man like you out there! The girl that you choose to be with, will be the luckiest girl ever!!! I'm jealous that it won't be me!!! :-) and I totaly agree with shandygirl. Good luck for your future!! x... (read in full...)
How tight is a normal vagina?
Q. I am 19 and i am a virgin but my boyfriend and I have discussed it and we have both decided we are ready for sex and I am excited but also very worried because I have some concerns about my vagina I have been fingered a couple of times and both peo...
A. 5 September 2008: Makes sure that you realy want to do it first and you are not being pushed into it. Theres absolutely nothing wrong with you, and vagina normally stretches, just tell your bf to be gentle, and yes please use lubricant or even better ... (read in full...)
What would happen if I did become pregnant and I didn't know and I was still taking the pills? I don't have any periods at all, and I've taken the pills for the past 3 years daily.
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years now and he recently proposed to me. He has openly told me about the amount of girlfriends he has had and what ones he'd slept with. When we got together i said i would go onto the mini pill- as we, and ...
A. 5 September 2008: You and your boyfriend are very iresponsible. Run to your GP or any Family Plannning Clinic or any under 25 as all of them are free. Not using a condom? even you are saying you boyfriend has had sex with many girls, and those girls have slept with ... (read in full...)
What would happen if I did become pregnant and I didn't know and I was still taking the pills? I don't have any periods at all, and I've taken the pills for the past 3 years daily.
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years now and he recently proposed to me. He has openly told me about the amount of girlfriends he has had and what ones he'd slept with. When we got together i said i would go onto the mini pill- as we, and ...
A. 5 September 2008: You and your boyfriend are very iresponsible. Run to your GP or any Family Plannning Clinic or any under 25 as all of them are free. Not using a condom? even you are saying you boyfriend has had sex with many girls, and those girls have slept with ... (read in full...)
I am torn between loving two women.
Q. I am in love with two women. One my wife (about to be five years) that I have been seperated from for about a year and a few months. The other I have been with for the same amount of time. Yes, I lost touch with my wife and the goals I wanted in ...
A. 5 September 2008: Hi there, it sounds like you are lost in dispear and wasting you time. If you love your wife, then get in touch with her and tell her how you feel (it won't be easy but it will make you feel better). it's been over a year that you are separated but ... (read in full...)
Was I a stalker, or just a jilted person with a big crush?
Q. Ok, so I read someone else's question, and wonder am I a stalker, or just a typical crazy chick? I had a fling with this totally hot guy I worked with part time. I had, had a crush on him for over a year. when he finally asked me out I was thrilled. ...
A. 5 September 2008: When we fall for some one-we do crazy things that normaly we would never think of doing, we go blind and deaf and the only person we see or hear is the person we have a crush on, especialy if those feelings come just from one person and not from the ... (read in full...)
I'm disabled and can't date. Is it wrong to pay for sex?
Q. Im disabled for 3 years now, is it wrong to pay for sex ive never had to resort to this but now because of my disability i cant get out to meet women so i feel that is the only answer...
A. 5 September 2008: Your life has changed in the past 3 years, but you are still the same man on the inside that you always have been. So keep your head up high and think positive, and sooner or later your true love will find you (as long as you don't lock youself ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity but I don't know who to lose it with!
Q. i want to lose my virginity but idk who to loose it with...i want to with my ex because he's the only one that im comfortable with...im not comfortable wit sumone else...so should i just have sex wit my ex and continue on with my life? or just ...
A. 5 September 2008: Hi there, I have lost my virginity at about your age (14)so I won't advive you to do it nor not to do it, the final decision is all up to you. but if you do decide to loose your virginity now, no matter how much you want it, you will regret it later ... (read in full...)
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