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Archived questions from: 19 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why will my boy friend not trust me. I live a good clean life now.

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19 February 2011 (F) - Hi my boyfriend is really hung up on the fact that I took drugs years ago... I don't now, as I've grown up, it was a phase I went through as some people do. Its just every time I have a drink he thinks I'm on drugs too!! I earn a honest wage, and...

Why would he act like he's hurt when he made it pretty clear he didn't want to be with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - About a month and a half ago my boyfriend, "Greg", told me that he wanted us to break up because he had just lost his job and was going through a lot and said he just couldn't focus on a relationship at the moment. I had feelings for him so I took ...

My boyfriend has a very controlling ex-wife. How can he still see his child but also allow us weekends together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Any advice appreciated. I have been dating a man for a year; he is separated for almost a year and recently filed for divorce. I am also separated for almost 2 years. He has a 10 yr old daughter who lives with the Mom. The daughter and Mom live ...

Is she losing interest in me? Or am I over reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Hiya - I have been dating a girl for a year. It has been a wonderful year. I have noticed (or maybe I am reading into things) that she seems less interested. She has always been very generous with her feelings. We don't live together but try and see ...

I don't want to stay friends if she can't guarantee to be faithful. Why is she upset about MY attitude to this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

19 February 2011 (?) - I made contact with my ex about a year ago and we were both single. I made it clear to her that if she ever hooked up with another bloke that I would walk away because I don't want to cause any problems. I kind of hoped that she would want to try ...

Jealousy..How to deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - hello everyone!=] I'm currently in high school,and i'm really confused.. Last year a boy started asking me out, and it was really annoying at the time seeing as it had wound me up alot and made me really upset. People were telling me to go out...

We have big problems! Should I break up with my fiancee after 2 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I'm engaged, we've been together for 2 years now. I'm also pagan and he is agnostic. I go for religious festivals twice a year and recently asked him if I could have an altar in the house. He refuses to a) let any children we might have go to the ...

I love my chat BF but maybe he doesn't feel the same. What would be some solutions to improve things?

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19 February 2011 (F) - hi i really like this boy and we was talkin on chatsites and things and he acted like he realy liked me i have known him years and he and i are so close well untill recently he has started to ignore me i cant deal with it i love him so much he ...

My BF has no objection to his 25yr old daughter moving in with us. I do, as we don't get on. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I have an ongoing issue with my boyfriend's daughter. She is 25 and living semi close and going to university. She is just about to graduate after 8 years with a bachelors. She is unsure exactly what she'll be doing, but is thinking of moving back...

My husband is too close to a girl at work. So why am I being painted as the 'bad guy' in all this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - So I have a problem. My husband has this girl at work who likes him. He admits now that she has a crush on him, and that they flirt. I found out about her a few months ago, and the fact that he had been having lunch with her (and sometimes s...

What can I do? my sister can do no wrong, I'm always to blame.

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19 February 2011 (F) - family problem my sister is 2 years younger than me and it always feels like my parents love her more. It doesn't matter what she does, it's never wrong. But whatever i do is wrong. She crys when she doesn't get her way and goes to her "mummy" ...

How much 'space' and time should I give him? Or has he just said we might get back, to soften the bad news?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - About a month ago I started to get to know a guy from my class in college a little better. We first started talking online, and then he offered for me to sit with him in class, so I did. After that we started talking more online - in fact, he hardly ...

She's still the one for me. Do you think she will ever come back?

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19 February 2011 (M) - It's been a month and a half since my break up with my girlfriend (ex) that was a 3 year relationship. the only time she contacted me once saying she missed me, a week after the break up after she asked me on a date and cancelled it because ...

If I get the help my boyfriend says I need, will he still stay with me when I get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - My fiance and I we were fighting over a stupid phone.. he turned it on and then i over reacted. he told me he wasnt doing anything, but he said i hurt him so much that now, he doesnt know what he wants from me. Meaning, like about the marriage...

I'm not over her. I do miss her. Do you think there is a future for us, together?

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19 February 2011 (M) - I dated my ex girlfriend for over two years. We began dating in grade 11 and she was my high school sweetheart (prom date, etc.). I took a year off after high school while she went to university about an hour and a half away. We made it until about ...

My gf is still stuck on her ex, 3 years later. What should we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - So my question is essentially expressed through the title: what can I do? This isn't a matter of security, fear, or soul searching on my part. Rather, she seems to be feeling these things herself, but doesn't know what to do. We've been together...

Too much contact between boyfriend and his ex (mother of his child)!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hi there, My boyfriend and I went out together years ago, but split up as it was too much, too young. We were each others first loves, and I always thought we would be together forever. Subsequently after splitting, my boyfriend has a 4 year old...

My life is not going anywhere, and I don't know what to do.

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19 February 2011 (M) - I have a big problem... I'm 19... and my life doesn't seem to be going anywhere :S I'm at uni, desperately looking for a job, girlfriendless.... everything just seems to be going wrong, or falling apart... And I have absolutely no motiva...

How do you choose between 2 guys you both like?

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19 February 2011 (F) - My friend is stuck with 2 boys. She's going out with one but likes the other one too. What should she do?...

He flirts with his ex-girlfriend and doesn't care that it upsets me!

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19 February 2011 (F) - I see my boyfriend everyday flirting with his ex-girlfriend. I tell him how I feel and I tell him I get jealous but he doesn't stop. He says he 'loves" me but I don't think he does. What should I do????...

Do you think he wants me back or are we through?

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19 February 2011 (F) - My bf broke up with me. I decided to start no contact. He kept sending text messages telling me he loved me and stuff. that made it hard for me to recover from the breakup, so I blocked his number from being able to call or text my phone. His sister ...

Should I become promiscuous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4935 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - I will come out and say it: due to a bad and nonexistent upbringing, I used to be the "nice guy" with very little luck. I am 24 years old and I have been with only 7 women in my life (mostly due to luck). Due to fortune and the great advice from an ...

My boyfriend is possessive and mean to me. Now he has told me about a woman he finds attractive. Is it time for me to move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together a long time, around 3 years. He's always said "I'm it" he wants to marry me, etc. However, his actions speak differently. He put a deposit down on a ring, but later got a refund, which hurt immensel...

While drunk I sent her a really angry text, how do I make amends?

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19 February 2011 (M) - Look I need advice. Last Tuesday, the day after Valentine's, I had a little fight with my girlfriend. We had never fought before. We had plans for Valentine's Day. I bought 2 tickets to go to a concert, also I bought flowers and chocolates, but my g...

I don't know how to handle this stage of our relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - I have posted problems re. my girl and me before. Just to provide summary. She is 25 years younger than me and we are related through a mutual sister in that her mum and my dad are our little sister's parents. This makes us step-brother and sister, ...

How do I show her that I've moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Okay so me and my ex has been broken up for almost a week now. And people are telling me that she's saying I've been playing on her phone but honestly i haven't even attempted to call her.. and it makes me angry because I'm trying show her that I ...

Boyfriend taking advantage of me being jealous!

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19 February 2011 (F) - i am 13 and my bf is 14. im a very jealous person but my bf seems to be taking advantage of this, one day he came out of lesson telling me how big this other girls breasts are and her bra size. he has done this to me with many girls on many dif...

He denied being interested, but his actions seem to say something else; what does it mean?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I've been getting mixed vibes from this guy for the last 6 (give or take) months. From the extremes of playfighting with me and teaching me to play cod for 6hrs, to completely ignoring me as if I were invisible. His own sister came up to me an...

My baby's daddy is being bad!

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19 February 2011 (F) - My daughters father has been paying for t-girls, smoking weed, watching porn and calling girls behind my back, please someone give me words of wisdom?...

What do I do with my intense love/hate relationship with my gf??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do anymore, because my ex and I have a love-hate relationship. I've lost count of how many times she's dumped me and vice versa. Both of she and I work so hard to stay out of each others way so we can move on but then l...

Should I live with my friend even though having his gf there will make me so jealous and upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Sorry... this is a long story. I’ve known a guy since I was 7 years old. Let’s call him John. He lived near my grandparents so I would see him at around Christmas time every year. My whole life I’ve had feelings for him. When we were a bit older...

After I got angry with my bf, he cheated, and now I wonder if it I my fault!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. When him and I fight, one of us says "its over" and the other one always ignores it because in the morning it doesn't matter. My son had a doctor's appointment valentines day at 12 pm, we...

How do I get over all my securities? My guy says this could ruin our relationship if I can't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - how do i get over my insecurities? My insecurities hold me back from a lot of things as far as my relationship with my boyfriend. i feel embarrassed at times when we make love and when we partake in other intimate activities. he constantly tells me...

How can I get my bf to talk to me about issues in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now. I truly love him with all of my heart. We've had our ups and downs within these months but we've also conquered them somehow. It's very hard to talk to him about things that go through my mind ...

Guy I'm seeing doesn't know who he is or what he wants., and I don't know how to deal with it.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I've been in a complicated relationship with a guy. We met 3 1/2 years ago. It's been crazy and unhealthy, but I could use some help to figure this guy out. Firstly, we met and he was with someone else. I knew that. They were having a bunch of ...

I told my boyfriend I don't really enjoy sex, and he's taken it personally, as if he was bad in bed! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hey all. So I'm 17 and I'm sexually active (about 7 months now). And honestly, I'm not a fan. My boyfriend is the only person I've ever had sex with. (We've been together since we were 15.) To be honest, sex was never really and interest of mine...

Scarred by the past--how do I learn to open up?

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19 February 2011 (F) - I had a child when i was 16 and the father denied the pregnancy. This whole thing affected me so badly that I find it difficult to stay in a relationship. When the person I'm with tries to get close I push them away and tell them that I'm wasting ...

How do I deal with his financial secrecy and his constant criticism?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I've been dating a guy for close to 2 years. We have a 6 month old baby and I asked how much he was getting back in taxes and he flipped like I shouldn't know. Then he proceeded to say all I cared about was his money. And when I said, "our taxes," ...

How is it he expects a housewife without marrying me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been living with my bf for 2 years now. We were in a long distance relationship before for almost 5 years. I moved in with him 2 years ago, and we've been living together ever since. The beginning was great; we were so happy with eac...

I think I have fallen and don't want to go any deeper

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I met a man on a website...I wasn't expecting much from it but now my heart is in it. We have been chatting on and off for about 6 weeks now. He does text me as well but lately it has gotten less. It was supposed to be fun, but I got a bit shy when ...

Drunken text has caused quite a strain in our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Look I need advice. Last Tuesday, the day after Valentine's, I had a little fight with my girlfriend. We had never fought before. I sent a stupid text while I was very drunk. She got really upset because she said I was comparing her to my ex. ...

He's unmotivated, unemployed and I'm feeling emotionally detached from him. Should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, I need some advise. I am 23 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He is such an amazing man. I have never been treated so well in a relationship. We do EVERYTHING together. If we are not working or in ...

I told him I'm pregnant today. He became abusive and aggressive with me. Where do I go from here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - hi everyone, im 22 and this guy is 20. i need some good advice here. today i found out that i'm pregnant this is my first time being pregnant and the guy im pregnant for he's a player. its been nearly 3half weeks i havent heard from him. he's been...

I am gutted. Is he fobbing me off, for doubting him? Or is he angry with me? Or is it over

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Been going out with my fella for 6 months now and we just had our first fall out - need to say sorry which i have done several times - don't know what else to do he sent me a today to say he can't come sunday - was gutted as i only see him once a we...