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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2011 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm trying so hard to change myself and do everything she's asked, but I feel like it's not good enough. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - So I've dated this girl P for 5 years. We dated for 3 years, got engaged 2 years ago and had planned our wedding. We did have some problems mostly my family and P didn't get along. In addition we did have some personality conflicts (I'm stubborn and ...

He is back on the dating site, where we met, and he won't add me on Facebook. Is he taking me for a fool, or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Help needed please, I'm going insane here - been seeing this guy for 6 months he lives an hour away from me and works afternoon shifts so I only see him once a week - sometimes twice, he texts nearly every day, says he is very comfy and happy with ...

My boyfriend falsely accuses me of cheating, but I think he's the one who is being dishonest! What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Hi,and thanks for reading. My bf and I have been together about 3 years now. Throughout our relationship, he has accused me of being with other men. I’ve never been disloyal to him, so there’s no reason he should feel as though I am cheating on ...

I still love my girlfriend, but she has cheated on me twice and doesn't seem to regret it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - My girlfirend has cheated on me twice now and she doesn't seem to regret her actions. The last time she cheated, I found them together. When I spoke with her about the issue, she took the other guy's side. What should I do because I still love her?...

My boyfriend's friends pressure him to be single like them. He broke up with me, but immediately regretted it. Should I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 14 months. We are both 17. Our relationship has been very good. We love spending time together and have lots of fun. We rarely have disagreements, but when we do, we are able to talk things over ...

We work two different shifts, and my boyfriend blames me for everything! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I'm in a two year relationship where we are on two different work schedules. The problem is everyday I'm at fault for everything that goes on between us. We don't have that much time due to him getting off work at late hours in the morning, and I ...

Married only 3 months, and we haven't had sex for 2 months. He watches porn and rejects my advances. Advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I have been married only 3 months, and we had sex in the 1st month of marriage. I caught my husband watching porn in the morning when I was not around, and we do not have sex now. Whenever I try to seduce him he gets irritated and tells me he's ...

What do you do when your in love with a person who manipulates you & try to change & control who you are?

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16 February 2011 (F) - i'm in a two year relationship where we are on two different schedules. The problem is everyday i'm at fault for everything that goes on between us. We don't have that much due to him getting off work at late hours in the morning and i have to get ...

I want to throw my SIM into the river so he can't get in touch with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Hi, just a question that i'm really struggling to find the answer to. Sorry its really long. I got offered a really good opportunity to study at a world-class university for a year and I took it. I left my boyfriend back home because to me a year ...

Do I go along with things or put my foot down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - what do i do for the best? My partner recently split after 7 yrs and 2 kids. The relationship completly broke down and he moved out. He went home to his mum. He looks after our kids whilst i work 3 hrs in the evening. His mum has lung cancer o...

I'm in love with my ex, pregnant by a rebound, want the ex back - how can I now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I moved on too quickly with this new man. I was upset about my breakup with the ex and rebounded to this new man. I used protection but my body resisted the pill I used and have fallen pregnant. I painfully told the ex who I want to get back with ...

Bringing sex toys into a relationship, good or bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - My fiance and I have been together about four years now. We don't have the most exciting sex life, but that is mostly due to her lack of libido and stressful work at the moment. Still, we manage 1-2 times per week and I always make sure she is taken ...

I feel jealous and sad when no one comments when I make remarks on face book

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Hi There, I know I'm a good person both inside and out however, is it normal to feel rather jealous or sad that whenever I make a comment on my page on FB no one responses or comments on my comments or thoughts? It seems that these "friends" ...

We're stuck sexually, I'm going to Mexico soon and she's freaking out after I fingered her. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - So I've been together with a girl for like 14 months and things are going pretty good but kinda suck on the "sexual" side... She's beautiful and kind and I really do care about her but not much happens in our "alone time" other than lots of kissing ...

I'm very distant and impersonal with everyone. I don't know why I can't stop being this way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Ok this is my very first time trying to seek advise but I really need some answers... for as long as I can remember now I have been distant towards everyone... my family, friends, in all my relationships... I'm just very impersonal and wish I could ...

Am I out of line expecting more out of my mate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - Me and my fiance are having problems ever since I asked her to marry me. First it was the ring, she wants something bigger and more expensive. Its hard for me because I am unemployed. Second she constantly points out things that are wrong and things ...

My boyfriend fell for the the fake profile that I created on a social networking site, to test him . What do I do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I made a fake profile today on a social network and decided to add my boyfriend and see what he would do. Before him, I was in a really bad relationship full of lying and cheating, so I guess you can say I've become bitter and distrusting. I know he ...

Will a guy ever trust/like you again after you've slapped them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, thanks in advance for reading this:) So I have really disappointed myself. I have been dating a guy for a while, and we have had our differences, but lately things were perfect. We celebrated my birthday last week and it was great, t...

My on/off girlfriend wants us to sleep with others. I'm not sure how to feel about this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - im a 33 year old male and have had a on/off relationship with my 27 year old girlfriend for 4 years,our last break up was 8 months but have been seeing each other more casually for 3 months,we do love each other but tried living together and it ...

Shes being distant but won't tell me why

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I asked this a few days ago but didn't get much of a response so thought I'd re-post it. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months, always got on really really well. She has a son and we both decided that I would be his dad after ab...

Is he being hot and cold?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - Dear all, I ruined valentines day for me and my man by not wanting to come to his place because i felt tired and i didn't know he had a surprise for me. I went to his place anyway and gave him his gift but he felt terrible because his surprise was...

I need me time and feel we need to go our separate ways

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - Hey guys i feel like i asked this question 5 times before and im always hoping for a better easier solution to my problem. Anyway here goes my dilemma. I have been with my girlfriend for 3-4 years now and we have a 2 year old baby girl who i adore ...

What can I do to help my boyfriend get over his emotional affair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I've been in love with my boyfriend (ex-fiance) for the past four years. I recently discovered that he has been having an emotional affair with a girl he went to junior high with years ago. I have not read all of the emails, but the glimpses I catch ...

Need Help finding direction in my Life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - I haven't had some very rough times in life but one series of events I am still trying to get back on my feet from and I have never recovered from them since they happened. I was thrown into an opposing and hostile culture when I was in 9th grade ...

Why does he show interest only when I distance myself?

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16 February 2011 (F) - I have another post so i wont repeat myself, my ex came bk to the country and because of the problems i was having with him i didnt meet him straight away anyways i finaly met with him after 2weeks to get my money bk and the meeting turned out into ...

Is it normal to think about cheating if you've only been married for 2 months. I'm in a sexless marriage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, I was just wondering whether it's normal to think about cheating if you have only been married 2 months and already sex is out of the question. Tried talking about it, but personal issues on my partner's side mean we don't. I have ...

I just found out my wife had 2 "friends with benefits" around the time we were dating. How can I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - I've been happily married for ten years. I thought I knew of all my wife's past sexual partners and some details, even the ones she cheated on me with, but I got past all that and have not had any problems. Recently, I found out about 2 friends ...

How many times should I let my friend stand me up? Does this mean they don't want to hang out with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - If a friend says they'll do something with you with you, but then cancels plans at the last minute to spend time with their partner, (who the friend complains completely takes them for granted), how many times should you allow this to happen before ...