I fell for my doctor, then he went cold on me, I still obsessed with him, how can I figure out what was going on with him?
Q. It's been a couple of years since I saw him last but I still think about him from time to time and wonder why he treated me as so. I was pregnant with my 3rd child. ( We lost my 1st when I was 6m. pregnant due to a severe abnormality)He treated me ...
A. 17 January 2008: Hi there,
Your doctor would not be in practice for very long if he were to have a deep and meaningful relationship with every woman who has feelings for him. Like a teacher he is in a position of trust and authority , and this is a very attr... (read in full...)
Will girls be attracted to me only because they know I've got a large penis?
Q. Alright this problem arised about a year ago, i first noticed that i was quite large when i found an article on the internet about average sizes of an adult penis. Well i immediately measured myself out of curiosity because i didnt really care until ...
A. 17 January 2008: Hi, I do remember a very similar situation during my college days. The girls in one of my classes got hooked up on one guy who one of them had slept with. He had a massive one and they all took turns to sleep with him. Now he didnt have the slightes... (read in full...)
He wants anal sex, I don't as it sounds really bad, am I overreacting?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to try anal sex. I have never done it and for some reason can't bring myself to do it. anyone have any words of wisdom. am I overreacting or is is as bad as it sounds....
A. 17 January 2008: Hi,
In your other post you asked what you can do to spice up your sex life. I would suggest you can easily do this without anal sex.
Some girls love anal sex, some are o.k with it, and a lot dont like it at all. Personally I can take it or leave... (read in full...)
I'm having multiple orgasms, but not in the bedroom?? how can I control this its driving me crazy?
Q. i have quite an embarassing problem,recently, almost every day, i have been having uncontrollable orgasms and i can have upto 5 a day without even doing anything and they last what seems like forever, this might be all well and good if i was ...
A. 17 January 2008: Hi,
like O connor said I heard there is a syndrome as well. If you are comfortable with your GP it will be worth telling him/her.
But be prepared you are going to get a few Aunts here telling you they envy you!
I guess there are worse problems i... (read in full...)
He spent mone at a strip club, I dumped his butt, now he wont speak to me, what is going on with him?
Q. I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years after finding out he spent a large amount of money at a strip club without telling me. I told him not to call me until he wanted to be honest about how he spent the money. He didn't call me for five ...
A. 17 January 2008: Hi,
I hate to say it but he's no longer emotionally involved with you. Which begs the question as to how much he was in the first place? He has distanced himself from you rather quickly, and from his perspective ( and a lot of males for that matt... (read in full...)
Been single a while, advice on dating this guy please!
Q. I've been out of the dating scene a while, I work at a pub and have developed a friendship with one of the locals who is a regular (same age as me). We've been very chatty and friendly for about 5 months, we swapped numbers a while back and h...
A. 17 January 2008: Sounds like you are doing pretty well as it is. The fact that he didnt try and jump all over you when you went into his house demonstrates he has a lot of respect for you.
The only thing I would suggest is that you let him know you really like him ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is moving in with a guy (and 5 others) that she has kissed, in the past. I am concerned! Advice?
Q. hi, my girlfriend of a year has recently moved to uni after a few months she kissed a guy who lives next to her in her halls, i let this go and forgave her but it happened again however she said she pulled away that time but i broke of our rel...
A. 17 January 2008: Hi,
I understand your situation and it must be tearing you up inside. I think at the end of the day you are probably going to have to let her go.
I only say this because she is young and at University .
At college its the most fun and wild tim... (read in full...)
How do I cope with working beside the man my wife cheated on me with?
Q. How do I cope with working beside the man my wife cheated on me with? Just found out my co-worker is the person my wife cheated with the first time, she never coped with my finding out so how do I cope with this now?...
A. 17 January 2008: Hi,
your post is a little confusing: "she never coped" ?? what does that mean? Is there a history of infidelity? or she freaked out when she knew you knew.
In any event, it must be very awkward, he obviously knows who you are so I can't imagin... (read in full...)
I think I'm pregnant, but boyfriend wants nothing to do with baby, what can I do?
Q. I think i'm pregnant but my boyfriend wants nothing to do with the situation at all. He doesn't even want his mother to know and they're really close! I've tryed to talk to him about it and he just doesn't say anything. He just knows that he doesn't ...
A. 17 January 2008: Hi Alie,
No condom no sex. Just say it over and over again to him. But what you are doing with this idiot in the first place I dont know. ... (read in full...)
I'm a Mum of 2 and finding it hard to make friends!
Q. hiya im from manchester england and im a mum of two and im 22 years old the problem is that i find it hard to make friends, i pretty much just stay at home all the time and look after them as my partner works full time......only my little boy starts ...
A. 16 January 2008: What do you enjoy doing? Whatever it is join some sort of club which has activities during the day. Or look to see what's on offer from your local council for young mothers. You won't be the only person in this situation, so have a look at your ... (read in full...)
Your general thoughts of the uncircumcised penis?
Q. Hi im 17 years old and i am affraid that my penis is too small. it only measures 5.5 inches when errect. please help???? Also i was wondering what people thought about circumsized penises? by the way im circumsized....
A. 16 January 2008: your average dude - the ladies will have no problem. Remember porn stars and their oversized equipment are rare and most girls prefer a size they can handle.
Your Australian as well, so at your age you probably notice most boys around your age... (read in full...)
Here is my list of the "perfect" boyfriend! What do you think?
Q. Here is my list of the perfect boyfriend. Are there any men like this? 1. Shares all email and IM passwords 2. Has none, or only one, female friend 3. Tell's me when his only female friend calls 4. Tell's me when he goes basically anywher...
A. 16 January 2008: I think this is a joke post.
Anyone who has a list like this is seriously deluded and destined to enjoy the single life.... (read in full...)
My husband told me to sleep with another man, I have and liked it,will we have problems?
Q. my husband, of two years,. has given me permission to have sex with other men. i did not ask him for this, he just told me it was ok one day while we were raking the yard (why, when we were raking the yard...wouldn't bed be a better place...but ...
A. 16 January 2008: Hi,
I am a regular visitor to a site where many people act in polygamous relationships. These are intelligent,mature free thinking individuals who just like having sex with other people. Now it's not something I could do myself, but I accept that... (read in full...)
I think I'm pregnant, but boyfriend wants nothing to do with baby, what can I do?
Q. I think i'm pregnant but my boyfriend wants nothing to do with the situation at all. He doesn't even want his mother to know and they're really close! I've tryed to talk to him about it and he just doesn't say anything. He just knows that he doesn't ...
A. 16 January 2008: Hi,
no he cannot make you give up the baby. But you can't make him play happy families with you either. I don't mean to sound harsh as it does take two to tango and you both are responsible for the pregnancy - if he didnt want you to get pregnant... (read in full...)
Should I keep my B/F, just for the sex?
Q. I am 27 divorced but was married for 5 years. OK this may sound very shallow but its reality!! I have this boyfriend who I like very much but that is as far as it goes on the emotional front. I have been seeing him for 5 months but do not see a fut...
A. 15 January 2008: Hi,
If you are able to have sex without developing feelings for him then I really cant see the problem. It sounds like you are having fun.
However, at some stage you will want to commit yourself to someone, so I guess this relationship... (read in full...)
Should I bother with this man?
Q. Should I pursue a love from my past? He has found me after eight years of being apart. I am very interested but he is in a loveless relationship and hasn't left it because there's a child involved(not his)Should I even bother with this man? ...
A. 15 January 2008: Hi,
Why oh why would you want to get involved with someone who is just going to bring a pile of emotional baggage along with him. Good grief, tell him that you would love to meet up but not until his personal situation has been resolved... (read in full...)
Will he be scared of me now that I've dished out some of his own medicine back to him?
Q. my ex has been controlling me, emotionally, verbally and sometimes physically abusing me for a very long time and never once did i stand up to him really. i now have took enough and i have humiliated him and disclosed something to some people who ...
A. 15 January 2008: tread carefully mate. Good on you for finally standing up to him, and hopefully for your sake he gets put away.
But unless he has done something really bad chances are he won't be behind bars. You will have to watch out for him as he may turn very... (read in full...)
Is it okay to be 'just' friends with a guy who wants to date me?
Q. hi i have a boyf of 3 years who i love very much. but i have a male friend who i get along really well with, i dont have any romantic feelings for him but i know he does for me, but he knows i am with someone. we txt alot and see eachother on nights ...
A. 15 January 2008: Hi,
I have seen this situation so many times where a friend falls for a girl but she just likes hanging out with him. The problem is the guy will do anything for the girl as he is smitten, and the girl will take advantage of his good nature. ... (read in full...)
Could a guy have sex with someone and totally not remember it happening the next day?
Q. Could a guy have sex with someone and totally not remember it happening the next day? My friend and her boyfriend had just moved in together, and she had her "best friend" over 1 night and the best friend and the boyfriend had been drinking a ...
A. 15 January 2008: No No No..
What a pathetic excuse. Sorry but your "friend" is being used here.
What a dreadful situation with a bunch of lowlifes.
Good luck in sorting it out. But the friend should be hightailing it away from this cheating rat. And what type of... (read in full...)
When we were together it was mostly a sexual thing for him, but I still want to be with him...except he's with someone else now.
Q. What I want to say is more like adding to the question due to my recent experience. I felt that I rushed into a whirlwind relationship and after going out a few times we became intimate. After about a week he said that he only felt "connected" to me ...
A. 15 January 2008: Sorry mate, but a lot of guys can easily have a relationship with a lady based purely on sex - they get a few weeks worth then get bored and move onto the next conquest. Does'nt really say much about this guy as a person does it? He sounds really ... (read in full...)
Did I say something wrong? What else was I supposed to say? I don't understand why she reacted like that.
Q. Hey weird fight with my girlfriend the other day and I am so confused. what is the appropriate response in this sort of situation: We went to a party at a mutual friends house. One of the guys there brought along a new girlfriend to introduce ...
A. 15 January 2008: Sorry dude,
Can't really advise you what else you could have said. If you had only said she looks gorgeous then a rather fickle personality might overreact. But as you qualified the comment by saying she is as hot as you, I really havent a clue... (read in full...)
I'm feeling hurt and used after being rejected for a second time. How could he do this to me?
Q. Hi I’m 19 and I have liked this guy at work since August. He's really good looking and a bit full of himself. He looks good but his personality sucks. Let’s say his name is John. From the first day I saw him I liked him, I was really drawn to him. ...
A. 15 January 2008: Hi there,
Please don't take this the wrong way but you really need to see what has happened here.
I'm sorry but you knew the warning signs before you slept with him. Booty call? He even said it would be just for sex, I really don't know why you ... (read in full...)
She cannot feel pleasure if she gets very lubricated? How to give her an orgasm?
Q. i cant give my girlfriend an orgasm whats going on? During sex my girlfriend gets to wet and shes stop feeling me? help me please...
A. 11 January 2008: This is more common a problem than some think.
When my partner gets too wet she crosses legs to increase the sensitivity , but I actually enjoy the wetness so its not such an issue with me and my partner gives no indication that she's not feel... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a player and wanted to make him jealous so I lied about giving oral to a friend. He flew off the handle and now I don\t know what to do to make him like me again??
Q. There's this lad who I've liked for over 2 years. He liked me for one of them, but we never went out we just had a few kisses in private. He's a player and all my friends have told me to get over him, but I really feel strongly for him. I might even ...
A. 11 January 2008: Hi there,
now you know what type of guy he is don't you. Players are controlling arseholes. They will shag anything that moves but as soon as one of their many conquests ( that's you ) start to show an interest in someone else they can't handle i... (read in full...)
My partner sent a message to a girl on a dating site and I cant get past it
Q. I've found out my partner has joined an internet dating site, he has said it was just a bit of fun and did it when we went through a bad patch and hasn't been on-line for a while which ties in with what his profile tells me. I've forgiven him but ...
A. 11 January 2008: Hi,
it is very suspicious. Not everyone who goes through a rough patch starts chatting up girls on the internet. Its just not on.
But if you are certain he has stopped you should be able to work this out, he owes you some deep and meaningful r... (read in full...)
Do you think it's ok for me to let my wife have another guy as her best friend??
Q. I'm 32 and my wife is 28. My wife and a good friend of mine (male friend) are good friends. I think it would be safe to say that they are best friends (which is totally okay by me). My friends say I'm crazy to "be okay" with this. I disagree, ...
A. 11 January 2008: A lot of people just cannot accept a heterosexual guy girl friendship when one is already taken. And generally for good reason, at some stage in the friendship they will have had too much to drink, you might have had a wee argument or whatever and ... (read in full...)
What did his gesture mean?
Q. I don't know if i am being paranoid, that's why i need you guys to help me out please!! I was chilling out with my boyfriend at his friend's place. At one point i was playing with the dog when i heard my guy tell his friend, 'I had a----- that's why ...
A. 11 January 2008: If it's the finger and thumb , then he had a joint. Which many people swear by as a way of getting to sleep easily.
If you gave him a blowjob, then that is what he is talking about (unless of course he did both! lucky guy! )... (read in full...)
What can I do for a romantic night in that won't cost a fortune?
Q. Hi, I am having a few problems with my partner at the moment, so in order to show him I love him I was to arrage a romantic night in... I was wondering if anyone had any ideas of what I could do that wouldn't cost a fortune thanks...
A. 11 January 2008: Get your sexist figure hugging dress out of the closet and put it on over some lingerie. If you have something that is revealing let him see what's underneath the dress, he will know what he's in for.
Cook a nice meal with some wine , have cand... (read in full...)
How are my parents likely to take the fact I'm dating a girl who is pregnant?
Q. How will my parents react to me dating someone who is pregnant with another persons child. Im 18 and i really do love her. And i will help her with the kid as much as i can once it born while im still in school and treat it like my own. Ive been ...
A. 11 January 2008: Hi,
this is a tough one. I have to say that your parents will not take it well, if anything its because you are so young and not financially independent. They will see it as something that will tie you down for the best years of your life and they... (read in full...)
Why two condoms???
Q. me and my boyfriend have decided it's time for us to have sex,the only problem is,he wants to wear two condoms for extra safety,but i have told him that they will rub together and brake but he won't listen,how do i make him listen to me? thanks...
A. 11 January 2008: With two condoms he won't feel anything I imagine. This is your best bet for convincing him. If this doesn't work simply tell him that unless he is wearing only one condom he's not going anywhere near you. It is your body and you are the one who ... (read in full...)
He is the the first boyfriend that refuses to perform Oral, although it is the only way I can climax! Ideas?
Q. My boyfriend won't go down on me because he doesn't like the way it tastes. I have never had this complaint before from past boyfriends, and I take care of myself with hygiene. What should I do? It is the only way I can climax......
A. 11 January 2008: Yep, sorry to be blunt, but if he won't go downtown its time to move on. This will just get more and more frustrating for you especially as its the only way you can cum, and I bet my bottom dollar that this guy expects you to perform oral on him.
S... (read in full...)
Boredom during sex - am I normal to feel this?
Q. i think i am not normal help...while having sex with my boyfriend i always just want him to cum and finish fast i am always getting bored and i feel he takes forever to cum...and veryyyyyyyyyyyyy rarely do i cum..why is this...
A. 11 January 2008: Hi,
I hate to say it but you two just don't sound like you are sexually compatible. I have been with my partner for 12 years and all she has to do is touch me and I get turned on - its sexual chemistry.
If a great sex life is really important to... (read in full...)
Should I tell the ex wife how I feel, although she is presently in a relationship? I never felt that I stopped loving her, even living 5 yrs with another woman.
Q. I was with a lovely girl for 10 years. We met through work, moved in together, then we bought our first home together and 8 years into the relationship we got married. We were very close and shared everything. I really thought we were going to be ...
A. 11 January 2008: Hi,
well for a start I think the blame can be split between the two of you - after all you both had affairs.
But you did admit you probably drove her to it, so maybe the blame is more on your side - but that's in the past - you two got together... (read in full...)
I love my bf but just cant forget the guy from work.
Q. Hi, I'm 28 and am in a 9 year relationship with the father of my children. We've had our ups and downs throughout the relationship, mostly downs with him not knowing if he wanted to be with me and the kids, and stuff like that. He's left me sever...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi,
I think it is an easy one to figure out here. I don't think he was just after you for sex and that's all, o.k. maybe that was most of it, but he liked hanging out with you as well and talking and all that stuff. But having a few romps and fool... (read in full...)
She cheated on me and I forgave her, but I think that she still likes him more than me. What do you think?
Q. Hello! I have been with my girlfriend over a year now and we just had a relationship crisis. She cheated on me with some guy and told me about it. A know that she is sorry and would go back in time and not do it if she could and I love her very ...
A. 10 January 2008: I don't really see any option but for you to leave her.
This isnt simple flirtation here, she cheated with him and is still in contact. What a hide this girl has!
You've got a dud here, some people are just natural cheaters, but they end up ... (read in full...)
How do you know if your husband is gay??
Q. How do you know if your husband is gay? we have recently got back together, but when we split up alot of people has asked me was there any chance he was gay, i have heard that gay guys had approach him in the past. The time we broke up i asked him ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi,
true often gay men will pretend they are straight in order to get community acceptance etc. These turn into very destructive people as they live their life as a lie and more often than not take huge risks to satisfy their sexual urges.
Witho... (read in full...)
Does a bigger Penis mean better sex?
Q. I can't stave off something that has made me massively insecure and jealous. My girlfriend of 3 and a half years recently broke up with me for another guy. It was the worst experience of my life, literally :( but it's been 4 months since then and ...
A. 10 January 2008: There are size queens out there who prefer a bigger one, And your ex could be one of them. I have known only one girl in my life who claimed that she wasnt satisfied unless she had a big one inside of her. But she was an incredibly shallow, ... (read in full...)
For guys: Does a woman's vagina size matter? Does it vary if she's tall or short?
Q. On sex and pleasure, Does it matter the size of a women down south? If she is taller or smaller her vagina will be better for him or not? How about the lenght/long/short of the vagina, does this matter to a guy? Does this only matter to EGO driven ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi,
I had a girl once who was very tight. I thought it would be like it normally is ( I am quite wide ) in that it squeezes in at first but after a while she would loosen up. Not in this case, we stopped after about an hour as I was starting... (read in full...)
Can I find love without sex?
Q. I desperately want love (no sex, just love)but, no one I've met wants one without the other. Everyone around me says I'm foolish for holding back and expecting someone to stay. So, please tell me, Am I a princess whose just kissed the wrong frogs ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi,
your post is just a little vague. You don't say the reason you wont have sex, is it religious or just something you have been brought up to believe.
The problem today is most people, men and women, need to know after a while if they are sex... (read in full...)
How do I justify my religion to a non Muslim when I don't believe it?
Q. hi, firstly if you are one of those closed minded people i do not want a reply because i;ve read a few questions regarding similar situations and some answers were down right rude! I'm a 22 year old born into a muslim family girl, born here in the...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi,
You explain to the guy that your parents are traditional muslims and insist on you covering your head when you are around them.
This is not a unique problem, Gentiles who date Jewish people, Catholics who date Protestants all go through simi... (read in full...)
My fiance can't come through sex, he wants a blow job which I find revolting
Q. okay. I've been in a relationship of a little over a year now and engaged for a bit of it. But my finance can't cum during sex. he can cum using his hand fine, this bothers me a bit, but I have gotten over it to some extent. I still feel bad for ...
A. 10 January 2008: Hi,
If you find bj's disgusting I can assume that you are not the most adventurous during sex? i.e. dirty talk, role plays, toys etc?
For a lot of guys it can be hard to come during sex if the girl is non adventurous, the longer it goes o... (read in full...)
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