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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do do I teach him what I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I recently broke up with my long distance boyfriend because he wasnt treating me the way I wanted to be treated. It was his first relationship, and he didnt understand how to give me emotional comfort. I was really frustrated, and told him so. He ...

He cheated and I haven't responded to him for 7 months. I will be moving back to his country, should I make peace with him?

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28 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, I have a complicated story. In 2009 I stayed in Australia for in total 4 months for an internship. I met this guy through a friend of mine, we hit it off instantly, and it was supposed to be something casual. We spent time together...

Do I listen to my sister and leave, or was the break a mistake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - O.k.... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2, nearly 3 years now and although things have not been perfect, overall we've been quite happy and I've had some of the best times with him, but my sister has told me throughout our relationship she ...

She always wants her space!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I guess I'm the type of person who needs to feel constantly loved. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and it is just like that fire is gone. I found out she had feelings for another guy and she doesn't really try to hold my hand or ...

My girlfriend has feelings for 2 of my friends! We all work together,so it's awkward. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Ok so here it goes, my girlfriend and I have been dating for four years (I’m 21, she’s 20). The beginning was great, we loved each other and we were having fun and what not, this was until I found out she had feelings for two of my friends. So I ...

How do I achieve my EMO look?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is amazing and he is one of my best friends. He always looks amazing and he always says I look amazing too but I don't feel confident in the clothes I wear! I dont like to wear skirts I love shorts and jeans and I love a quirky style ...

She's always bringing a friend along!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I like a very shy girl..we are both 20.i approached her and made obvious i wanted to hang out with her...at first she brought a friend.But then i ignored her so she started texting to me.I asked her out alone and she accepted.Next days she kept ...

Should I take a break from this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Yes lately it seems like I am always on this site lol! Anyways, the past month or so things have not been so good with me and my bf. We started seeing each other about 8 months ago, and were always exclusive from day 1. We never felt the need to ...

I don't understand him! Do you? Should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - He calls often, just always wants to know how I'm doing and that he finds me attractive and at times tutors me with my science classes, so he's quite bright (unless he's quick on Googling information). It's all really sweet. However, when I ask him ...

He says I'm crazy because I'm bipolar!?!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Me and my husband have been married a little over a year. I found out he had been talking to someone else for over 4 months. He swears nothing is going on. He says i'm crazy because i'm bipolar and it's all in my head. He hardly ever wants to have ...

She's happy I'm heartbroken, is this just a rumour or true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Recently one of my good friends told me that a girl who is currently in a relationship with someone else is happy that I am heartbroken because of her. She is a very close and good friend of mine. In the past, she helped me out a lot in a lot of ...

My partner doesn't pay bills, or clean up messes, and she's taken money from my account without permission. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I am 36 years old and I have a wonderful two year old daughter. I own my home, and my daughter’s mom lives with me. This is where the problem comes in. She is going to school full time and out of the three years we have been living together...

Why I am attracted to women with low self-esteem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Why am I attracted to these needy messed up low self-esteem women? It's like if she is in trouble or is in bad emotional place or drug addict or w/e . I find these women very attractive.. Its like their emotions are so pure I can't explain it.I ...

When I asked my boyfriend to set up some healthy boundaries with his children, he broke up with me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have been in relationship for 5 years. It was great for 3 years until his children ages 16 and 20 started to cross boundaries when he and I were together. I asked him on several occasions to set up some healthy boundaries to not have them wake us ...

Why doesn't my friend want to talk about the past? And which boy does my heart belong to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hey, Need your help again. So, last year, there used to be a lad (Luke) who was totally in love with me. He spoke to me everyday and always said he loved me. He did this everyday for a year but I never responded because I didn't want to ruin our...

I can't keep up this secret much longer!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Going to keep this as short as possible.. I am a girl that's16 years old and am in a relationship with a 20 year old male. As I am living with my parents, and knew they would be against this we've been in a secret relationship for 10 months. ...

She made her choice, but now I'm hurting..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Ok so I met this girl a while ago, we swiftly hit it off and became friends. Knowing this girl was in a relationship, I didn't push for anything more. After a while we became best friends simply spending each evening talking, it had been a while ...

Is it normal to not want to date people older than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - hey there, I was just wondering if i'm meant to be attracted to people older than me. I mean i'm gay and I like people my own age, but not older, and I was wondering if thats normal. Cause some of my mates have older gf and bf. So any help woul...

He's 38, and I'm 21. Someday I would like to have kids, but he doesn't think he wants them. Should I stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am 21 years old and have been with my 38 year old boyfriend for over a year...we live together and get on sooooo well. He never upsets me, treats me like a princess and I love him to bits. The problem is, I would like to have children in the ...

I'm almost 17, and STILL being treated like a little kid!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hey. Thank you for all you people who are taking your time to help me, I really do need answers. I'm 17 in a couple of days and tbh I'm quite confused. I've been with my boyfriend for ages (8 months) but he's still not allowed in my bedroom. Even...

Will having a child make things worse in the long run?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - im 25 and pregnant. Its been a bit of a rollar cosater but i have got over the hurdles of telling my parents etc and i thought i was on the roasd to happiness. But now me and my boyfriend are arguing. I have gone off sex and been feeling a bit ...

I know I shouldnt be with him but I am so alone and only answer his calls so I have someone to talk to....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Okay, you all probably heard all this before! I have been with my ex for about 2 years! We have been going down hill from the second month! He treats me like I'm worthless and brain less and so much more! It has got to the point where I cant ta...

She has stopped the flirting but still talks to him and I have asked her not to! What can I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I am going around with this girl for more than a year. We were best friends for 5 years before we got into this relationship. Although we already having it tough times as her parents are not approved of her relationship with me and are completely ...

My girlfriend helps when things are rough financially, why cant I count on my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am a very frustrated husband. I may be the big reason for all of my problems because I am married and have a girlfriend that my wife does not know that I am still seeing. I met my girlfriend while driving over the road as a truck driver and she ...

The man I like found out I like him, he likes me only as a sister and things are really strange now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - First of all, my grammar is very bad.. sorry bout that.. hope you can understand my story.. I like my senior, Kim. We know each other for more than one year and we are quite close. His close friends is my close friends as well. They (Ed and Dan...

Did she only marry me because she got pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5010 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - I have been in love with this young woman for 2 years. We had been schooling in a local college training as P1 teachers.Accidentally in one of our happy moments she concieved while in college but since we were near to graduate and l loved her l ...

How do we draw a line under this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I found out my fiancé had been going to massage parlours for massages and 'hand relief'. This is what he told me at first. I found out as he hadn't deleted messages from his sent box, arranging time and what address he had to go to and what he ...

In a relationship for 5 years but have feelings for someone else, how do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I've finally decided to ask for help anonymously about my situation as I am completely lost at what to do and perhaps even in how I am thinking. I'm 25year old woman in a serious relationship with another woman who is 2...

Why did this happen? Is he not interested in sex with me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (?) - I was having sex with my bf of a year the other day. I was on top and he went a bit floppy, enough for it to keep falling out/being hard to get back in (sorry to be graphic). After about 5 mins he ended up finishing. Im just wondering if anyone h...

My partner only stayed with me because I begged him to! What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - hi i have a problem, i am 52 years old my so called partner is only with me as i begged him not to leave me we dont live together. we have a 14 year old son so our whole relationship is based around him. if i ask my partner anything he will always ...

She doesn't want us to split up, but she does want a break and to see other people which I cannot tolerate! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a girl for 4 years. It was my first real relationship, even she had relations befor with both girls and boys. Actually first with boys and then girls in which she decided that she is a lesbian. Before, we h...

Will my boyfriend be upset about my past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hello all, I really need some opinions and information, please. My situation is as it follows : I had a bf, then we engaged and wanted to get married. We haven't had actual intercourse, nor did we have oral. But we engaged in some heavy pet...

Should I talk to him about this? it's eating me up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5014 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi i have a boyfriend who i've been with for about 3 months now. but recently because he's started working full time and we live about an hour away from each other i only really see him on weekends. i'm fine with this i guess, i would like ...

I feel neglected.......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - HI, The guy that i am with now,is a guy that i ever wanted,he has the qualities that i had dream.We work in the same office.We are happy couples.Nowadays he seldom calls me or ask me out for dates.I have confronted him in a very polite way but he r...

Why is she pushing me away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hi all, to begin with, my situation just like alot of others is unique in a way, to begin with...back in early 2008, I had met a girl who is mutual friends with some friends of mine in a different circle. We pretty much hit it off as friends,...

I absolutely have no idea where I stand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5010 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I am 25 years old, and a lesbian, I broke up with my ex girl friend after 3 years of relationship.But we still share the same room or stay under one roof .She has a long distance relationship with another woman ever since we broke up. Now the thing ...

Is this just his way of telling me we have no future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - i am in a relationship of six years. my boyfriend introduced me to his family when we dated for about a year. my problem is that si months from him introducing me, he never wanted me to visit his place or his parents. when i ask him he brushes me ...

Flirty friends and double standards....what would you do in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5010 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Ok i'm really unsure what to do and would love some advice. Here goes: My fella and I have been together a year now. I have this group of so-called friends (so-called because they never really bothered with me much when I was single unless th...

How do I stop my habit of cheating with men behind my girlfriend's back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - hi there, I have a girlfriend, she's just crazy about me and the problem i'm having is, when i'm with her i'm normal and when she's not with me i start flirting men. I had sex with men too. I know that i'm betraying her but all i wanna do is to g...

I really love him but his attitude is hurting me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I and my bf have a lot of fights these days. we both belong to different religions and he wants me to get converted which i do not wish to.... he does not allow me to talk to any of my guy friends either. He never accepts his mistakes and always is ...

Should I worry about his relationship with his cousin?

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28 February 2011 (F) - i love someone very much.he is very lovely and talkative. but recently i got to know something which is disturbing me a lot.that is my lover is very much close to his uncle's daughter.both of them share their personal matters to each other.personal ...

Family that never apologises...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - To begin I feel like the whole world is against me. I am married my husband's mother hates me. I am very nice, and polite to her. She loves to say mean things to me and I let it roll of my shoulders. After my son was born my husband and I moved a ...

Should I start the healing process and move on from this LDR which doesn't seem to be working out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy I met in college for almost 4 years now. We have in a good, stable, loving relationship. I'm an international student, so I had to leave upon my graduation. We're half a world away now. I have plans to go ba...

Iv stood by this girl in every way, yet now she's back to her ex who used to abuse her physically and emotionally!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hello, I have been dating this girl for about 6 months, when all of a sudden she started to ignore me. The relationship was going great, we got along great, we had fun together, nothing was going wrong. She had been ignoring me for about 2 week...

Should I leave him, sleep with him or just keep on fooling around with him, knowing it will not lead anywhere???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - So, I am 21 and have been fooling around with a 45 year old musician. We have done every sex act imaginable without penetration (I have been holding off). Here is the hang up: he has a rather new 'girlfriend' who is his age and a teenage son. Now, ...

He feels unsettled living in my house - give it more time or move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - My boyfriend and I (both men, we're gay) recently started living together. The situation was him moving in with me. Our relationship and us living together is going great but he is having trouble feeling settled and it is making him unhappy. The ...

I have a boyfriend who loves me....but I'm starting to fall for my ex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, and I've been dating my boyfriend (let's call him O) for around 6 months, and its properly serious. I've only had one serious relationship before this one (let's call him L), here we were friends before we started dating. It end...

The man I love proposed to a woman back home. He is giving me mixed signals. Help!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I have posted similar questions to this issue, and this is somewhat of a followup question. I have fallen for a foreign-exchange student who loves another that may or may not return the feelings. It is a relationship from his past tha...

What do married men think of women who are friends with his wife, but flirts with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - What does a married man really think of a woman that flirts with him? What does he think of her character as a person? Does he really think he can trust someone like that? Especially if he sees that she is friendly with his wife? ...

After my girlfriend told me about her sexual past, I am disgusted! Should I have sex with her and leave her, or lose my virginity to another?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I have been dating this girl that is crazy in love with me. However, she started talking about her past. She told me that she didn't want anything between us and that she needed to tell me everything, because she trusts me and so on and so forth...