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I know i'm young but i've seen a few (ok a lot more than a few) things i shouldn't have. I've also been in a lot of reltionships that aren't the best so i know where people are coming from and can help them at the best of times.

Everyone of my friends and not so good of friends comes to me for advice no matter what time of day (or night) it is.

I just like answering question and have genuine concern for everyone I answer. I like feeling important! It makes me feel useful when I am so very UNUSEFUL in so many regards.

Now I'm done talking away. It's your turn...

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I think I'm pregnant, but boyfriend wants nothing to do with baby, what can I do?

Q.   I think i'm pregnant but my boyfriend wants nothing to do with the situation at all. He doesn't even want his mother to know and they're really close! I've tryed to talk to him about it and he just doesn't say anything. He just knows that he doesn't ...

A.   16 January 2008: The thing is that i was on the pill and it didnt work but he never used a condom due to the fact it was 'weird' for him and i did have this conversation with him, 42 times! Yes i counted! And i've also had this talk to him about the baby and if he ... (read in full...)

I have some questions about the pill....can anybody help??

Q.   I have a couple of questions about the pill, what are the side effects of taking the pill? What does it prevent and stop and how can i get it? If you ran out how do u get more does it cost to buy them?? ...

A.   14 January 2008: This websites have the answers: http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/contraceptivepills.htm If you want any personal information feel free to send me a personal message. You can also get the informaiton your looking for from... (read in full...)

His family wants us to break up and he doesn't seem to want to stop it

Q.   I've been in this relationship for over 18 months now. I'm currently living with him. We're having our problems mainly becuase his family won't stop telling him what to do. I've been through too much to go through all of it again. I love him too ...

A.   20 December 2007: Thank you it does help in a way or two. But the answer to your question is no, he never stands up for me and when i ask him later about it all he says that i'm a big girl and i can look after myself. I have a guy friend who i meet through ... (read in full...)

I feel he's on the other side of the computer laughing at me...

Q.   I am 13 years old 14 in June. I've met this guy who lives like five states away online. He's 18 and I told him I was 14. But that's not really the issue because in my heart I know we'll never meet. He's so great I almost get confused sometimes. He ...

A.   11 December 2007: Speaking from the same situation what your gut is telling you it's always the truth. I went out with this guy who soon to my finding was a family friend he was 18 at the time and i was just two months away fro being 14. We went out for three mo... (read in full...)

I still talk with my ex teacher of a few years ago, now he's declared his undying love for me...

Q.   a few years ago I was madly in love with my teacher- we become good friends. At the time I was 15. Now I am in my twenties and we still talk on the net etc.. Recently he declared his love for me... now I don't know what this means....xx...

A.   11 December 2007: Well if you still love him why do you have doubts? And if you don't then you really need to tell him that so he doesn't get to hang up on you.... (read in full...)

I think I may be gay or bi... but how do I find another man to find out?

Q.   Hey, Been thinking a lot lately, and can't stop thinking about doing somehting with another guy. Don't know if I really want to have sex yet or anything, but I've really fantasized a lot about giving a blowjobto another guy, and also curious abo...

A.   11 December 2007: Yes it would but if your thinking of doing that then you would like to tell them before you go in and find someone who is wanting a serious relationship. And no this doesn't mean your gay it just means that you want to try something new, everyone ... (read in full...)

How messy will a hand-job get?

Q.   I'm super inexperienced, as in I've never done anything for a guy. My bf has done some things for me, but I haven't returned any favors because I dont know how to! I've been reading up on hand jobs, I think i have that pretty figured out. So my ...

A.   11 December 2007: Your question isn't stupid most people don't know what there doing so at most times it's best to ask for help or advice. In my own dealings with hand jobs i don't think it matters how much clothing you take off him. And second, you can never really ... (read in full...)

Where is a good place to meet good guys?

Q.   Hi I hope you can help. I am really sick of being single, but I'm not desperate. It would just be nice to have someone new to get to know have fun and love. Where is a good place to meet good guys? I love sports and I'm pretty girly. I'm i...

A.   10 December 2007: I agree with the lady before me, also if you have guy friends they can help you to.... (read in full...)

How do I tell a boy who works for my dad that I like him?

Q.   My dad introduced me to a kid who works in his research lab, about a month ago. I am 15, and he is 17. I really like him, and I think he likes me. He invited me to come join a club at our high school, and always talks to me (tells me jokes, a...

A.   10 December 2007: X-mas is coming up so maybe trying to be a secret santa or something that gives him clues to how you feel, that way he doesn't know it's you but it makes him feel notice. Please let me know how this goes and if you have any other questions i would ... (read in full...)

Am I being paranoid here???

Q.   I'm wondering if I have some cause for concern here... I hooked up with a girl a couple times, I like her, I'm pretty sure she likes me too. Well anyhow, I was on the phone with her today, and she told me she was waiting for her ex-bf to come ho...

A.   10 December 2007: It looks like there is, and i'm very sorry to say that but it's true. She must think that your just a friend and she doesn't have any sexual or relationship interest in you. But i could be wrong maybe you should talk to her, tell her that you have ... (read in full...)

Should I tell her what I feel for her?

Q.   I'm a 15 yr old girl and I kinda have a problem. Recently I found a girl that's bisexual like me and I get along with her very well. She has a personality like no other that I've met. One day she asked me If I ever had a relationship with another ...

A.   10 December 2007: yes but don't let it get in the way of what she wants and if a relationship with you isn't what she wants then sometimes you just have to deal with it. Talking is the answer to most of peoples problems with other people.... (read in full...)

How can we have sex more frequently?

Q.   A problem here. We have sex once a week (rarely twice). Well, although he is very nice to me, it's just not enough. I get sexually frustrated on day 3 and cannot stop but pick little fights about things that bother me a little. Getting my ...

A.   10 December 2007: Leave little notes around the house, it always helps things move along. If that doesn't work then just pin him down, being agressive can sometimes get the message accross... (read in full...)

My friend thinks I'm straight, but I'm in love with her!

Q.   I think I've always been bi.Since starting soccer(the lesbian day hangout where i'm from)I've made alot of lesbian freinds. I'm a major tom-boy so most people assume I'm gay, and I tell them I'm not. I recently kissed a girl, and it just felt ...

A.   10 December 2007: From what you have told me all of what your feeling is true and you really care for her and the only way your going to get anyting out of it is just to tell her. As you said you can't lie and it would be much easyer on both of you if you told each ... (read in full...)

I've got a crush on my boss--really need help!

Q.   Hello Am looking for advice. I have a major crush on my boss and am alienating others cos of it. I keep making a fool out of myself even though i know he is gay and even if he wasn't he wouldn;t want me. What can I do to get him out of my head? ...

A.   10 December 2007: You can't really do anything but get him in ur head so much that you just get sick of him. Or Tell him and see what happens... (read in full...)

Does she need time/space or is it over for good? What do you think?

Q.   Me and my ex have been together, on and off for over two years, but the last eight months we were solid, truly in love and best friends. This was both our first proper relationship. We both became unhappy that I might be moving soon and may have to ...

A.   9 December 2007: Well it looks like that you's are better off together, but if you truly want things to change all you have to do is have a really big talk on want the other wants. Then see where it leads you.... (read in full...)

Can't stop thinking about him...should I text him?

Q.   i was only been with this guy for 3 weeks then we split up,but i cant stop thinking about him,even tho ive not heard anything from him him since we split i really want to text him,is this a good idea or not?...

A.   9 December 2007: Yes txt him, tell him how you feel! IF you hold things in for to long your just going to do something that you'll take for a freaking BIG mistake later in life.... (read in full...)

Best friends but...will we ever fall in love?

Q.   there is a guy whom i love like mad...he really cares for me..but he says love is too complicated for him...n says i'll b his best friend forever...do you think that he will fall in love with me some day......

A.   9 December 2007: Some day he might but i wouldn't push him into it cos thats where people make so many mistakes. Or: Sit him down just you and him and tell him, then give him sometime to get used to it then have another talk.... (read in full...)

My friend drives me crazy! She copies me!

Q.   My friend is always telling me what shes doing and I really don't want to know. She is always acting very immature. Its Like I tell her something I want to do and then she goes and does it. Like for instance I said I was redoing my room, well she ...

A.   9 December 2007: Basically all you need to do is either keep putting up with it or tell her. And if you go with telling her give her conditions, like if she doesn't stop doing it then there just won't be a friendship anymore.... (read in full...)

My ex's mixed signals are driving me insane.

Q.   Basically my ex broke up with me 3 months ago. We were together for 2 years and i'd been madly in love with her for a year before we got together, when we finally did everything was amazing and she was in love with me just as much as i was with ...

A.   8 December 2007: Well it seems that she needs to get her head over the fact that she still has feelings for you and that will never change. You say you want to just spend some time together, so just do it even if it's just a lunch. Don't let your emotions... (read in full...)

We had great holiday sex but havent since we came back...any advice??

Q.   Ok, here is my problem, me and my boyfriend have a great and varied sex life. We went on holiday recently and had sex twice everyday which was great. He told me it was more sex than he had ever had throughout his marriage. This was a major complime...

A.   8 December 2007: I would wait and see what will happen but guys are a bit slow in waking up to what we really want so you might need to help him to understand. ... (read in full...)

11, My ex boyfriend told everyone, including my new boyfriend that I'm a bad kisser. Help!

Q.   my ex boyfriend told everyone including my current boyfriend that im a bad kisser. and now my current boyfriend wants to test to see if i am good! ive only been going out with him for a week! im afraid if he is going to think i AM a bad kisser... so ...

A.   6 December 2007: Just one question before i answer your question, if your just 11 years of age why the hell did you say that your where between 26-29? Now to your question, I think personally that you should ditch the boy your with now. If he truly cared about yo... (read in full...)

He was taken back when he found out I liked him. He's acting normal, but he keeps bringing it up randomly now. What can I do?

Q.   hi. i like my flatmate at uni.We had a lot of fun, but recently h found a note under my mattress saying that i liked him. He was taken aback and shocked and so i lied and said that i wrote the note three months ago and that i didn't like him ...

A.   6 December 2007: It's really good that he keeps bringing it up that means that he's waiting for you to ask him out so freaking go for it. But don't make it all cheesie like, just have a lunch or even a coffee one day and don't start on that topic ease your way... (read in full...)

13, My boyfriend wants Sex from me, but I don't think I'm ready. Can you help me?

Q.   i've been with my boyfriend for 3 wks and 5 days and he wants to have sex with me and im still a virgin and he is'nt i dont know if im ready or not how would i know if im ready or not. ...

A.   6 December 2007: You never know if your ready, personally from my views on many people in this situtation is that you really need to sit down and talk to him and figure out if it's whats you both want or need, do you think your relationship is ready for this BIG ... (read in full...)

He slept with his ex on a drunken night. I love him and he loves me. Do I take him back?

Q.   my boyfriend of 9 months and i went away to the country with his ex and her boyfriend. my boyfriend and his ex have two kids together.. i was hitting it off with his ex when she turns around and tells me that 4 months ago she had slept with my ...

A.   6 December 2007: What you really need to do is, 1: find out what he wants out of your relationship and 2: do you think if it's going to happen again. If you think that he might then talk to him about it and not just an everyday talk! Sit down and really get inside ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend hangs out with his ex who still loves him; he says I shouldn't worry but I can't help it

Q.   Should I worry? My "BF" and his ex spend alot of time together and she is still in love with him. He says i shouldnt worry b/c he loves me and not her but i still do b/c she has tried stuff in the past and that worries me that i will lose him to her ...

A.   21 July 2007: well i have the same problem with my bf and a really good friend of mine and i have the same thing from him, but trust is the main key in a relationship so trust him and talk to ur bf about it, tell him how u feel and i'm sure u'll get him to stop ... (read in full...)

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