He called me a selfish bitch because I don't want to have sex
Q. So I told my boyfriend that I don't want to do anything sexual with him mainly because it makes me feel uncomfortable. Well he gets mad at me cause I told him earlier I was going to gave him my virginity but I realize I wasn't ready. He called me a ...
A. 3 June 2009: No way
well done for the slap
dont let anyone make you feel bad for not sleeping with them
its your body
its youre decison!!
x... (read in full...)
How do I stop his horrible habits?
Q. I've been going out with this guy for nearly 9 months and love him to bits, but over the last month realised he has a lot of horrible habits. They've gotten to the point where I just get really frustrated and p'd off. He gets too comfortable, ...
A. 2 June 2009: Just say to him!
Just say "ohh you gotta take off yer shoes, Im getting totally moaned at for the mess of it" ...
Dont worry, My b/f has some pretty annoying habbits too - he is one of those people who eats loud!
oh drives me mental!
I t... (read in full...)
This other woman seems to be getting too close to my boyfriend for comfort!
Q. Ok, first off... I do realise how silly this is going to sound, I just wanted other peoples opinions on it to help get a better perspective. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship while he's at Uni. We both have myspace accounts...
A. 2 June 2009: Hey!
good to know there is other people out there that also look too much into "top friends" lol
I done the exact same thing like 2 weeks ago - I noticed on my b/fs profile this new girl who has jst shot to like No.6 on his top friends ... so i wen... (read in full...)
Is it ok to start dating before a divorce has been finalized?
Q. If one spouse is unfaithful to the other in marriage, when is it right for the honest one to date? Is okay when they have decided in thier heart they do not want to continue with the marriage, but are still married or when they finalize the divorce?...
A. 2 June 2009: Yes!
My dad is doing that since my mum left him - why not!
what have you done wrong? Nothing.
Why should you wait around for something just to be "finalised" what will It change to be honest??
Get out there!
xx... (read in full...)
Trust issues/Long distance relationships/How to ask her to stop getting drunk so often
Q. Ok, basically im in a long distance relationship, we have been together 5 months now, and i feel she is the one and know that she feels the same Basically recently she has changed which group of people she hangs out with and this new group goes o...
A. 2 June 2009: In all honesty - I become alot more friendly/flirty when I am drunk. It's all about being more confident when you're drunk I think - probably nothing in this! My boyfriend is exactly the same, He trusts me .. but doesnt trust the people in the ... (read in full...)
How to get over a teacher crush?
Q. This is a commonly asked question, I know. I'm pretty much in love with a teacher. He's amazing, but I won't go into details. The only thing I want to know is how do I stop loving him? I know it's a stupid, pointless crush, but I can't sto...
A. 2 June 2009: hey!
Awk, I was in the same suitaution last year. I dont know what to tell you as everyday I would say to myself "Okay, going to stay away from him and forget about him" .. being in his class basically everyday didnt help nor did the face that I th... (read in full...)
I regret sleeping with him now and feel so stupid for doing so!
Q. Hello. I am extremly worried. I done something that I feel completely silly about. I feel like such a silly little girl. Any feedback and comments would be very much appreicated. I have known this guy for a while and deicded to meet up with him...
A. 28 May 2009: Thanks for everyones feedback. I agree with you Fiona completely never thought of it like that - Why didnt he mention he didnt put a condom on first? ... that has angered me, how dare he do that. But, who Am I to talk - I allowed it to go further. ... (read in full...)
Why does my teacher never send me anything? His silence is killing me...
Q. Hi everyone, I began to fall in love with my teacher when i was in 12 th grade.( now I’m in college). He's not handsome but really nice. I’m attracted by his personality. He's a caring person. I remember one time he cried because one stud...
A. 3 October 2008: well, sorry but i dont think he feels anything towards you at all. You asked him to accept you as a sister, but with what you have told us, it didnt seem as if you two were close in anway, so i cant see any reason why he would accept you in the ... (read in full...)
Does My Teacher Like Me Back?
Q. I'm not his student anymore but he comes and helps out at my high school in the summer sometimes and I see him there. Anyways I've liked him since I met him which was 6 years ago. I found myself staring at him when he was around and a lot of the t...
A. 23 September 2008: well. I must admitt. i was like you aswell, i was always think omg does he like me? doe she know i like him? but at the end of the day, is it really worth it?
So wht if he did like you? he is your teacher and the end of the day it is illegal, sure... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if my teacher is seriously interested in me or just being very nice.
Q. Really..to get up to speed..I graduated this past May..but At the beginning of the year, everything was normal between me and one of my teachers, but as the year went on, I realized that he started doing strange things, like telling other kids(as a ...
A. 23 September 2008: my tweacher said that too but as a joke, i persume :(
i said to him infront of my mate, ahh i love him!
and he said aww i love you too!
was it that way?
xxxxx... (read in full...)
I think my teacher quit because of me!
Q. my tecaher quit and i feel like it's my fault becuase i talked back to her and never did my work but everyone says she wanted a full time job, i feel so guilty it's already almost my third week of school! My whole class was so upset when they found ...
A. 23 September 2008: it wasnt anythin to do with you!
you really thinka teacher is gonna move schools all beacuse of a cheeky kid who wont do their work?
listen, she gets them probs everrrrry day
and maybe she was lookin for another job as she wants to be full time an... (read in full...)
Very, very awkward situation with my teacher! Any advice?
Q. hi! I'm a 13 year old girl in desperate help!! It all started in 7th grade I had 3 teachers, as my home room teaches.. Anyways one of them is like a realy nice lady she helps me get throw anything beacause I tell her everything! And one of the other ...
A. 23 September 2008: you have your teacher on facebook?
well thats inappropraite, who added who?
and what exactly did you message him saying?
we need to know to actaulyl understand ourselves.
xxxxx... (read in full...)
Why do I still have feelings for an old teacher, even though I know I have no chance?
Q. I just transfered to a new school. I kind of like it, but it's more strict there. I'll admit, I do miss my old school at times. Mostly because I left someone who I loved there. That person was my teacher. He was 45, married, with a son who is now ...
A. 23 September 2008: Your doing exactly what i am doing.
I just finished my 6th year in school, now i am at college, and i am not over my teacher at all :(
I am slightly but i think about him everyday, when im goin to college, when im sittin in college, when im in my... (read in full...)
How can I get my teacher fired as she is real nasty to the students?
Q. Sorry this isnt a relationship question but i really need advice. This is a long story that goes over two years so ill cut it short. Well i am at a course for literacy numeracy and helping to get into work. It was going great and i got heaps of ...
A. 23 September 2008: Before i comment, can i hear more?
xx... (read in full...)
There are three very different people clouding up my love life. I would appreciate some advice.
Q. Hey, this is a long story so I'll try to keep it short. I just graduated high school at the end of May 08. -I was friends with my boyfriend for a year before we started dating. We have been dating for 2 and a half years now. -my high school...
A. 28 July 2008: I'll help you out with the whole bf and teacher suituation it sounds like mine all over! Just mail me here. You can find a link by clicking on my picture. x... (read in full...)
How do I get passed this without forgetting him altogether?
Q. I have found myself in an odd situation and I don't know how it happened. So, to begin, I just graduated high school about 2 weeks ago. At the beginning of my senior year I met a male teacher who was very kind and helpful to me. Now, I know at t...
A. 19 June 2008: u left skl a couple of weeks ago didnt you?
if so mail me and we can chat! i also left skl not long ago and ive found it a somewhat struggle tryin to forget my teacher :/ but in the end you cant
xox... (read in full...)
I think my teacher is flirting with me.
Q. I KNOW THERE'S LOADS TO READ HERE - I DIDN'T PLAN ON THIS BEING SO LONG BUT I REALLY NEED ADVICE HERE AND I'D APPRECIATE IT SO MUCH IF SOME OF YOU WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO READ IT AND OFFER YOUR VIEWS. THANK YOU! This is going to sound like the ...
A. 8 June 2008: were in the exact suituation btw :)
my teacher (well ex teacher!... i also left a couple of weeks ago) used to bully me playfully like everyday and whnever id ask him why he would say its job satisfaction or that i bully him first? lol the enxt i wi... (read in full...)
How can I stop flirting with my teacher?!? I don't mean to!
Q. Hey everyone!! Ok i LOVE my teacher and it's NOT a crush but thats got nothing to do with my problem. I talk to him sometimes and i make him laugh by just saying one thing but apparently when i talk to him i flirt with him and i don't mean to....
A. 2 June 2008: heehee
sorry i had to laugh a bit at this question
ur 12 right? or younger :O
u should be playing tig and hide n seek! you shoudlnt be worryin about an older man, never mind flirtin :o
shockin.
i still dont know how to fully flirt with someone... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher that I love him?
Q. i dont know if i love my teacher, its probably just a crush but i cant stop thinking about him. i think he knows by now i like him, because i sent him an email and said i think you're amazing and the best teacher i've ever had, and then yesterday he ...
A. 11 April 2008: No dont, It can only end in misery...
I knwo wht ur going thro i was in a very similar position i used to email my teacher and stuff
mail me if u wanna chat
x... (read in full...)
Please give me advice on what I should do..like should I tell him I'm in love with him? Oh...and he's my teacher!
Q. Tommorow me and my friend might tell my teacher we love him, but i'm not sure what to do. It's been on our minds so much and we dont have anyone to talk to. after we tell him, we're never gonna bring it up again, obviously. I just cry and cry and ...
A. 11 April 2008: I used to email my teacher with jokey things, like tellin him not to call me stupid and dumb etc then i usd to tease him in them ahh! i miss those days lol Well i thot i was in love with my teacher (iom stilla t skl) bt durin the spring holidays... (read in full...)
What signs show love?
Q. ive being going out with my gf for about 14 months but on monday the 3rd of march we had a big argument the argument lead me to belive that she doesnt love me any more but how can i tell what signs should i be looking for?????...
A. 5 March 2008: yeah i totally agree, women dont like being told that we are in the wrong, its horrible we hate it! lol and i hate being made to say sorry its makes me even more angrier so basically what im sayin is that say sorry to her and buy her somethin nice, ... (read in full...)
Is it better to get experienced and then settle down? Do I sacrifice my relationship in order to acquire that "experience"?
Q. Is it possible to have been in one relationship with one person and just stay with that person? Or is it better to get'experienced' and then settle down? I am a lil confused, I have been with my gf for 1year and 2months, shes my first gf an...
A. 19 February 2008: im in the exact same position, i feel like i shoudl go out there and try the single life for a while and see how it is like as i have been with my bf for 2 and a half years, and im 17 cmon? but then i thin khow much i love my bf and how much i want ... (read in full...)
Should I give my teacher a valentines day card?
Q. Hi i fancy my teacher, should i give him a valentines day card or would that just weird him out? help.......
A. 18 February 2008: =O did u give him the card??
mail me
x... (read in full...)
I am in a lesbian love affair with my teacher, with complications. What can I do?
Q. I'm currently in a lesbian relationship with my teacher for 8 months (she's 29 and i'm 18) and im madly in love with her..... I know she's serious about me because she broke up with her bf of 2 years just to be with me. I love her deeply cos she's...
A. 14 February 2008: Put your realtionship on holds for the now, if you both love each other then surely you can wait for each other?
She wont get fired
It wont be seen as unacceptable
Rumours about you cannot be spread about the school whilst your still in it
And o... (read in full...)
Should I give my teacher a valentines day card?
Q. Hi i fancy my teacher, should i give him a valentines day card or would that just weird him out? help.......
A. 14 February 2008: I was gonna do the same thing! lol I didnt have the guts however, but... inside i was a bit unsure of it anyways as i didnt want him to go all awkward with me or to report me! so i never gave him one... I regret it however but in the longrun it was ... (read in full...)
I'm a geek and I like him! Do I have a chance?
Q. hi i like this boy but im a total geek and im ugly and that i feel like theres not a chance with this boy because he barely notices me and he always hangs out with the popular girls and they are much prettier than me.he has spoken to me but i feel ...
A. 9 February 2008: If people dont like you for the way you are then screw them , you are what you are, dont go changing for anyone, coz then theyll never see the real you and fel a bit of a fake, I dumbed myself down to like this guy, and he always calls me a dumb ... (read in full...)
What is the best 'budget' valentines gift?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know what should i get a girl for valentines day...not sure if she will be my valentines yet, but just incase what should i get her? bdw at the moment my money is low because i spent all of it on buying a console and ga...
A. 8 February 2008: Well flowers- every girl likes flowers, especially roses and heart shape chocolates, she might like that Amy x... (read in full...)
Why is he sending me all these mixed signals???
Q. I’m leaving in a month to go to South America for a year... but can’t stop thinking about this guy. As I was only just a few months out of a long relationship that ended quite badly when we met I wasn’t interested in anything serious, so i suggeste...
A. 8 February 2008: Well you can't really blame him from dismissing you as a friend, He is mad about you! and he is probs suffering seeing you and knowing that he cant have you, it can be qjuite painful, i mean... maybe he take it any longer, you say that you visit, is ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance my teacher might like me as well?...
Q. Hey my name's Lana and I am in love with my highschool teacher. Now please don't say it's infatuation, a stage, a crush or any of that. You can't really tell me what I feel i'm sorry but I've heard that to many times before and I just don't like it ...
A. 8 February 2008: Mail me, we are in the exact same position, mail me and we can exchange stories or whatever, and I can give you my msn if you want? Mail Back x... (read in full...)
What am I thinkin by liking my teacher's accidentally touching me?
Q. My teacher act really weird around me. We have had bad times in the past where we were once really close and then after been told we were too close she got told to back away from me. So we never talked after that as i was accused of stalkin :S when ...
A. 6 February 2008: It does sound as if she is trying her hardest for you to notice her, and its as if she is enjoying the attention she is recieving from you, however, I do not know the full story so mail me and we can chat more about this as i like my teacher also
A... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my teacher about what happened?
Q. Hi. I reported my ex-teacher, who I had/have a crush on, for misconduct about a month ago, and now I want to talk to him, but I don't know if he will talk to me. We were really good friends up until that point, and we'd talk every three or four ...
A. 3 February 2008: Why would you want to talk to him? He felt ur leg an everthing, if u want to talk to him like normal then y did you complain?
Although, i did however complain on my teacher as me and another group of people didnt think that he was teaching us, bein... (read in full...)
Is talking dirty to my college teacher wrong?, I'm 18 he's 31
Q. I am talking dirty with a teacher and i dont know what i should do? It started last week when i seen him out in a club. We got chatting and then i emailed him via the college and said i was sorry if i said anything i shouldnt because i was so drunk ...
A. 31 January 2008: do some research find it out if its wrong, like if its illegal coz i dno if it applies to colleges or whatever, if nothing bad will happen like him gettin fired or you gettin kicked outta college then talk dirty bk to him , only if you wanna tho! ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher have feelings for me?
Q. I've fancied this teacher at my school for 3 years, i've recently realised that I think i'm in love with him. Lately he's been making innuendo's that he may have feelings for me too. When i'm around him he constantly stares at me, and when I look a...
A. 30 January 2008: Hey this is like my teacher :/ whom i am very confused about right now :/ I dno if he likes you, have you got anything e;se you could possibly tell us?
Email me if u want and we can chat!
xx... (read in full...)
My teacher said he wouldn't say no?
Q. Well there are loads of questions about teachers n students but hey here goes! Well on friday nyt just gone i was out with my best friend and we was in this pub and all the teachers were out drunk! There was this one that i really liked and he wa...
A. 28 January 2008: im not entirely sure if it would be ok, it might but then again you wouldnt want to risk it! lol so check it out i dno google it or sumthin lol :P
and btw they say tht drink makes the truth come out so... yeah he likes you ;) ... (read in full...)
Why should I be any different??
Q. Hi, guys. Yet again, another student-teacher situation. So, I'm a sophomore in high school, and I've had this massive crush on my chemistry teacher for a while. It freaked me out a great deal at first because I've never noticed any of my teachers...
A. 21 January 2008: Hey, i know exactly how you feel, we are both in the exact position. there was also a rumour about my teacher going out with a student as he was really over too friendly, but he says he didnt but i dno if i believe that. He too also also acts very ... (read in full...)
Is dumping my boyfriend the solution?
Q. Alright, Well im 16 and I know for a fact that im attracted to older men, but theres nothing I can really do about it at this time in my life. I am still attracted to guys my own age, in fact, I have a boyfriend that I have been seeing since ...
A. 18 January 2008: Im in the exact suituation! honest, i also have a bf who is amazing but my teacher is incredible i think he is the bestest person i have met, he is so funny and get this yeah its the same thing again, my teacher is old! and basically is gettin gry ... (read in full...)
Is my teacher a pervert?
Q. Okay, so my former teacher and I are friends nowadays, but I had/have romantic feelings for him. I still attend the school he teaches at. I was in his class during parts of the 9th and 10th grades. I know, teacher-student relationships ar...
A. 7 January 2008: Yeah he does sound a il bit werid =/ im not stickin up for this dude, but did u do anythin to kindda lead him on, i mean why were u alone with him in a room at night? why was his wife and other ppl in another room? and why was it dark?? tht is wht ... (read in full...)
At what stage in our relationship should we be more comfortable around each other?
Q. hi! well my bf and i went our on 3rd date coupld of days ago and it was still kind of awkward. we didnt talk much and it was kind of embarasing. i dont know if it should still be like this. please help thanks ellie xxx...
A. 4 January 2008: Its okay honest, you guys are still gettin too know each other so it aint gonna be fine right now coz u basically still dont know alot bout each other, well with my bf (who ivebeen seein for two years now) i was really shy and i felt awkwrad infron ... (read in full...)
I'm so obsessed with this teacher at engineering school that it's scary! What should I do?
Q. Hello, Well… I don’t know how to begin. I’m French, so I hope my English is correct and that you will understand me. You’ll probably think my story is common… honestly, I don’t know. I am a nineteen years-old student. In September, I entered an ...
A. 3 January 2008: Hey! dnt worry i think i am slightly obessive over this teacher in my skl too. i mean i know where he gets the train i know wht time he gets the train at, i know where he lives, i know his two sons name, i know one of their birthdays (only beacuse ... (read in full...)
My brother has asked I not tell my parents that he is gay! What should I do?
Q. Basically I have suspected that my brother has been gay for years but he never answers questions on his personal life and showed many signs which suggested he was gay. I finally asked him yesterday and he confirmed this and said he had been in a ...
A. 1 January 2008: Okay, but you cannot tell your parents, if your brother hasnt told them yet and you has only told you recently then he cannot be comfortable with people knowing and it may take time for him to feel like he will be accepted and plus if you tell your ... (read in full...)
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