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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He said he didn't want to hang out anymore because he felt I was playing with him!

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3 February 2011 (F) - I met this guy about a year ago wen I was out and about! I gave him my number and we keep I'm touch! We would text talk on the phone but never hung out! I only seen him that 1 time when I gave him my number... So after a yr of phone conversations we ...

I broke my boyfriend's heart. What can I say to him?

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3 February 2011 (F) - What can I say to my boyfriend?? I broke his heart:(? So my boyfriend told me something that happened with him and some girl that likes him.. Anyways I got it all wrong and thought he cheated on me with her..but it turns not to be true. I got re...

I wonder if he loves me as much as I love him?

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3 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend now for over 2 years and although we love each other and live together, I do not feel as though he pays particular attention to me or our life at home. I am always doing my best to make our house look beautiful a...

My ex will not let me see my 6 year old daughter!

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3 February 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid Hello I have a question and need some advice. I have a daughter that is 6 he father has kept me from my rights to see her in 5 years. He will not provide me with a number. Or anything I've tryed to contact him eveyway possible. I am a m...

How do I stop being a crazy girlfriend?

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3 February 2011 (F) - Ok there's a million things leading up to this, but here's what happened today: Tomorrow is the 6 anniversary of someone very close to me dying. This morning I texted my boyfriend to talk to him about it. I was feeling positive about it, and w...

I like guys who are protective but my boyfriend goes way over the top

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3 February 2011 (F) - I like lads who look out for me and are quite protective but my boyfriend of over a year is way over the top with it. I love him to pieces but its like its one rule for me and another for him. He demands that I don't see any of my friends (male or ...

My heart belongs to the second guy, but I have a bond with the first guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - He's my best friend. He's also my on/off boyfriend. We had a horrible relationship, and even though we had these feelings for each other it just wasn't enough. We're one of those couples that fights, then makes up, then fights then breaks up then ...

Should I be worried? Am I overreacting?

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3 February 2011 (F) - Sorry about the essayness! Okay so my friend is having a massive party she's paid a lot of money for, and another friend (she is not massively close to but still close) then decides to go out clubbing the same night, and use her venue as a 'pre ...

Is it normal for men to pull away when their wives need comfort?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I have been feeling down a little these days due to family issues. I would think my husband would be a little more comforting but instead he is getting more distant. Is that normal for him to distant himself or is it me just in need of extra ...

We love each other but lately we're arguing all the time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Ok so I've been dating this guy for almost 3 years now. About a year ago, we started talking about getting married...but he recently told me he wants to wait until he's done with school and has a job (we are both mid-twenties, I graduate in April, ...

I'm really concerned about her dating this guy who uses drugs, steals and has awful friends!

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3 February 2011 (M) - I have been talking to a girl for about 3 years now she is 26 and i am 28 and she works as a mobile cairer for the elderly for a few weeks she has complaind about this womans son how she doesnot like him and how hes old enough to be her dad and how ...

Help with my problems - he no longer is sexual, or sweet or tells me cute things!

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3 February 2011 (F) - Okay hello ! Well me and my bf have beentogether over a year now and when we first started dating he was suprr hmm how do I say this sexual and then like we latly its like he barley ever wabts to like if hes iver itll happen no doought but like he ...

Should I stop talking to him?

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3 February 2011 (F) - I've been at my job for 5 months now. I met a guy that is so nice and cool we have this bond like if we where relatives. He is older than me and calls me his little sister and watches over me. He just told me yesterday he is not allowed to talk to ...

Advice for how to deal with a sibling with border line personality disorder?

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3 February 2011 (?) - Hi I have a sister who I believe has border line personality disorder. I'm not a doctor, but she seems to have all the signature traits. I want to preface what I say about her by saying she's actually a pretty smart person. She's a doctor ...

I know in my heart that I deserve better. But I love him.

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3 February 2011 (F) - I really don't know where to start. this is a long story so please brace yourself. Im really confused and honestly don't know what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Hes my first bf (Im 18 and were the same age). I want to expla...

I want them to be my friends but thing aren't going well!

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3 February 2011 (F) - In my main group of friends there are 4 of us (fake names: me, zoe, kate, pheobe). I also have another best friend(helen). Zoe has been my best friend for almost all my life, pheobe i have known for ages but only recently become friends and kate who ...

I'm happy to be pregnant, but he's pressuring me to get an abortion!

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3 February 2011 (F) - I found out two weeks ago, that I'm pregnant. It's not planned but I'm really excited about it. My partner, however, isn't. He keeps insisting that he wants me to get rid of it, and has said if I kept it against his will, then its as good as ...

I'm beginning to feel resentment toward his child, I need help to handle this situation!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Ok - Here is the situation... I have known my husband since I was 15, we made out one night at a bar when I was 19 and I never heard from him again until I was 25. I was a super mess, my Fiance at the time had cheated on me and sent me the pictures ...

I want to stick by him but I don't think I can handle him being in contact with this woman, who is pregnant with his child.

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3 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my husband for almost 24 yrs. We are highschool sweethearts. We've been married for 14. We have a 20yr old son. This last yr he found me flirting with a guy online. He took it upon himself to find his own affair with a 24 yr old ...

I want to move onto the next stage with my boyfriend, how should I let him know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. I love him so much and I know he's someone I'll be with for a very long time. He does everything for me and I really would be lost without him. However, lately I feel that I want to go onto the next...

My boyfriend and I broke up, and he got involved with my sister. We're back together, but they are still talking!

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3 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm sorry if this goes on for a bit, I just don't really know where to start. I was seeing this guy for 9 months and we were forever splitting up and getting back together. We had a massive row and spilt up. He was forever telling me he wanted ...

My married lover had a stroke, but we still want to be together. How can we make this possible?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been married for quite a few years, but I have always known I married on the rebound from my first marriage, which also was never right. The reason for this is that there was always someone else that I loved, but I never explored it as I ...

Married, cheated with ex, got caught, still married and still miss my ex!!!! Help!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - I cheated on my husband with my first love, who has a girlfriend. We didn't have a long affair, we mostly emailed, texted and we were able to meet a few times. We had sex and it was incredible. Back in high school when we dated he left me because ...

I love my girlfriend, but she is romantically absent. Help!

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3 February 2011 (M) - We are both in our early 50's, seeing each other for 3 years now. I love her very much and I don't want to be without her regardless, but I am getting frustrated as I have a normal sex drive and desire her constantly. She does so much for so many, ...

I can't figure out where I stand in this relationship. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Hi all. Well I've been dating a guy on and of for about four months who is the same age as me. We always have lots of fun together and when I'm with him he makes me feel so good. The problem is, I'm getting mixed messages. We dated for a few week...

Do his family have a problem with me?

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3 February 2011 (F) - hi I am in a new relationship with my boyfriend, ive lived in turkey for 8 yrs and ive recently met a turkish partner, we are in love. the first week we met he stayed everynight it was great we are so happy together but is it normal for his ...

I know he is never going to leave his wife for me, so how do I go cold turkey when I have to see him everyday?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Hello I am a 33 year old lady who has got myself into a bit of a mess. I started seeing a co-worker in December 2009. He and I are both married, unhappy, but both staying for childrens/financial sake. He only married in January 2010. He didn...

I've got him some great Valentines gifts, but he ridicules even the idea of presents!

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3 February 2011 (F) - hi i am 29 year old woman in love with a man, weve been dating 10 months now and live in different cities, i know this sounds silly but its valentines coming up and i have bought him some lovely presents, i did for his birthday and christmas ...

Is he avoiding/ignoring me because I wouldn't have sex with him?

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3 February 2011 (F) - Just wanted to get a guy's perspective on this: I've been dating a guy for about 2 months, we seemed to get along, joke, talk about sports (yes I like sports), and he's been affectionate with me, however we haven't had sex. He's been dropping hi...

He called me his ex's name!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Last night my boyfriend and I were in bed and I was kissing him and he turned round and said 'No *****' (Not my name) so I imediately jumped up and said what did you just call me?? He tried to grab me and hug me and said sorry but at least I was ...

Should I be ok with my girlfriend sleeping in another guy's bed?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

3 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend went to a sleepover with her guy friend, since he supposedly dosent have a guest room, she has to sleep on the same bed as him, should I be fine with that?...

She is unhappy and nothing I do seems to work!

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3 February 2011 (M) - So me and this girl have been dating for a year now, and she is wonderful and amazing.. but lately she has been going through alot with life issues, such as having to move far away, hating her job, and etc. and we've talked about it a lot and she ...

He excludes me from his life despite all I have done for him! What should I do?

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3 February 2011 (F) - My guy is a plumber by profession. I love him very much and we been in love for three years. When he had little money on him last year i rented an apartment for him, fed him through last year. Yet i don't know much about his life. He excludes me ...

Should I maintain my stance or go back to him?

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3 February 2011 (F) - I refuse going to his place, he came and I told him im leavin for good but that if he so claim he loves me he should prove it by taking me to his place and open up to me and he agreed, and said we are going to his place by feb end. should i maintain ...

Is my boyfriend not possesive or is he just acting?

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3 February 2011 (F) - i am in a committed ldr relationship since 1 year and 6 months. recently i had a farewell as i study in grade 12. we had a party in a party hall .but before going to party ,we all went to school to attend the school farewell .there we had to wear ...

What does she want?

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3 February 2011 (M) - I upset a girl that I love (she knows it)very recently by telling her boyfriend is using her as a temporary plan and some really bad things about him. I understand this would destroy her dream but she had promised me that she would not be ang...

Why is he acting so irrationally? I'm the one that should be annoyed!

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3 February 2011 (?) - Why does my boyfriend do this? My boyfriend flew into my state monday but his flight was delayed so instead of getting in at 5pm he got in at 3am. I had class until 9pm, and then he called me asking if I was going to meet him at his apartment at 3am ...

Should I wait, talk it out, and see what happens? Or should I break up with him?

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3 February 2011 (F) - Ugh, so I have quite the problem here. I have a boyfriend of 6 going on 7 months. We've known each other previously for almost 4 years. I've always wanted him, from the first time I saw him. At first, everything was well. Then came a ton of ...

I need a mans point of view: Does he love me and just doesn't realize he's being mean? Or is he doing it or purpose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Ok, heres the problem. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and it was ok for the first few months then as time went on we moved in together. When this happened i found little things that bothered me and made me feel insecure about our ...

I doubted my boyfriend and now we're on a break...

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My husband seems to be living a double life!

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3 February 2011 (F) - Should I be concerned that my husband of 2 months has registered himself with some site that are "questionable" in my opinion for a married man. This was done behind my back, but I have found the evidence because he left his computer on one day and ...

My boyfriend cheated on me, now I don't trust him! What should I do?

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3 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me we've been together for two years and i found out he slept with the girl he said that he realize he wants me but the trust is gone i thought he was a good guy what do I do?...

My boyfriend flirts with other women right in front of me!

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3 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a huge flirt.. he tends to flirt even in my face.. I have told him but he keeps on.. help!...

He hit me across the face, causing me to spill a hot drink over myself and my laptop!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

3 February 2011 (F) - Dear cupids, am I in the wrong here? I have a big presentation tomorrow and I had asked my boyfriend to be my practice audience when I'd done. Well he knows Iv been feeling pretty crappy at the moment due to the fact Iv been paying off his loan ...

The pros and cons of staying with a temperamental girl?

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3 February 2011 (M) - Ive been dating this girl for about 7 months now, and she always makes me pissed off. She's unconsciously selfish about herself as in she think's her ideas are the best and thinks my advice is bs when i'm older and more experienced. We've been ...

I'm insecure with my b/f about swinger emails, porn ...

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3 February 2011 (F) - Hi.. I have seen on the search history that my boyfriend stays viewing porn. At first it didn't bother, but now he sees it everyday. I also saw he was getting emails from a swingers club but it was dated several months after we started dating.. he ...

I love him and want to work things out but I am confused and I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend who knows I still have feelings for my ex.

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3 February 2011 (F) - I was dating my ex boyfriend in which i was engaged too for about 2 and a half years. We have a kid together and a few months after he was born my ex started getting addicted to pills and he became violent towards me infront of our 3 month old son ...

Is it normal to feel some jealousy towards your boyfriend's friends and family?

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3 February 2011 (F) - I'm currently in a relationship, but like all it has some issues. Is it normal to feel some jealously towards your boyfriend's friends and family? I feel really bad about it, but I just feel rejected sometimes. For example, I live with him and he ...

Crazy gold digger!

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3 February 2011 (M) - I live in Mexico and went out with a lady, who is almost 50 and works in the family business which is going down the old drain by the way. I have been going with her for four years. The first breakup was after 1 1/2 years, and came out of the blue. ...

Why do people say something when they are drunk and refuse saying the same thing when they are sober?

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3 February 2011 (F) - Hi I am friends with my ex-bf and we talk almost daily. We talk normal stuff, not anything sexual. But lately i feel like he is trying to keep me on the hook, he used to say like he loves to talk to me daily, i am the only one who understands him ...

I can't believe these boys are in their 30s and I'm in my 20s and I feel like I'm sorting out a playground fight!

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3 February 2011 (F) - Ok, so I'm 23, my boyfriend is 31 and my brother is 33.. MY brother and boyfriend had a huge fight at the weekend and now everything has kicked off at home. My. Brother and boyfriend have only met a handful of times and never really gotten to know ...

Ex told him lies about me and now he's not the same with me any more. Help!

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3 February 2011 (F) - Ok, I am 16 and the guy is 17. We are both juniors and I really like him. He has showed interest in me since the beginning of the year but I never acted on it, until about three weeks ago. At first he was really nice and we texted a lot and he would ...

Abusive partner...

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

3 February 2011 (?) - I asked for advise on my partner of 12 months not long ago all the advise was great i wanted to take it but now its a whole different ball ground.... ok i dont want advise telling me to leave him because i cant.... My partner asked me when he lost ...