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Im 20yrs old, and im currently attending UC Davis. Im very serious about my career and I really want to be a dentist.
CURRENT STATUS
Im taken and have been for 4yrs. He's currently serving the military, Marines to be precise.
I really have faith in this relationship because we both want to be great achievers, and want the same things in life. We respect each other, and this relationship will soon be at its best.
HOBBIES/FUN
I am into to volleyball, track & field, and basketball. I go for the LAKERS! I love to run, its my fave sport of all time.
Im a straight up CALI GIRL. I love the beach, clubs, parks, library, unique fashion, boyfriend, friends, anything to distract my mind off of stress. I like to keep myslef busy. I spend most of my time at animal shelters, I am a volunteer. I love animals. I have rescued 9 dogs and 3 cats. I currently am responsible for 4 dogs. They're my babies. These pups need a home and love.
DISLIKES/DONTS
I don't drink or smoke, and don't think its needed to have fun.
I have drank before, but its not a fave on my list. Maybe a margarita at times, but not to often. I am not the type to judge, but im very honest. I have a big heart so I don't hate people. And I've never came across anybody hating me. try to stay away from drama but it comes naturally. I guess its a part of life.
FAVES
Sushi and green tea are my absloute fave.
My car!
My new place!
School
Music
Giving advice, even if its not the greatest advice, I guess I like to express my opinion.
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My BF would like me to use a strap on dildo on him. Any suggestions?
Q. My boyfriend and I have quite an adverterous sex life where we like to try lots of new things . Lately we've been doing a lot of anal play and my boyfriend feels he would really get turned having me f___ him with a strap on dildo. I have no problem ...
A. 24 August 2008: Hi, well to start, ignore doe44, no one is here to judge. Well a
strap-on-dildo will do the job, since you've gotten enough practice already, but start off with a small dildo, u don't want to go all huge, then maybe u can work ur way up I supp... (read in full...)
I am jealous of my long-distance BF and fight with him over the phone, how can I change?
Q. Hey people i need your help.am jealous of my boyfriend.we are in a long distance relationship.every weekend he goes out clubbin and i dont like the idea.i just feel jealous since myself i dont go out.so on sundays i just feel i despise him and when ...
A. 18 August 2008: Why torture urself. Start going out. Believe me, I was in the same situation u were in. I was the one who moved away and became the jealouse type. I would call him day and night till I realized I was becoming annoying. I would only get to see him on ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex even though I'm just 13?
Q. ok im 13 and i want to have sex. i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for about 4 months and i think i am ready he is 14 and is a freshman in high school i am still in middle school (8th grade). but my main question is, should i even though i...
A. 14 August 2008: HONESTLY I THINK NOT! ACTUALLY I KNOW NOT!
Ur so young, this shouldn't be on ur mind at all! Rather worrying about sex, u should worry about finishing school. I know hormones must be jumping out the roof but Sex comes with a package! A BIG pack... (read in full...)
What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin?
Q. What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin. thats my situation. im not ugly or fat....
A. 14 August 2008: we think the best of them! So many young boys are worried about losing it before they get out of high school rather than being worried about graduating high school. =/
Any women would appreciate and feel turned on to the fact ur a virgen! if ur th... (read in full...)
Does my vagina smell fishy because I eat lots of fish?
Q. Dear ? I am wondering why my vagina smells? My boyfriend says it is because i eat lots of fish and I would like to know if this is true?? In anticiapaitonm, T...
A. 14 August 2008: It has nothing to do with eating fish! U can be the type that just has a very strong odor and there's remedies that help fight the oder, but have u always smelled fishy down there?
Or it can be an infection, std, etc. So go get checked by all mean... (read in full...)
Acne- Anyone know any products that REALLY DO WORK?
Q. hi :) so i've always had problems with acne. i have it on my face and shoulders/back. and my doctors have perscribed me lots of medicines for it. lotion and pills. and it seems as none of them really work. so does anyone know any product...
A. 14 August 2008: Im sure u can find where ever u buy ur essentials (shampoo, bodywash, etc.) Im sure u won't have a hard time. Good luck and let me know if it works out =)
... (read in full...)
I keep dreaming about I girl I used to love
Q. Hi there. This is not exactly a problem but just something that I am interested in. Lately I have been having dreams about a girl that I was really in love with a long time ago. We never got together but are still friends now. We don't talk or see ...
A. 13 August 2008: The more of a deal u make of it, the more of a big deal it becomes.
Leave it behind, and don't wonder about it. Just cherish ur girl, and love her as well.... (read in full...)
How do you know how long you'll last in bed?
Q. well im 14 and i still havent went through full puberty. ( i got pubes and the parts are beggining to grow) so how can i know i can last in sexual intercourse? i mean i want to know because i dont want to last 5 minutes with my 1st time. sincerly ...
A. 13 August 2008: I lost my virginity at age 14 and honestly I don't even know how long my first time lasted, because it felt like an eternity. We were eachothers firsts, so we were both kinda lost. But we managed to get through. I can assure u that during ur first ... (read in full...)
Should I take a chance and move with him, or stay and finish college?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is on a visa and in 11 months he must find a waiver job somewhere in the U.S. or he must go back to his home country. He has asked if I would move with him, but his options are limited.It is ...
A. 13 August 2008: I personally think that u should finish school. And once ur done, then u can go after him wherever he's at. He can't be selfish and put u in a situation to choose between ur dreams or him.
u have made ur life there, and to just leave it would be... (read in full...)
Where can I buy a vibrator?
Q. I'm 16 and I live in the UK. I want to buy a dildo/vibrator but how can I get one and how do I keep it a secret from my parents?...
A. 12 August 2008: There's plenty of websites u can get one from, but if ur concern about them finding out when it get there, then maybe u can try shipping it somewhere else that u trust. But u do need a debit card, unless they accept money orders then ur in luck. =)... (read in full...)
The first time he penetrated me I never bled, so now I'm scared he's going to think I was faking my virginity.
Q. Hi there! I've been with this guy for about a year and everything seems right. I was with him a couple of weeks back and we were discovering each other. He didnt go inside me, but by the time we finished, i was on my way home i was bleeding...
A. 12 August 2008: Yup, its totally normal, nothing to be worried about. The hymen can be broken easily and not just by penetration, but by riding a bike, excercising etc.
It migh have happend while fooling around, and getting to know each other. Its very common. ... (read in full...)
I still have trust issues, and there are times I just want to lash out!
Q. My ex cheated but I have forgiven him, and he has grown up since then. We both love each other and he is convinced we are meant to be together. I still have trust issues though. How do I resolve them? I feel especially insecure when his best girl...
A. 12 August 2008: Okay so there may be times where u want to take the best friend and just rip her apart I bet. I would be feeling the same way if he cheated on me. Its not like u trust him 100% again right? Well he should know that. When my bf did his childish ... (read in full...)
LOL!!... Sorry, I sound really pathetic, but seriously, I have no idea how you do it?
Q. Hi, I've been with this lad quite a while now and were really comfortable with each other. Recently we've been doing alot more things, like hand jobs and stuff. He asked me if i'd want to suck him off and i said yeah, but not today. I know wh...
A. 12 August 2008: Its okay to ask, everybody has a first time for everything. =) To start of u don't want to put the whole thing in ur mouth at first. Start off my just licking the tip and getting it wet. When u start going lower tuck ur teeth inside ur lips to ... (read in full...)
Will I not enjoy it because they're big?!
Q. Hiya everyone I know this is a really random question but i would like some advice please. I have pretty big breast (34ff), and i have heard someone that the bigger they are the less feeling you will have due to nerves or something. I wa...
A. 12 August 2008: Its not true, when getting implants its the only time u risk losing nipple sensation.
Im a 36dd not big as u but I happen to enjoy the feeling everytime.
No doubt u will too. ... (read in full...)
An already hot & heavy relationship, yet still a kinky twist!?
Q. Alright, this is mainly a question for the ladies but the men are more than welcome to answer as well. My girlfriend and I have pretty good little thing going, ...especially when it comes to the sex. I'll just put it this way, ITS HOT!!! We're ...
A. 12 August 2008: Wow uncle phil, I loved ur double story. I need to stop laughing now or im gunna wake up my sister.
Uncle phil u made my day, thank u for that. Had a great laugh.
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Acne- Anyone know any products that REALLY DO WORK?
Q. hi :) so i've always had problems with acne. i have it on my face and shoulders/back. and my doctors have perscribed me lots of medicines for it. lotion and pills. and it seems as none of them really work. so does anyone know any product...
A. 12 August 2008: My boyfriend suffered the same problem till I came around =). I told him to wash his face with the bar soap Zest. He's had acne problems for years, and bad. I wish I could show u his before and after pics. They are unbelievable. His back was the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has serious depression problems, he is moody, angry, and I am having a hard time dealing with it, he wants to marry me, but I don't know, any suggestions that could help him?
Q. I have been with my boyfreind for a few years, not that age matters but I'm 41 and he's 52. He has been diagnosed with depresson a couple of years ago, anyway, I'm having a REAL HARD time dealing with it! I love him very much and he wants to marry ...
A. 12 August 2008: Ok so im just a young girl trying to help. But I've been through a somewhat similar sistuation. My dad was diagnossed with depression at age 42. they prescribed so many depresent pills. He quit his job, and became very isolated, always in his room. ... (read in full...)
We need help, our relationship is getting damaged.
Q. i need help, my relashionship is getting damage ,it has been 2years of engagement, and from 1st i told my fiance not to have sex till marriage, and he apreciate my idea. but now he reached his limits. And now his health geting damaged and he is ...
A. 12 August 2008: I don't understand what seems to be the problem here. Is it the sex, marriage, or religion?
If u have sex with him will it cure his health condition? Doubt it.
If he changes his religion to marry u will this prove his love to u?
U both a... (read in full...)
I have a huge crush on a girl at my school. How can I get her to like me?
Q. I have a huge crush on a girl that goes to my school. I want to ask her out so bad but I don't want to make myself look like a jackass in front of her (which I have done in front of other girls I liked). What do I do?...
A. 12 August 2008: what to do? You're so young and crushing.
Well u just can't straight out ask her out, but become close to her, ask her if she wants to hang out, get to know each other, spend more time together, like during lunch, conversate about likes and disl... (read in full...)
I've met this amazing guy but he is not a great looker-what do I do?
Q. Okay so my question is this... I am 19, and two weeks ago I have met this guy... He is so amazing. In his personality... I cannot even describe all of his wonderful characteristics...He truly is amazing. Truly. He is talented in music, has nice ...
A. 12 August 2008: Can I say "shallow?" ok so ur a 9 from 1-10 scale. So what, it doesn't matter. Ur saying how wonderful this guy is why should looks even bother u. He sounds like a truely amazing guy, he has everything going for himself, how bad can it be? Are u ... (read in full...)
I once suggested a threesome which we did,but how do I tell my bf it's now a turn off for me?
Q. My fantasy has always been to have a threesome with two guys. The thought of pleasuring 2 penises always turned me on. Well, my bf and I finally followed through with it with mutual friend. Unfortunately, I didn't enjoy it like I thought I would. ...
A. 12 August 2008: It was all just couriosity to begin with right? So u tried it and didn't like it. The way ur boyfriend told u he loved it is the same way u can tell him u didn't. Simple as that.
Tell him ur fantasy wasn't what u thought it was. Instead of fullf... (read in full...)
All the ups and downs of a good relationship, but no marriage proposal yet -I'm depressed!
Q. so i feel like a little lost puppy. i have been with my man for a little over a year now and i travelled to another country to be with him. the relationship is good. we have our ups and downs. our arguments here and there but for the most part we ...
A. 12 August 2008: Okay so the problem I see is that in your first marriage there really wasn't any romance, u departed and moved on, that's good.
Now in the begining of ur second relationship it sounds as if u are so happy and excited, there's romance and talk... (read in full...)
I have extremely bad lower back pain and stomach aches which I've had for about a week, why?
Q. I'm quite confused. I'm supposed to be on my period, but the blood is like really light brown and not even blood really and there is hardly any. Should I just count this as my period? I have extremely bad lower back pain and stomach aches whic...
A. 12 August 2008: Make an appointment immediatly. A regular flow weather heavy or not is always suppose to be red. Once its a different color its a sign of an infection, or something is up. U can't let time pass, don't harm urself, and u can not count that as ur ... (read in full...)
Why do I hurt during sex?
Q. I'm 16 and I lost my virginity about a month ago. ( didnt bleed but it was the 1st time ive ever had sex) Every time Ive had sex since then I hurt really bad when my bf goes deep and I cant figure out why. I'm worried I could have some kind of ...
A. 12 August 2008: Ur health concerns me because ur parents are not aware of ur situation, and ur scared of them finding out. Im afraid u won't do anything about it because of ur parents. I would consider u call planned parent hood, or just go to there website ... (read in full...)
I am very curious, not my problem, but, does the size of ones' penis matter?
Q. this aint something from me personally but its something im curious about because all men worry about it and its something everyones spoken about but i want your opinion so can you please let me know does penis size matter? ...
A. 12 August 2008: We'll size doesn't really matter, because a girls clit can be long also. Not many girls know this but the clit has two legs that travel inside the vagina, and it can be rather long, if it is long then the girl will usually last longer than the guy ... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to do anal again?
Q. My husband used to do anal, and I loved it! Now he thinks too hard about it and it grosses him out. I am bummed because it feels SOOOOO good. And I thought it feels good to men too. That's been my experience anyways. I've always known it to be very ...
A. 12 August 2008: I have read a lot about anal sex, and some people share their techniques. I've read that before u encounter anal sex, to take a laxative to clean out, and then take a shower and maybe it will be a cleaner process. Since ur not back there u don't ... (read in full...)
I don't trust my boyfriend - what should I think about this...
Q. so, i met a great guy, or so I think, he tells me he loves me althought hasn't been that long, calls me constantly, emails, texts, talks about a future, the whole 9 yards. The problem is, last week I was with him and he got 2 messages from 2 other ...
A. 11 August 2008: Well since ur not sure if he's being honest or what not, u need to confront him. Maybe he is keeping his options open, but doesn't want to risk losing u. He was honest to say who it was and how he met her.
The only way of really knowing is by co... (read in full...)
How do I use my hands during foreplay?
Q. When fingering a girl how many fingers do i put up her? And i heard you also use a thumb? Oh and what is fisting? It sounds painful.....
A. 11 August 2008: Well to start off u have try only one finger but not just puting it into her vagina but rubbing everything that surrounds it, also caressing her might help, then if u see her enjoying it ull know what to do next if to add more fingers or just stop ... (read in full...)
Is it legal for us to marry...?
Q. My fiance and I want to marry, but I'm 17 and he's 25. Can we legally marry in the state of North Dakota? My parents have already given us permission so it's okay by them....
A. 11 August 2008: It seems there isn't any problems, u have ur parents on ur side and that's all that is needed.
I know ur question was if its legal, but my question is, are u sure u want to take that step?
I only ask because my sister who is now 23 with 3 ki... (read in full...)
How do you deep throat without wanting to gag?
Q. My guy wants to try doing things that are more sexual. I have given him oral before but he wants me to start deep throating it. I tried it and its really hard because I feel like I am going to gag. Does any one have any tips on how to please him ...
A. 11 August 2008: Well to start off, if u don't want to learn then u don't have to and don't feel pressured.
In the other hand, there are products for this type of situation. I recently went to a passion party and learned so much about products that help u with a... (read in full...)
Should I stay in this realtionship?
Q. ok well im confused, ive got a girlfriend who i have been with 8 months and i really do love her, but me and her constantly argue and even tho i do love her things between us never seem to be going well. but on the other hand ive met a girl about...
A. 11 August 2008: I agree with Hope. U are young but love doesn't have an age.
And ur gunna come across a lot of confusion since you're going to meet a lot of new girls through out ur life since ur still in school.
But communication is the key. Tell her how u f... (read in full...)
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