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Archived questions from: 22 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I can handle 1 kid but 3 kids is too much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Well the other day my boyfriend, me, his ex wife, her two kids, and the one child they share went and played frisbe golf which was fine but it was soooo hectic with 3 hyper-active kids and then i felt really awkward it felt like i had a chaperone ...

I don't understand his sudden loss of interest. I can't get this man out of mind!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I met a guy, one who appears to be the perfect man. After a week of talking on the phone, we met. In my opinion, it was a nice weekend. After he left on Monday, we had a good conversation, but not as great as it was before we met each other. By ...

Unhappy with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hi there! I'm 17 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. But, I'm so unhappy, I can't talk about anything I enjoy with him, only his interests. I also can't have 'deep' conversations with him, he also has poor personal hygiene and mann...

My boyfriend no longer helps me clean house and he's lost his sex drive. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I just don't know where to begin…Okay I have been with my boyfriend almost 1 year. I do love him and I know he loves me. But is that enough? He lived with me for a while, but we decided it was best not to live together. I have 4 kids, and I was ma...

Can I stay with my bf who, at 45, is terrible at money management and always in a financial crisis?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - My bf always seems to have a financial crisis. I met my bf for over a year now. Few months after we were dating exclusive, I noticed that he was always anxious about money. Though, he doesn’t make lots of money but he works full time and make ar...

My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love ...

What should I do about my husband's friend's wife? I can't stand the woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - My husband's friend's wife is a pain the wrong place. She is a bitchy person and can never have a good word to say about anyone. She is super fake and is all nice and pally with everyone though. She bitches to me about everyone else, what is the ...

If he makes a move on me, how do I stay faithful to my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - a year ago, me and this boy i liked kissed, but we didnt go out, and stopped talking after a while. now i have a really lovely boyfriend, but this boy has come back into my life again. he's got a reputation as a bit of a tool, and he's really ...

Should I give up the love of my life for his happiness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - So I'll start off with a quick background story, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half, I love him more than anything, he got me through a really rough patch in my life (the death of a friend and illness in my family), ...

The perils of a blind trust.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - When I met my boyfriend online in August 2010, what we found out about each other was that we were both Christians seeking a committed partner and shared a lot in common. Though we had differing views sexwise (i did not believe in pre-marital sex ...

My boyfriend wants to sleep in my bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - This is the problem. My boyfriend and I already decided to get married. He just informed me he would like to sleep in my bed but it isn't a must cause he has slept alone for so long. Should I be concerned?...

Guys help me out, why does my boyfriend still check out women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (?) - My boyfriend is a huge flirt and he works in bars as a sound guy for bands, so he's around lots of women. He also admits he would rather talk to women, it's more fun... Not sure he would actually cheat on me, but not crazy about this or comfortable ...

He sort of cheats with dirty talk with girls fhrough emails, what should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hi All, I've been with my boyfriend for about 9months now. In this time i have caught him chatting up girls via email (randoms and old friends). We got through this and all was fine and i thought he had changed but recently he left his email ac...

How do I deal with her, I love her but she does not want to get serious??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - I don't know when to say "I love you" to her...but there is more to it... To fully understand I need you to give the full story. last month I began dating one of my old best friend whom I have very deep history with. I've known her since the 7th ...

I'm gay and falling for my straight best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - My name is Phillip and I am gay. This whole situation is going to get a little complex so bare with me. In November 2009 I told my friend Cory that I love him and since then he has avoided coming anywhere near me. I wasn't hurt because he was ...

He left me for another woman while I was pregnant. I need advice. Has this happened to others?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I feel like am going through an emotional hell just now and any advice would be welcome. I am 20 weeks pregnant and my ex broke up with me just when we found out. To cut a long story short, we have had a very close friendship for over a year. We...

I keep cheating on my partner with my ex! I know I am hurting others and myself, so how do I stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - My ex and I had a baby, she is 2 now. We really never got along, but when we did it was great. About when my daughter was one there were more problems between us- just trying to get situated with all the changes. I ended up sleeping with a guy from ...

He cant marry me because of his parents......

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I've been in an on/off relationship with this guy for many years now. We always break up due to one problem, his parents. Our parents come from the same country and religious background, however he strongly believes that his parents will never ...

Is he cheating because he doesn't want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hey, I really want my boyfriend to have relaxed sex but hes always too serious! He goes for about 2 minutes and then says stop being childish, I have to get rest. I'm thinking of breaking up with him because hes been not wanting to have sex, ...

My girlfriend and her slutty drinkin buddy......

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - This is just as much a general question as it is specific to me. So here are my thoughts. I've been seeing this girl for a couple months now. It's not long enough to be something too serious, yet it's moving fast. It's safe to say we're exclus...

I am dating my ex's friend, is this wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hi there can anybody give me some advice please? I started seeing a guy last year, he is of different religion to me and within a few days i could tell he was a jealous person and trying to gain control of me. He didnt like me going out with ...

Addicted to running but injured and having to watch my partner train, can we survive this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Hi. I'm currently seeing a psychiatrist for an addiction to running. Sounds silly I know but it's a huge problem for me. I'm injured at the moment and can't run for about 3 months more, it's been 2 already. Problem is that my partner is a runner too ...

Everyone is trying to break us up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - hey, i am seeing this boy we have only been together about 2months now and its been so hard as everyone is getting involved in our business. for the last 2 weeks we have been arguing all the time because other people keep sticking there noses in. ...

A not so jolly holiday. I don't think he is right. Any opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 1 year has 2 children from his previous marriage. I invited them to to our family Christmas dinner. He came along with his children, but didn't accept the invitation for certain until a few days before Christmas. He was very ups...

My life turned upside-down as people consider me as an attractive girl and I was rejected by a not so good-looking person.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I have met this person in my university. He's not in my institute but still we met in the university canteen where he was campaigning about some event. We met twice or thrice. At first, there wasn't anything but after some time I felt something for ...

How do I get over him if I don't want to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - So im still having the same guy problems as ive had for like a year now. I havent spoken to him in like 2months because he hasnt been answering me. I finally got hold off him the other night when i was drunk, i pretnended i was ringing for someone ...

Should I end it with my long term lover(A), despite his objections, so I can be with (B)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I've been in a relationship for the past 5 years with (A). There's always fights and no understanding between us. It was a type of compromise. Even though we were planning to get married. A few months back one of my close friends (B) suggested a ...

Should I meet up with my birth mother?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - hello i am 15 and i have been adopted sence i was 2 becoz my mum could not look after me and she did not know my dad or my brothers dad and my brother so my nan and grandad decided to adopted us. my mum used to come a visit me and my brother every ...

I want to talk to my mother about going on birth control pills. How do I ask her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I'll be turning 17 in just over a month, and I've stayed a virgin for the fact that I'm waiting for the right guy. The older I get, the more difficult I find it to keep my virginity. So, I'd much rather be safe than sorry if anything were to end up ...

Do guys always have a back up girl if they can't get with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Do guys always have a back up girl if they can't get with you? I met this guy at a cafe and we talked and we hit it off real good, we kind of dated but we were never in a relationship. However, the last month he's met another girl at the same cafe. ...

Scared I might get taken away from my parents...help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - So I have p.o and she’s threatening to take my sister and me out of our homes (cause we don’t live together). I don’t have a good relationship with my parents at all. But I have heard horrible things about foster homes and teen detention centers. I ...

4 years and I don't think I can stay any longer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my little girls dad for 4 years now. Our baby is 11 months old and I have a little boy that is 7, from a previous relationship. My boyfriend constantly looks at porn and pictures of naked girls. He even looks at girls when we go ...

Why cant I get a date and have fallen for someone who is taken?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - well i will soon be 21 and i cant feel worse about myself i havent even had my first kiss yet not that i havent had offers even for sex but im not into sex without being in a commited relationship and im only attracted to ceartin pple (not shallow ...

Older man is paying for everything with the girl that I love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - I have been into a relationship since 1yr and it has rlly pull me down. my girl was disvirgined by a man of 40 and she was 18 then when i met her, i advise her to quit the relationship which she did.She likes given her phone number out to guys and ...

Long Distance romantic or sketchy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I went to boarding school for three years. I have taken yoga out of those three years at school. The last year at this school and yoga I finally noticed this guy who has been there for three years. We never spoke if we did it was only about small ...