Why do we girls go for the bad boys?
Q. this is just a curious question here. Why do most girls fall for the "bad boy" lol so far i have liked 3 guys and two of them are bad. I wont get into it because i hate when folks judge, but anyways most girls who i know and are friends with much ...
A. 30 April 2008: Three cheers for LIERIN !
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HIP HIP HOORAY!!!... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with my past, now he's broken up with me again! Do you think he'll come back to me?
Q. He broke up with me again! He always comes back after a while, do you think he'll come back to me again? Ok, I posted about something like this a few days ago. the thing is he has issues with my past. I really love him, and apparently he do...
A. 30 April 2008: Hi,
oh dear, I only hope that your theory about whether he will be like this with other girls comes true.
You may have found your soul mate, but he is a damaged soul mate. He will only make your life miserable when he comes back .
You ask u... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to understand that I find anal sex painful?
Q. My husband likes anal sex but i find it painful. We have tried lube to no avail. How do i make him understand how i feel? ...
A. 30 April 2008: Hi again,
your not a prude you are simply a person who doesnt enjoy anal sex?
So the threat to use a dildo on i'm I guess would backfire. doh!!
At the end of the day it is about you and your body and what you enjoy during sex. Have you asked h... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to understand that I find anal sex painful?
Q. My husband likes anal sex but i find it painful. We have tried lube to no avail. How do i make him understand how i feel? ...
A. 30 April 2008: I agree with the above, by a large strap on dildo and tell him that you want to do him first. He may start to go off it rather quickly.
Alternatively, just tell him that it hurts and you are not going to do it again, and what is wrong with vagi... (read in full...)
He pursued me for about two months, then virtually overnight he changed!
Q. I have been dating this guy who is 42. He was very, very into me, and pursued me for about 2 months. He really gained my trust, and I liked him a lot. We started having sex (three weeks ago) and virtually overnight he stopped being on time, ...
A. 30 April 2008: Sorry mate, but once the chase was over it's down to football socks in bed, get us a beer darling, and loud obnoxious personal habits.
He doesnt sound like a real player but just a guy who thinks that he's put in enough effort for you to accept the ... (read in full...)
My friend flirts with a married man,but only to take his job, should I tell him?
Q. My friend Patricia says that this married man loves her, she sees him regularly, always flirts and laughs at his jokes, he's 10 years her senior, she says he loves it and she thinks he's mad about her, she laughs about it but she's always degrading ...
A. 30 April 2008: Hi,
I think we arent getting the whole picture here. Yes he may be swooning over this girl and it wouldnt be the first time a man thought with his penis. But equally likely is he is playing her himself.
So as far as I'm concerned they deserve ... (read in full...)
How can I give hubbie a great blowjob, he's too big for my mouth!
Q. I want to give my husband amazing blow jobs, however, I have a very small mouth (and TMJ on top of that) and my husband has a big cock, so you see my dilemma here! Aside from that I have a shy husband (he's too shy to cum in my mouth, he's afraid I ...
A. 30 April 2008: Hi,
when my partner gives me a blowjob she concentrates on the head anyway, so very little goes in her mouth. the really sensitive part is between the shaft and the knob ( so keep the teeth away! ) but if you just concentrate by licking and kiss... (read in full...)
Why do we girls go for the bad boys?
Q. this is just a curious question here. Why do most girls fall for the "bad boy" lol so far i have liked 3 guys and two of them are bad. I wont get into it because i hate when folks judge, but anyways most girls who i know and are friends with much ...
A. 30 April 2008: I believe anybody who has any idea about pyschology can answer this. It is as old as bread this behaviour.
The answer is simple, some woman ( damn it a lot of woman ) are attracted to personalities who will dominate and treat them poorly. It's bec... (read in full...)
He promised he wouldnt, but he's still looking at other girls, help!
Q. How do i trust my boyfriend again after he has lied so much? My boyfriend carried on looking at other girls even though he said that he wasn't, he seen how much it was hurting me yet he continued to do it, and lie about it again and again. Now my ...
A. 30 April 2008: Hi there,
I wonder if its because the post is so short but I have not seen any bigger indication of a total lack of self confidence than you have presented here.
You don't like your boyfriend looking at girls, do you mean trying to hit on them or ... (read in full...)
What exactly should a woman do during sex?
Q. Hi, I'm 18 and I'm not sexually active. I'm not planning on starting anytime soon, I'm just curious about something. What exactly should a woman do during sex? What can she do to make it more pleasurable for the man? It seems that just lying there ...
A. 30 April 2008: Hi,
its not a case of what you should do as in a step by step plan as sex is often impulsive and involves lots of passionate groping and fondling stuff.
And I believe if you are a passionate or sexual person nature will take its course . But I ha... (read in full...)
I was too shy and bottled a good chance with the girl of my dreams!
Q. Hi all. First off i'd like to say how much i like this site. I've been reading here since 2005 and posted a few questions in the past, it's addictive reading! Anyway i wondered if you could help me with a situation i have, i'll try not to make this...
A. 30 April 2008: dude,
are you reading the advice people are giving you?... (read in full...)
My older BF discusses our most private issues with his mates and makes me feel so dirty by improper remarks! Is this all my fault??
Q. My bf is 11 years old than me i am 17 and he is 28 he gets very jelous but then he loves parading me in front of his friends. We were in a pub. I bent over to pick up a packet of crisps and he was saying to his mates "that is all mine when ever i ...
A. 30 April 2008: Hi,
you really want to change him dont you? You really think you can change him dont you?
Get one thing straight, he sees you as his little plaything that he can boast about to his mates. He will never change for you , never. That is why your par... (read in full...)
The best way to spend the wedding night?
Q. what is the best way to spent first night of wedding....
A. 30 April 2008: ummm.. shagging?... (read in full...)
I found gay websites in my boyfriend's computer, should I confront him? Is he gay?
Q. I found gay websites in my boyfriends computer, should I confront him? My bf is a people person, very friendly and outgoing. We have been dating for a year now, he is 30 years old. A couple months ago I found gay websites on his computer...
A. 30 April 2008: Hi,
you need to clear the air with him. Visiting gay websites is not something straight men tend to do, but he may be bi-sexual. Having said that though the lack of intimacy tends to cast a doubt on potential bi-sexuality.
What is your boyfrien... (read in full...)
I'm fairly good looking but don't stand a chance compared to other girls at the gym. Is there any hope to catch his attention?
Q. ok. i really fancy a guy who works at my gym. we talk and have a bit of banter with each other whenever i see him - he was my personal trainer a few months ago. the thing is i always look terrible...hair tied back, red in the face and sweating ...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi there,
first step is to stop comparing yourself to the other girls. Admitedly we guys are visual creatures but most of us look for something particular in a girl - not just simply pick out the girl who is apparently the most attractive.
So th... (read in full...)
I was too shy and bottled a good chance with the girl of my dreams!
Q. Hi all. First off i'd like to say how much i like this site. I've been reading here since 2005 and posted a few questions in the past, it's addictive reading! Anyway i wondered if you could help me with a situation i have, i'll try not to make this...
A. 29 April 2008: Alright mate, geez you suffer from the same affliction I did at your age. The gals out there really dont know how hard it is for a shy guy to ask a girl out.
But you have an advantage you know this girl and are on friendly terms with her. And you ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to warm up the sex action?
Q. hey just wonderin for a it of advice im not a virgin as i had sex many times with my ex boyfriend but i felt that i was very shy and self conscious about it an feel that i wasnt very good! has be1 any tips on how to improve the performance and maybe ...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi,
go for his privates. When you are making out, kissing etc.. gently run your hand along his crotch. Take control, take his pants off yourself then his undies , then let nature take its course. Ask him what he likes?
The only way to spice th... (read in full...)
Why are my boyfriend's friends so harsh on women needing to fit a certain prototype? I don't understand.
Q. I think I may have a problem with self-image. The thing is, of late, I've more been around more people who really take into account appearences before they get to know people. They are my boyfriend's friends and they are often discussing and deba...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi there,
your boyfriend needs to realise what a bunch of wankers he's hanging out with - and I guess so do you, by this I mean you have to realise that wanting to be accepted by them is a fruitless task - they will dump you like a dirty rag the ... (read in full...)
Is it over exposure that's causing him to not find me attractive anymore? He's looking elsewhere!
Q. Here's the thing, last week my boyfriend and I spent A LOT of time together, going places and being together and it felt good, EXCEPT for him it doesn't seem to count for anything!!!! He says he's not attracted to me (although he certainly was a ...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi,
its time to leave him to explore his studhood elsewhere, the guys blowing hot air and is a jerk.
Dump him. find someone else who will show you a little respect.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he loves me and doesn't care if we never have sex again. Should I believe him? I have a low sex drive!
Q. my partner and i have been together for nearly six years. over the last year or so, my sex drive has completley vanished. its very rare i feel "in the mood". my boyfriend tries to initiate sex a couple of times a week, to which i just ignore him,...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi,
your boyfriend obviously loves you very much. But you know and everyone knows that at some stage ( you are only 18-21 ) he is going to want the intimacy that is missing in his life.
He has given you time to sort yourself out, you should d... (read in full...)
Why are my boyfriend's friends so harsh on women needing to fit a certain prototype? I don't understand.
Q. I think I may have a problem with self-image. The thing is, of late, I've more been around more people who really take into account appearences before they get to know people. They are my boyfriend's friends and they are often discussing and deba...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi,
your boyfriends friends sound like a bunch of superficial jerks.
Guys are visual that is true, but these guys are a bunch of wankers if you ask me.
For a start, most guys prefer girls who have a figure, not a stick insect. There is no bigger... (read in full...)
I do love him and want to please him, but I find what I'm doing really uncomfortable. How can I make it easier?
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 9 months and we have been "official" for 4. (we're long distance, but I will be home this summer). This is both of our first relationships, so we've been taking things really slowly. I've given a few hand...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi,
learn some technique. Do you use lube? If not do it now.
Also concentrate on the head of the penis, massage it more as this is the sensitive part of the penis.
As you are both very inexperienced he is more likely to be reluctant to point out... (read in full...)
Should I let him meet this girl and just trust him, or tell him if he meets her it's over?
Q. hey, i need your help. I met a guy of facebook, he lives in my area and we met up and now going out. We've been together a month now, but last Friday he told me that this Friday he's meeting a random girl off the internet for the first time to go "s...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi there,
You cannot force him to not meet this girl. And he cannot force you to stay his girlfriend.
Seriously, how naive does he think you are/
Time to get yourself another boyfriend mate, you've got a lousy cheating rat on your hands.
Sho... (read in full...)
Why do guys dump a girl after a one night stand? Bad sex, lack of respect...?
Q. Come on guys. Why do guys really dump a girl after a one night stand? Was it because the sex was bad, average? Or because you didn't respect her? If it was amazing and mind blowing and made you cum would you come back for more? Now be ...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi,
I'm a little different. I never had a one night stand just for sex only. I never ever once turned down another offer (actually once I did but that WAS because the sex was so unbelievably bad) and more often than not would find that it was the ... (read in full...)
I really want to get pregnant, and my boyfriend and I are moving in together for college next year...What do you think?
Q. I just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. We don't use condoms, but we do use birth control pills...Well, I suppose that the correct wording would be that I use birth control pills for our pregnancy-free benefit. So, ...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi,
I doubt your boyfriend would be quite so excited about the prospect of missing out on his college education so he can support his young girlfriend and her baby. You are right in that , there will be "major trauma".
He would also assume that ... (read in full...)
How can I ask how he feels about me without putting him on the spot?
Q. I've been seeing my boyfriend for a little over a year now, but we just adopted the title of boyfriend and girlfriend 6 months ago. It's kind of a long distance thing because he's in NY and I'm in NJ, but I am so totally in love with this man. The...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi ,
this type of post really demonstrates how different men and women are to me.
I can only imagine what his response will be, but be prepared for him to start running for the hills. Guys just don't like being put on the spot like this, you ha... (read in full...)
This girl keeps contacting my husband! How can I get it to stop?
Q. Me and my husband have been married for 6 years and this year i found out that he had been talking to a girl for about 6 months. He says nothing hapened and so does she, but now she wont stop calling him and i am scared that as soon as i let my ...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi,
did you ask him why he is talking to this girl?
You really need to suss out why he is doing this. She is not the real problem here, she is just a girl looking for a bit of a thrill.
Your husband is the problem, he is a married man play... (read in full...)
I know it was wrong but I looked in my girlfriend's phone and I felt destroyed!!
Q. My girlfriend and I have have been having the time of our lives over the past 8 months. I'm 48 and she's 45. We're both very much in love, and then last week I saw a dramatic change in her. Even in the bedroom she was cold. Something she has alwa...
A. 29 April 2008: Hi,
oh my god, you have got yourself a real player there mate.
She is pissed off at you? O.K you shouldnt have spied on her, but damn it man, she virtually asked you to look in her phone when she said that comment about mobile phones. It's... (read in full...)
Spending money on a website just for sex with a stranger...wouldn't that make me no better than a person who hires prostitutes?
Q. Do I spend money on a website just for sex with a stranger? I found a site, which is set up for people to share exactly what they're looking for (sex wise) and they can browse members who they match with. A short time after joining, I got a...
A. 29 April 2008: If you were paying her money then I would agree. But you are paying the provider of the service, as she is.
So go for it. But it will just be sex don't hold out expectations for anything else.... (read in full...)
Am I a sex fling or the real thing?
Q. I am confused. I met this guy about two months ago online we exchanged pics and decided to meet up in a bar. After talking for about 7 hours about trying to find the right person suddenly it all happened we started snogging and then ended up back ...
A. 28 April 2008: Hi there,
boy you must have a really low opinion of us guys.
We men don't think about sex only ( o.k. maybe 80% of the time:) but if I saw a girl and we had a drunken sex session and then she told me to cool it off till we got to know each ot... (read in full...)
So many women would pay to see me naked, so how can I change her "errors" about premarital sex?
Q. I am hoping that some of the aunts on this site can help me with my problem. I am an extremely handsome, smart and funny 28 year old male. I have an excellent job and earn a very substantial sum of money indeed. I have two Ferraris and live in a ...
A. 28 April 2008: Oh good grief, this is a joke post.
Nobody is this self absorbed in the real world.
Nice try dude.... (read in full...)
Why, if a girl pursues a married man, does he fall into it? Why keep responding to her emails?
Q. I know guys have their particular way of doing things. Now see this case. A girl has started to email this guy, first as a friend, they met earlier in a business trip, they went diff ways. He replies right back at her , but it turns out the man is m...
A. 28 April 2008: Hi,
because he wants to have sex with her. It's as simple as that. You are under the mistaken impression that married men do not commit adultery. They do, and he looks like he is buttering up his next victim.
... (read in full...)
I am succesful and enjoy the company of men but can't find any that don't want to take advantage of me!
Q. i am a twenty seven year old female, i consider myself good looking and slim. i am college educated and i have my own business but....i never have had a boyfriend....EVER!! i enjoy the company of men dont get me wrong but i just can't find a guy ...
A. 28 April 2008: Hi ,
maybe it is your list that needs revising. What are you looking for in a man? If you want a man who is financially succesful with great career prospects thats fine, but you can easily end up with a self absorbed arsehole who has gotten ahea... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my virginity yet-His persistance scared me so much I thought he was going to rape me!
Q. I had been dating my boyfriend for 7 months im a virgin and he is not. I have done stuff with him eg oral and jerked him off but not sex. He is getting bored. He says he wants to be inside me and cum inside me and stuff but i dont really want to. ...
A. 28 April 2008: Hi,
The key here is to stay away from him, chances are next time he will simply rape you.
Try and save yourself from years of shame and guilt and stay the heck away from him. Tell a close friend or a family member that you are worried he might tr... (read in full...)
Am I a sex fling or the real thing?
Q. I am confused. I met this guy about two months ago online we exchanged pics and decided to meet up in a bar. After talking for about 7 hours about trying to find the right person suddenly it all happened we started snogging and then ended up back ...
A. 28 April 2008: Hi,
sorry to say but he is definitely only into the sex from the way I see it.
That is all he is talking about and with the unfinished business it has become an obsession with him. It can be like this for guys, but he is showing classic signs of... (read in full...)
I've just found out that my girlfriend was an adult movie star, and it makes me feel sick!
Q. I've just found out that my girlfriend was an adult movie star, and it makes me feel sick that other people have watched her having sex. She is a great girl who all my family love, and my mom has made it clear that she would be happy for her to join ...
A. 28 April 2008: Hi,
If she has been through a lot then she obviously has bags of strength. Now she cannot change her past, so I guess it is up to you, how much do you love her. If you truly love her then you should only have eyes for the future. If you are unce... (read in full...)
Where do I stand with this married man? I need to know!
Q. I just need advice. I am so confused. I have fallen DEEPLY for a man. We are friends, but we are both married. YES I know it's wrong to get involved with a married man and I would NEVER cheat on my husband. I have been thinking of leaving my ...
A. 28 April 2008: Hi,
you really are in a jam here arent you?
You should be commended for not having sex with each other, but by the same token you are engaging in an emotional relationship . Which is making the possibility of finding something to save your ow... (read in full...)
How can I keep money from breaking us up again? We are supposed to pool our resources, right?
Q. Hi guys, so i'm redating my ex. i'm 30 he is 36. It's all going really well, and i'm happy with how things are. There is just one problem- money- again. We were in low pay jobs before and didnt have enough cash to live from. we borrowed from fa...
A. 28 April 2008: Hi there,
wow, money really is at the root of all your problems.
But communication is the key. You guys simply do not read from the same page, it's almost as though there is competition between you and that is not healthy
I agree with you, if you ... (read in full...)
I am getting back into the dating scene after a divorce. How can I ever trust men again?
Q. I am a 34 year old nurse who divorced her husband just last year. Over the past couple of months, I have been trying to re-enter the dating scene. I joined a dating site and went on a couple of dull dates. Then, almost three weeks ago, I finally ...
A. 28 April 2008: Hi there,
well all I can say is sorry for picking such a bum.
But do not be deterred, it is true that a lot of men on these sites are either married ( apparently almost half ) or have alterior motives. But on the flip side there are also a lot o... (read in full...)
Is it ok to put a golf ball in your girlfriend's vagina? Just throwing that out there....
Q. is it ok to put a golf ball in you girlfriends vagina and the have sex with it still in there and when your done swollow it?...
A. 28 April 2008: Hi,
I suggest its a great idea to swallow it. Have a curry afterwards and then write back and tell us all about the fun times you experienced trying to pass the ball :)... (read in full...)
We are FWB, then I see her facebook, she has a boyfriend! Should I ignore her?
Q. Alright, so I'm wondering what I should do here... I've been friends with benifits with this girl for a while now, we were starting to get pretty close, and I figured we'd be going out soon, but she started doing stuff with other guys (a few of '...
A. 28 April 2008: Dude, that's what FWB's means. Friends with benefits, no strings, no commitments.
If you are looking for a girlfriend find someone who is not looking for a f*$k buddy.... (read in full...)
Four women are pregnant because wearing a condom is against my religion. What should I do?
Q. Let me explain. My girlfriend and I enjoy an open relationship where we each sleep with different partners from time to time. She's pregnant at the moment. It was unplanned. That would not be a problem only for the fact that there are four other ...
A. 28 April 2008: "Ye reap what ye sow". That's in the bible.
sorry dude, but if you were so commited to your faith I don't think you would be out there spreading your seed.
I can't believe 4 seperate girls would allow themselves to have sex without a condo... (read in full...)
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